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i like my best guy friend
one of my stupid friends told him i liked him and then he texted me and told me he liked me to but the next day i found out he had a girlfriend and now we dont really talk and thats the reason i didnt want him to know because i thought it would mess up r friend ship i think i should just try to move on (in a way i dont want to)but my friends think i should wait to c if him and his girl friend break up what should i do
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Leave the dude alone. He has a girlfriend. Respect that and maybe he will dump her and ask you out.
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I agree with the others but also want to add that you should consider that he IS with another girl and the fact that you like him, whether he likes you or not, will have changed the friendship as he now knows about it. Whether this will be for the better long term or the worse, you can never go back.
I can see a multitude of possibilities here, but three stick out. Either 1, he doesn't really like you and was saying it to save your feelings, or 2, he's a really decent guy and wants to make sure that he gives the relationship with his girlfriend a really good go and make sure that he's not going to finish with her for the wrong reasons or 3, he does like you but he likes his girlfriend more.
Whichever way, give him some space. He's got a lot to think about right now, make sure he knows you will be there if he wants to be friends like before but back off him a bit and let him off the pressure. If he really does like you more than his girlfriend, then he will come round in his own time, and if not, you might just save a friendship.
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I agree with Jasmine, but I'd also have to say don't really wait around. If he wants to be with you, it'll happen, but don't sit and wait for it because, sorry to say, it might not happen and you don't want to think you've wasted your time. So my advice? You can still hope for it, but don't let it get in the way of meeting new people. You never know. And also, if this guy stopped talking to you, it could be because he's a good enough guy that he doesn't want anything to happen while he's still taken, which would therefore make him a cheater. Goodluck and keep smiling! :)
~RF
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For starters you have to remember that he is taken. And He may like you but he is still with her. And You don't want to be with someone who Plays the field when he is in a relationship. It just puts up big red flags! I would wait to see if he actually does leave his girlfriend. Because he may just be saying that to see what you say.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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