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Breaking Up. Will Rate!
okay, so im 16/f, my bf/15 of over seven months just broke up with me. he broke up with me a week before my birthday(which was like 4 days ago, and ill be 17) through a text message in my first period class. i had wanted to break up with him before like 4 times but stuck it through bc he begged me, i didnt want to hurt him, and i wanted to work it out as well. SO i begged him not to break up with me, i asked him to give it a week and if he felt the same then i would break up with him. he gave it over night. i gave him four chances and he didnt even give me one. he's such a jerk. it was hard on me, i cried the whole week. well, now im mad. so ive got a mission to make him want me. im going to make him miss me and beg to get back together so that i can say 'im sorry, you broke up with me. i just cant do that.' phase one of the mission is complete:aka:knowing he actually cares. i deleted all pics of us on facebook, put a status that said had a great day and cant wait for the weekend up (so itll make him wonder) and today i sat at lunch with a hot guy (my ex and i have the same lunch together at school...and the hot guy is just a friend) well the hot guy knows the situation(he has a gf) and will talk and touch my shoulder or something to provoke my ex if hes looking. well it worked! at lunch my ex kept walking up and down the lunchroom, he pretended to pay for extra lunch, kept looking at us the whole time. it was GREAT. now i dont know what im supposed to do. do i keep doing what im doing now? do something different? and if i do something different, what would that be and when am i supposed to do it? how do i make him want to talk to me? (because we havent spoken since the breakup and im giving him the space he wants so im just going to wait for him to make the first move). what do i do next? PLEASE help me, as MANY suggestions as possible, good advice, i need it. and i WILL Rate :)
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You're psycho.
Listen, you have to learn to let go. You weren't going to marry this guy. It is just a high school romance. Yeah, it seems like a big deal now, but after you grow up you will barely be able to recall it.
Every relationship has an expiration date attached to it. Sometimes it's six weeks other times it's 60 years. You just have to roll with the changes and try to learn from it. But seeking some kind of small minded payback is totally counterproductive, not to mention a big waste of time and energy.
You're almost an adult. Start acting like it.
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As a 17yearold guy, sitll in highschool, i would personally HATE it if my ex girlfriend did that to me. Yes, it will make me jealous, just like how you are trying to make me jealous. But you missed one thing....
YOU ARE MAKING HIM JEALOUS.
Being jealous doesnt make somebody want you back, especially guys. Guys will get pissed off and perceive you as a bitch, and wouldnt want to talk to you again. And firstly, even if your whole plan actually works, he will only come back to you for all the wrong reasons. So it isnt even worth the effort.
I remmebered when me and my ex broke up, and she was trying to seem all happy and touching other guys, and i lost it. It did NOT make me want her more, it just made me HATE her even more, and im sorry to say, thats probably what your boyfriend will do. He will hate you, and you making him jealous and acting immature about the whole situation wont make him any closer to getting back with you. It will make him realise how immature you are and he will move on.
If you REALLY wanna get him back, i suggest talking to him in a mature manner and tell him all the things you feel about him, because i know as a guy myself, i would hate it if a girl did that to me. Hope i helped :)
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if your friends girl friend knows you to r just friends then i think its ok but just dont go to far like kissing or something anyways about your ex you should just keep doing what your doing but change the guy every once in awhile some one who doesn't have a girl friend then once you have his attention tell him you've moved on already o and good luck
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First off,. sorry to be blunt. But are you really that much of a bitch? I'm not usually this mean BUT please just read this and then do what you want with it.
Secondly You gave him chances because you thought you two could work it out. You didn't give him one chance, not two or three. But Four Chances. Don't you think that's a little much. You obviously were seeing some problems in the relationship in all four times that made you want to get out of the relationship.
Thirdly.
I completely understand the whole making him jealous,. and making him want you back but! Don't you want him to want you for who you are. and all the things about you that are amazing.
Now by pretending to flirt with this Friend of yours (WHO HAS A GF!) might work but Could completely back fire on you. For you are flirting with a hot guy what a few days after you broke up.. Showing him that you really don't give a f*#k. Well That will just make him hate you more.
And what if this got back you your friends girlfriend how do you think you would feel if you were in the gf's position.
Making him jealous just to say I'm sorry you broke my heart and have a nice life is extremely cold. I know he hurt you and The fact he DIDN't give you a chance because he didn't see it going anywhere is not either of you guys' faults. sometimes things just don't work.
move on. Forget about him. KArma WILL Get him in the long run. Trust me on that one.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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