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Connection with my gf
Hello, I have a problem that I hope you can help me with. I have been going out with my gf for about 2-3 months and well I'm just not feeling it. We met on a trip I took to equador, same tour group, and it may have just been the glamour of the country that made me feel for her. Sometimes I enjoy her company but I have looked at her and said "I am not attracted to this girl" not just physically but I am not feeling a connection. The problem is that we have made plans for an event in a month or two so I wouldnt be able to break up with her. Plus I am not even sure if that is what I want to do. Everyone and I mean EVERYONE has been commenting on how great she is and how sweat we are and on and on in that manner so there is alot of pressure. So I guess what I am asking is, should I give it more time? I have not been in many relationships...is this just a normal "slow down" thing that happens?
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You pretty much just answered your own question..
You said I'm not attracted to this girl., I enjoy her company but there's no connection left.
Sometimes that happens to people. It's not a bad thing. but even thought you two have planned an even in a month. is it really worth staying with someone that your not attracted to that you don't really like,. but see more as a friend. it will hurt her i'm sure,. but You should not lead this person on if you don't feel the same.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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If you're not happy, you're not happy. There is no point to be with someone just to keep them happy. Maybe you should give it another week... maybe even another month. But if you don't want to be with her, don't force yourself. There are plenty of people in the world. I'm sure if she is that sweet, she can find someone else. Be sure you don't want to be with her though... You wouldn't want to miss her when she is gone. And just tell her you aren't feeling it anymore. It's not like you are married to her. This is just my opinion. Hope I could help(:
~Punkett
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