alright, i've got a moderately small and intricate clique at school. about 6 girls. anyway, we're all best friends, and don't really hang out with anyone more than anybody else. but then someone else joined our little group (lindsay). and joy has been really down(who's usually really outgoing and loud) she just, i dunno, she and lindsay hung out a whole lot. they have a million inside jokes, and they can't be separated more than 2 feet. joy tells lindsay virtually everything... like why she's so depressed and stuff. things she won't tell us at all.
the rest of us feel kind of like she dumped us, i guess. dropped us for someone more worthy or something. i confronted her, and she felt all bad and stuff, but she just went back to lindsay, and i feel like i'm losing a friend... what should i do?
I think you need to tell her how you feel in a nice fashion. Just tell her that you and the rest of the group want to be there for her but you all feel left out. Tell her that you love the fact that shes really close with lindsay but you wish she was still open with the rest of you. Sometimes when a person is kind of depressed and lonely the shut everyone out. maybe lindsay is the only one that she feels comfortable talking to in this point in time. Just be supportive to her decision. Good luck hope things work out
-holly-
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i accidentally asked my question to myself and i meant for it to be for the whole site. How do I get it posted on the whole site without waiting seven days?
Go ahead and re-ask it!
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hey!..im 16 female..i got a note that i wrote to my ex bf and i dont know if i should send it or not...it also feels like im stalkin him..if im wonder what hes doing or something..is that stalkin him or what?
Nah your just a curious Ex girlfriend! I dont think he'll think your a stalker! Go ahead and give him the note i dont think you have anything to worry about
-holly-
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Now I have this friend (boy) who i tend to like a lot! and sometimes it's weird we see each other a lot but in not the right places and we barely really know each other...but we do...i know this is kinda confusing..lol..but anyways, he asked my friends if i like him and they asked me...i mean i would say yes but the only thing is i dont really "trust" these friends...because they could come out and tell EVERYBODY! and i dont want that..you know..i think he figured out that i like him...i dont constantly stare...he does sometimes...does that mean he likes me? is it wrong for me to like him when i barely know him? should i ask my friend to ask him out for me? HELP!
Signed,
Confused Cupcake (lol)
hey confused Cupcake lol cute name! Hmm ok well my advice is if you like him and you dont trust those friends tell him yourself girl! Dont waste no time! The way this sounds i'd say it does sound like he likes you... Or he has a staring problem... but i doubt thats it LOL :D Get his phone number and talk to him get to know him, and then hook up... or hook up and learn more about him. I dont think its wrong to go out with someone that you dont know much about! lol maybe i dont think its wrong cuz i've done it... either way its up to you, you can wait and get to know him, or hook it up and then get to know him better! Good luck!
-Holly-
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Does anybody have any good ideas for cool clothes you can make yourself?
Hey I have a friend that took these jeans and put like marks of blech on them! It looked awesome! But make sure you dont put to much! Good luck!
-holly-
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*~Confesions*~
You say you wanna be true with me
So you start confessing
Befor you start already a tear drops down
You confess everything
It feels like my heart broke
Tears are pouring down
I say how can you do this to me
He says Im sorry
I know Its over
I say Its over
Even though i know i did the right thing
I still love him
But i cant trust him
He lost y trust
So now its over
Maybe someday
My tears will go away.
Awww :( ya know it reminds me of myself and my ex boyfriend.... STUPID GUYS!! THEY ALL SUCK! hehe just joking boys! :) I'm totally guy crazy so dont think i hate ya'll! :-D
-holly-
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theres this guy and we went out but broke up and i still have feelings for him i dont want 2 b obvious ethr can u help me signed i need help
Ok well if you see him with another girl dont act like you care just smile and shrug it off :). Dont let him know your jealous... for some reason guys like to figure out your weakness and then keep doing it! I know i've got a guy like that :D... but i learn to deal with it. And if you want to stop liking him focus on a sport or some other activity, and start lookin for another guy that catches your eye.
-Holly-
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Ok, I really like this guy Dillon and I also like his friend Drew but Drew told me he likes me too but has a girlfriend. Dillon on the other hand is single and I dont know if he likes me too but Dillon and I broke up earlier in the year I still love him and I want to tell him but I like Drew too. Wut do I do?
Ok well first off talk to Dillon and see if he still has feelings for you. As for Drew he has a girlfriend and maybe later down the road you two can date. If you love Dillon go for him. But if he doesnt like you anymore dont dwell on it move on and or wait around till Drew decides what he wants and what not. If he cant decided find a better guy! Theres plenty of fish in the sea! Good luck with this problem
-Holly-
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Okay my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now. One of his really good friends is a girl and she and I don't get along. I dislike her because she has talked trash about him behind his back early on in our relationship telling me that I shouldn't like him, that he's a horrible person and he's a bad kisser and all this mean stuff. She used the fact that she dated hima s an excuse as well. She and I never were really good friends but she and he always have be like good friends. I now realize how hard it is for him. Because we dont like each other. He's told me how she'd make a comment when he would say he was with me or something about me and sometimes I'll admit I would roll my eyes and maybe make a comment when he talked about her. I've realized this is hard for him. I'm not sure if I want to be her friend but I do want to make things easier for him and easier for our relationship because at one point this situationw as a big factor and reason for our fights. And after our last big fight it came up again after it wasnt for like 2 months. I don't know if I should set aside my differences with her or if I should just ignore it? help please!
Ok no matter what you wont be able to ignore her and maybe shes kind of out to make you jealous or piss you off, a lot of girls are like that. But I think you 3 should talk online in like a chat or all go to someones house and just let each other know that its hard on all the relationships. and he should lay down the law as a friend to her that she shouldnt be trash talking you to him. Let her know that you dont have a problem with her and you want to set aside your differences and clear things up. If she is a good enough friend to him she will step back and realize that shes blowing it out of porpotion *Sorry cant spell worth beans!* he does need to let her know about his feelings and how its putting him into a hard situation because he likes you and has been dating you for a long time and hes good friends with her and you both dont like him. If shes a good friend she'll try and clear things up with you and stop being a total bitch about things, and you'll try and stand her... Good luck with everything and i hope it all works out for the best!!!
-Holly-
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I have a large very sore lump on my head near my neck. I want to know what it is and if it is serious.
Go to the doctor and figure it out! Dont wait to long you never know what might happen! Good luck and I hope its nothing serious
-holly-
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After a graduated from high school two years ago, i met a girl that liked one of my friends. She started talking to me about him and trying to get them together. OVer the summer she talked to me all the time and she eventually liked me and we got really close. We almost got together but decided that we stay friends and thats where we became best friends. She called me like everyday and stuff and we hung out alot. We go to the same college and during our first year we talked but not a lot. LIke once a week or so. Then she would always give me shit on how i never call her but everytime i did she was off boning her bf that she met that year. And everytime i wanted to hang out she would blow me off for some other guys(not her bf) like frat guys. Then she kept saying that we are "best friends" but she treats me like i dont exist. What do you think?
Talk to her and let her know how you feel! Let her know that you dont mind if she hangs out with other people but you'd like sometime for yourself as well! Also tell her that you miss her a lot and you want to be close again! maybe invite her to dinner a few days in advance... Good luck and i hope things work
-holly-
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well I think I am a stylish person but I want to be me not everyone eles. I mean everyone shops at aripostle or whatever but they never used to tell I started wearing it. I mean it was cool for a while but now its like get your oun style
Signed,
wants to be herself
15/f
No matter what people will copy you! I know it sucks :-/ but maybe get a new way to dress now, like totally different from the aripostle... Good luck and I hope everything goes well
-holly-
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Ok my friend Candace really likes this boy right. And she is only 14 and she told him she luved him and he told her he did to. But she doesnt know if it was real though. What should she do she is like Luvs him but then she has another boy she luvs to and she luvs them alot the thing is they are cousins. lol..so yeah she likes them both goes out with them both and she can both talk to them really good like there conversations are always good and interesting. and she likes them both alot. but luvs them both. is that even possible? what should i say to her? *she likes them both the same way and she luvs them both??
Alright thats not real love if she thinks she loves both of them! She may like them both but i doubt its love! She needs to pick one of them or dont pick one at all, cuz its not nice to play people like that! Believe me I know how it feels to be played. You just need to let her know that she cant have both of them, she needs to step back and look at them both and decide which one can bring more to the relationship and who would be better for her. and if they both find out what shes doing they wont like it and it'll make even more of a mess! Good luck with your friend
-holly-
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There is this boy named Joseph he his really cute and really sweet and im really into him and he is into me to. But see he is friends with one of my friends his name is Donald. And Donald has a little brother named Bryan. Ok see my problem is all three of them like me and want to go out with me. But see i didnt know Donald and Bryan like me till recently. I asked y didnt they say any thing and response was cause joseph wanted to go with you but see i dont know if i want to go with joseph. I think i might want to go out with donald but i cant do that with out one of them finding out and turning into a big mess but i think i really do want to go with joseph what should i do sign~Triple Trouble
Ok first off sounds like Bryans out of the picture so you dont need to worry about him. And you need to pick Joseph or Donald... I know its hard I find myself in the same situation all the time! But you just need to step back and look at each one and their qualitys and think about what they can bring to a relationship with you. Whatever one will treat you better go with that. Dont make a discision to fast. Also whoever you pick let them know that dont get mad, and if they get mad they will get over it sooner or later. Good luck and i hope you make the right choice!
-Holly-
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me and my bf were talking last night and he kept saying i hate my brother i wish aron was my bro (thats his cousin) and he kept saying it and saying it and like i hate him i wish he wasnt my brother and i said im glad your bro is your bro and he said why do you always stick up for him? and i said cuz.. i have my reasons and he said he hated his bro more and more and kept going on and i got really mad b-cuz i love my brother and my brother is dead so out of that i said at least your bro didnt fricken die... was saying that totally wrong? i mean he kept going on and on and i wanted my point across and i've never told him it b4 but now he knows and after i said that it was a loooooong silence but then we hung up and he called back and said... i love you... and then we got off the phone with that
HELL NO THATS NOT WRONG! Seriously i knew this person that she told her sister or someone like that, that she hated them and she left.. and when she came home late that night, someone had burnt their house down and they were dead! Seriously it wasnt wrong at all you got your point acrossed! I hope he just understands it!
-holly-
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Im 16/f and i think im addicted to alcohol...whenever i see it i must have one...its really bad....ive been drinking for abotu two years now...and im always safe about it..i just ALWAYS want it...like if my rents go out for 15 minutes im in the cabinet taking out vodka...i really dont know what to do...
I think you need to go to like a rehab place and get some help! that is a pretty bad thing to get addicted too! and you dont want to throw away your life like that! I wish you the best of luck and i hope you get the help you need
-holly-
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ok im almost 15 and i only have a 34A... i hate it. I heard that if you sleep with no bra on at night your boobs will grow faster because the bra isnt there... but i dont know... and i also herad that moving your arms in circular motion everyday will also increase the size... my mom has big boobs.. why cant i!!!!?
HA I FEEL YOUR PAIN! I'm 15 as well and i'm a 36A... I know how it is! But the worst thing is! theres nothing you can do :( I know i hate that too! But it is good for you to sleep with no bra on... it lets them breath.. lol :) But ya got to slowly get comfortable with your size... its takin me a long time too! Dont worry there is a girl thats way smaller!!! in time you will be busty... if not thats when breast inplants come in :) hehe
-Holly-
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Ok me and my ex boyfriend were going out for 4 months and we broke up and went back out the next month.. and he has changed alot.. in a good way and a bad way.. because he used to talk about other girls and everything with me but now he acts like he doesnt have time for me and he is always yelling at me .. but i really love him and i dont want to break up with him but i know i should because he treats me like crap.. i dont kno what to do.
Ok i know its SO hard to get out of relationships that you think your in love in. But that isnt real love! Seriously sorry to be so blunt but if he loved you he wouldnt be a dick like that! No one deserves to be treated like that no one! Get out before he gets worse... and focus on like some sport or something to get your mind off of him! Cast your fishing hook back into the sea and look for a new fish! :) good luck and hope things work out for the best
-Holly-
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im trying to have a new look for 8 grade. I need tips on what kind of hair is in? A purm or what?
What cloths or shops are in? HELP!!!!!!!!
Ahhh purms are kinda out! The look i'm seeing now is medium length hair and straighted out. Hmm clothes... depends on the type of person you are... if your more a skater girl, then you can go to like pac sun and shop around in their Element clothes, and their skate shoes. If your more of a preppy type you can shop at pac sun once again or American Eagle! and go for the cute tops and what not! Good luck with finding the right style for your 8th grade year! Also have fun in 8th grade... its fun to be at the top believe me!
-Holly-
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f/16: there are 2 guys that i like the good boy and the bad boy. please tell me which u think is better and why.
the good boy: likes to have fun, former bmx biker, likes to chill, friends kinda boring unless you like to just sit there an talk; in band, up to do pranks, doesnt do drugs,and likes kids but doesnt have any.
the bad boy: loves to have fun, skater, drummer, never a dull moment, always up to pranks, does drugs, likes kids but doesnt have any, always ends up in trouble (not major trouble).
thanx for your advice
f/16
Ahhhh I'd so go for the bad boy! But i'm just that type of person! My ex boyfriend was a total bad boy and i loved every moment of it! But thats just me! Drugs can be a problem.. but as long as its not a true constant thing then i guess there isnt a problem (or atleast not that big of a problem), trouble makers are fun too! I dunno i'd say the bad boy over the good!
-Holly-
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