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God gave us two ears and one mouth so we could listen twice and speak once.
Hello Sunshine!
My name's Jamie..call me what you prefer.
I'm not here to judge, just to help people with their problems.
I love helping people out, it's one of the most satisfying feelings.
When you rate me, I'd prefer if you put a reasoning behind the rating, just so I know how I'm doing/how I can improve.
Feel free to leave me questions!
XOXO.
>> PS. If you plan on asking me a question, please, type grammatically correct and put punctuation marks where necessary...instead of like this: "muh boyfran lefff meh nD eye dunno waddado. halp?" (haha okay maybe that's a little exaggerated.. but you get my point!)
advice
i get head aches alot. right near my sinuses. but my mom wants to get an xray of my brain for some reason. would they we able to tell i smoke weed? because i lose brain cells?
No, you can't tell that kind of stuff in an x-ray...
Hope you're okay!
-Jam
15/f.
I like this boy, we'll call him.. Ed. Okay, well Ed was dating this girl just recently, well I was on a bus coming home from a friends and I was thinkg about him. Thinking whether I should give up or not, I get home to see him online and it just says his name without the -love ya tamra. They broke up.
Well my uncle is dying from cancer :( and well he seen it in my msn name.. (please god save him ; uncle dave:((yn)(L)) and he put as his p/m.. hope your uncle gets better sara. No one else did this or anything about it. We flirt constantly and we have a class together at school.
He's like 6 months younger then me but I dont care anymore, we're in the same grade and stuff anyways. Well he told me that since his relationships only last to be about 2 weeks or so that he's done with dating.
How can I tell him I like him and that I'd commit to him and not leave him in the space of 2 weeks? What would I do if he just said thanks and then like stopped talking to me? I really like this guy and have for a while.. since second sem. of grade nine.. its not almost second sem. of grade ten.
Thanks in advance and any advice is apprectiated:]
Awww! I'm sorry about your Uncle! :( Hope he's okay, I know what you're going through so if you need to talk to somebody, drop me something in my Inboxxx. :]
Anyways, "Ed" seems really sweet. I think you should talk to him. Tell him you like him. Personally, I'd do it online becasue I'm not a 'face-to-face' kind of person. I get nervous to easily lol. Try AIM or over the phone or something. Ask him who he likes, and then tell him that you like him & you can't stop thinking about him.
If he tells you he needs some time, or something to that affect, tell him you understand!
Hope I helped. Hope everything works out!!!
-Jam
(dont know if this is in the right category)
does anyone know any toothpaste or anything that will make teeth really white? thanks.
Crest WhiteStrips! They work really good.
You can buy them at a grocery store, or somewhere like WalMart.
=)
Hope I helped!
-Jam
Well .. i like this boy right.. ive liked him for a long time. Almost a year. And like 6 months ago he said he liked me as well as my friend amy. Then he asked me out and hes like "Maybe if we go out then ill forget about amy?" and i was stupid and said yes to him. Then the next day he said hes sorry for screwing around with me and he dumped me. Then out of no where hes like "I love you" and im like I dont know what to say and he said Neither do i..then for like a week he flirts with me, then after he just stopped talking to me. Then i found out later that he used me to get to amy. Its been about 4 months and its really getting to me that he did that and i still love him. I think im in love, all i want to do is be with him.
For the past three days, ive been having a dream about him - Its after school..and i was on the stairs.. standing talking to a friend and looking at my phone..then he comes behind me and hugs me from behind and holds my hand, and i like push away and im like "What the hell are u doing?" and then he looks at me..then walks away then i try looking for him but i cant find him..then i call him to see if he wants to walk home together..but he wont pick up his phone.
Can someone please help me, and help me figure out what this dream means?
One of my friends think that its interpreting my life, that he says he doesnt want me, but he flirts with me and its confusing me, then he gets pissed that i reject him.. And my other friend thinks that he really does love me, but hes confused, and so am i, so every time he goes to make a move, he does it, then regrets it and takes it back.
I dont know..can someone please help me?
Hmm. This is tricky, but I'll try to help!
I agree with your friend. He seems confused.
I think you definitely like him, even though he has put you through crap.
Guys are like that--they put you through hell, yet you just can't get enough of them.....
Anyways, back to what I was saying,
I think you should talk to him. Explain to him that you still like him. Also, tell him about your dream...
If that doesn't work out, move on. A lot of guys are a waste of time anyways. :P
About your dream: I think that before you went to bed those 3 nights that you were thinking about him...and what you want to happen with him...[except for the part when he doesn't pick up the phone, obviously lol.]
Well, I really hope I helped.
Good luck, and keep me posted!!
-Jam
I have a best friend, we are always together and on the phone and laughing and even speaking eachothers words.
She went away to visit her other friend and i called her and stuff to see what was going on, and she was being mean to me and like rude and it hurt my feelings so much.
She like acted like she didnt even wanna talk to me or anything.
For like 3 seconds she would act normal and then she would get all nasty and stuff.
And We even promised that while she was gone, we were still gonna be best friends.
Why would you think she was doing this to me?
It makes me so sad, shes my best friend ever.
That's mean :(.
Did you tell her she's being mean and hurting your feelings? She might be doing it without realizing it. Or, maybe she's just acting "cool" around her other friend. If she continues with this behavior, I say you get rid of her! And if she comes crying back to you, act like she was to you. She OBVIOUSLY doesn't deserve you if she's gonna act like this. :)
Hope I Helped. Keep Me Updated!!!
-Jam
Ok so my cat somehow chewed my ipod headphones. Does anyone know a good replacement because I really dont want to pay 30 bucks to order the same ones through apple. Thanks!
Any Sony ones work fantastically.
http://www.bestbuy.com/site/olspage.jsp?skuId=4141057&st=headphones&lp=2&type=product&cp=1&id=1051384741645
^ (like the iPod ones)
http://www.bestbuy.com/site/olspage.jsp?skuId=5335657&st=headphones&lp=4&type=product&cp=1&id=1051826204520
http://www.bestbuy.com/site/olspage.jsp?skuId=6794515&st=headphones&lp=8&type=product&cp=1&id=1091099112606
** HOPE I HELPED **
HAPPY NEW YEAR `07 ;]
Jam.
I was wondering if anyone on here has
gotten their haircut at a JCPenny's hair salon?
I haven't had a decent haircut in years (all of mine have been at those "fast-food" type places like Fantastic Sams and the outcome was horrible)
so I want to know if your expierence
there was any good. Thanks!
I got one a couple years ago. I loved it!! They shampood it (at that time) for no extra cost.
I'm pretty sure you don't need an appointment.
-Jam
what does clear mascara do to your lashes? does it give black to it or what thanks
No, it doesn't give black to it. It just defines them naturally, with no black. It's like gel. You can also use it to comb your eyebrows with!
`Jam
well i just bought the Venus Vibrance today thinking it would work good because of all the positive feedback on it .. well i made the biggest mistake of buying it. i just started shaving with it about 15 minutes ago, and when i was done i got like 5 cuts each on one leg. i didn't even rush! i used a lot of Skintimate Raspberry Rain shave gel(which i have been using since i was 12 with no problem) and my legs turned red, i had red dots by the cuts, etc. it isn't razor burn or ingrown hairs either. also when i was shaving my armpits i used a lot of shaving gel and i actully got cut which never ever happened to me before, and i have been shaving since i was 12 and i am now 14. also my armpits got all red. why is this happening? i thought the venus vibrance was supposed to actually work well? thanks for your help.
Welll, you said that you used a lot of shave gel. Did you wet it down first?? That used to happen to me, then I started to wet it down, && everything is fine now. It could be the razor becuase it`s sharp & new.
Hope I helped.
`Jam
My boyfriend and I hang out three times a week. Wednesday & Friday - after school & on Sunday. He doesn`t go to my school, so those are the only times I get to see him!
Since I`m on Christmas vacation, I REALLY want to hang out with him. Because, I`m home alone, and yeah.. it`s way too boring for me to handle.
His brother came in for Christmas, and he`s staying for two weeks. He`s been here now for, four days. Tomorrow is Friday & it`s our day to hang out. I asked him if just ME & HIM could do something. (I hung out with him and his brother on Wednesday & I was COMPLETELY BORED OUT OF MY MIND! I felt so uncomfortable!) Like, I asked if we could drive to a different town & you know, just like chill. =]
Am I being way too selfish? I just don`t want to sit around all day & watch tv with his brother, it`s the worst thing ever. Is it bad that I don`t want to hang out with his 27 year old, older brother?
I`m 17 & he`s 20.
Thank you, mucho!!!!
I wouldn`t think that`s a selfish thing. It`s just that you`re uncomfortable with someone 10 years older than you are. It should just be a boyfreind, girlfriend kind of thing. He should definitely understand that.
Hope I helped =]
`Jam
The sims 2 is incredibly slow on my computer and also choppy. I really want to play it but I can't because it's that slow. Is there anyway I can make it more enjoyable to play by making it faster and less choppy when moving around?
Sorry to say, I had this problem too, and I needed to buy a new graphics card.
Lucky for me, my brother's a computer whiz so he got the one perfect for my computer.
If I knew where he was, I`d ask him to help me on this. Sorry :[
But yeah, that`s what you need. A new graphics card.
These can range from $80-$600.
Good luck, hope I helped.
`Jam
whats a good volumizing product? [examples: shampoo, serums, cremes, contioners, mousse, sprays] and a good brand for hair and will not damage alot. (volumizing=i meant to give a lot of volume to ur hair cus i have thin hair)
2nd question
whats a good eyeliner tat lasts all day and wont smuge and puts alot of black into your eye (which will actually make your eyes small)?
3rd and a good mascara that will give you thick lashes i meant thick BLACK eyelashes =]
`Not sure about question one =X
`A good eyeliner, the one I use, is Avon Gliimersticks-blackest black.
`A good mascara that I use is some type of clear mascara (not sure of the name. the clear mascara you can use to comb your eyebrows with.) I top it off with Avon DARING DEFINITION Mousse Mascara. ...The final product is greaat.
Hope I helped.
`Jam
F/15.
I regularly use deodorant (Body Spray) on wrists, neck and sweetening body parts such as armpits, inner thighs around vagina & hips. Is there any side effect or risk of infection on areas around vagina & hips? Please advise.
-Hips, no.
-I wouldn't spray anything "down there" though. What I`d do is put the body spray maybe on your inner thighs WITH PANTS ON? `Cause even if you do have pants on and you spray down there, you always have a risk of an infection, and trust me, you DON`T want that. lol.
Hope I helped.
`Jam
well me and my friends a&b are really close. we always have fun(i'm c if you were wondering) and hang out all the time, but sometimes a treats me and b like were useless and were not worthy to be her friend because her sis is in 8th grade. BIG WHOOP. and she sometimes hangs out with her sis and her sis's friends and she acts all cool around them. i think that they are bad examples.for instance we were in church for christmas eve mass and they were laughing the whole time and being disrespecful. sometimes she is so fun and so nice and other times she acts like she is better than us in everything. I want to say something to her but what do i say that doesn't ruin our friendship 4ever??? please help me i need adice fast me and b are starting to feel really bad?????? how do we fix this please answer as quickly as possible because we need help!!
signed,
confused and hurt
I say get rid of her. Talk to her, and say exactly how you feel. If she wants to end it, then end it. If she bothers to treat you like that in the first place, then she doesn`t deserve to have wonderful friends like you and b sound. In the start, she`ll TRY to start hanging out with her and her sister`s 8th grade friends...until they, TOO, get fed up with her. Then, one day, she`ll crawl back to you and realize how much she`s missing in her life.
Hope I Helped/ Good Luck!
`Jam
I have a question about what to wear with skirts. I am very new to this. I haven't worn a skirt by choice before. I was thinkin of wearing one to school for the first time, because my boyfriend has only seen me in pants since we have been dating haha (11 months) and i have decided to wear a skirt for him. My question now is what kind've shoes would you wear, like i find it weird to wear boots with a skirt or running shoes with a skirt, could ya help me out? Also any other advice for wearing skirts. Wow, im very embarassed... haha
OK, this outfit is insanely cute. =]
*SHIRT:
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_302681_-1_12648_12635
-->CREAM COLOR
*SKIRT:
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_227744_-1_12595_12552
*LEGGINGS:
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_256294_-1_12596_12552
-->BROWN COLOR
*BOOTS:
http://www.uggaustralia.com/ProductDetails.aspx?gID=w&categoryID=283&productID=5225&model=Ultra+Short
** YOU CAN GET AN IMITATION OF THESE IN OTHER PLACES FOR CHEAPER PRICES
You can always add a matching scarf to this outfit too, if desired.
~ Hope I helped :]]
Good luck.
`Jam
I have a pair of skinny jeans that are just blue jean. I have a couple shirts I got over the weekend and i need to know which shirt looks the best with these jeans.
Shirts I have :
-Pink shirt with cupcakes cookies and lolipops on it.
-Navy blue shirt with new oreleans saints symbols on it and a humming bird or each of the top corners.
-An Alicine wonderland shirt where she is walking through the forest
-A pink and white striped shirt that has half sleeves.
Thanks for the help :]
I definitely say the pink and white striped shirt. All of them sound cute though :]
`Jam
hey. when you had that question for the chanel bag and where to get it, i have an answer for it. ill just copy and paste what i said:
omg i just got that SAME EXACT bag for christmas! same color and everything! i got it at a stand at the mall called "handbag heaven" or something like that. but it wasn't real though. the real ones cost about $1,500. i got mine for 60 bucks though. so check stands in the mall. but when you buy it, instead of the C's they are O's, so just cut them to look like a C, its really really easy. hope i helped!
xo its_melissa_duh
hope you find it!
Thanks lol!
My sister has been trying so hard to impress everyone lately. She isn't even herself anymore, and she hasn't been for almost 2 years (she's 14). She spends days on myspace, facebook, and aim. She's become a typical fake teenaged girl who says "like" and "hilarious" every other word.
How do I deal with her?
Ohh boyyy. Sounds exactly what my sister's going through too, except she's only 12. I hate it. Anyways, your options are...
-Try & Talk with her (This doesn't always work, it didn't really with my sister)
-Wait it out (May take a while)
-Or, if worse comes to worse, avoid her.
Those are the only possible options I can think of,
Good luck with this.
-Jam
Is there any other movies with Channing Tatum in it except step up and shes the man because i already have them.
thanks :]
Woooo! Channing Tatum is a HOTTIE!
He's in:
A Guide to Recognizing Your Saints (2006) .... Antonio
Step Up (2006) .... Tyler Gage
She's the Man (2006) .... Duke Orsino
War of the Worlds (2005) (uncredited) .... Boy in church scene
Havoc (2005) .... Nick
Supercross (2005) .... Rowdy Sparks
Coach Carter (2005) .... Jason Lyle
"CSI: Miami" .... Bob Davenport (1 episode, 2004)
- Pro Per (2004) TV Episode .... Bob Davenport
Okay whenever me and my boyfriend are messing around and i like touch him or poke him down there...he always tells me im making him hard?? im not sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing or even what it means..haha cause hes comeing over tonnight soo pleeasee help! thanks :]]
lol, i'd say it's a good thing in his opinion if he's not stopping you from doing this. This means he's having a boner.
Hope I helped/ Have fun tonight lol