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Am I being selfish?
My boyfriend and I hang out three times a week. Wednesday & Friday - after school & on Sunday. He doesn`t go to my school, so those are the only times I get to see him!
Since I`m on Christmas vacation, I REALLY want to hang out with him. Because, I`m home alone, and yeah.. it`s way too boring for me to handle.
His brother came in for Christmas, and he`s staying for two weeks. He`s been here now for, four days. Tomorrow is Friday & it`s our day to hang out. I asked him if just ME & HIM could do something. (I hung out with him and his brother on Wednesday & I was COMPLETELY BORED OUT OF MY MIND! I felt so uncomfortable!) Like, I asked if we could drive to a different town & you know, just like chill. =]
Am I being way too selfish? I just don`t want to sit around all day & watch tv with his brother, it`s the worst thing ever. Is it bad that I don`t want to hang out with his 27 year old, older brother?
I`m 17 & he`s 20.
Thank you, mucho!!!!
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I personally dont think you could call it being selfish because you are his girl friend and you dont see each other as often as maybe you would like soo you treasure the time you spend together and you dont want to be bored stiff. you sould talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel becuase he will want you to be happy, and if you dont tell him then he wont know. Just talk 2 him and say you would rather spend the time you have together alone. You could always say that you could hang with his brother on a wednessday as long as you were able to spend friday and sunday with him alone. just compramise with him becuase he'll want you to enjoy the time you spend with him.
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Thats not selfish. It's called wanting to spend time with your boyfriend. I totally understand that you want to hang out with your boyfriend. But you should talk to him about it. And say something like "I know you want to hang out with your brother & I respect that, but since I barely get to hang out with you when schools going on I want to hang out with you more cause its vacation. & I feel that sitting around all day watching tv with you & your brother is just boring, & I want to get out & hang out with you" He should understand. Make up some sorta deal thing. Like you can hang out with him during the day & he can spend time with his brother at night. Or the other way around. All im trying to say is talk to him. & Your not being selfish.
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Yes and no... You can look at it both ways...Either, no you are not being selfish because he IS your bf and you have the right to be alone with him. Or yes u are because he never sees his brother and his brother is here for only 2 weeks. Which ever you prefer, just think about it...no need for drama, after all he is going to be gone in 2 weeks!!!!
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jennifer
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I wouldn`t think that`s a selfish thing. It`s just that you`re uncomfortable with someone 10 years older than you are. It should just be a boyfreind, girlfriend kind of thing. He should definitely understand that.
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