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Best friend
I have a best friend, we are always together and on the phone and laughing and even speaking eachothers words.
She went away to visit her other friend and i called her and stuff to see what was going on, and she was being mean to me and like rude and it hurt my feelings so much.
She like acted like she didnt even wanna talk to me or anything.
For like 3 seconds she would act normal and then she would get all nasty and stuff.
And We even promised that while she was gone, we were still gonna be best friends.
Why would you think she was doing this to me?
It makes me so sad, shes my best friend ever.
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my bestfriend's exactly like that.
were not bestfriends anymore>...
but when people are around other people it's natural for them to act different, to fit in better.
but for me it really sucked. then her newbestfriend always confrronted her, which i never did, try doing that becuase she is your bestfriend; especially before its too late
because i regret not doing it
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Well i think the person she went to see got her to do thisa stuff you've heard of "peer presure"
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I wouldnt be worried if you guys are always together and always laughing and that close. If you guys had a fight or something - then maybe you'd need to consider working it out, but Id leave it alone. Maybe she was having a bad day. You didnt do anything wrong to make her upset [at least, you didnt mention it if you did.] But, she would tell you if there was something wrong. I think youre taking it too personally. I wouldnt call her anymore when she's on vacation. Its VERY common for friends when they are with OTHER friends to act rude and snobby. Sometimes they dont try to, theyre just in the middle of something and not in the right mind to talk to another friend. A lot of people cant have more than one friend in their attention at a time. You've been that friend all the time..so maybe she just wants to spend a little time with someone else. Thats okay. :] It doesnt mean you guys are going to not be friends! Maybe she was having a bad day, but it was probably the first thing I said. Leave her be for awhile and let her have time with her other friend and I promise things will be normal when she gets back.
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My advise to you is this. I believe you should let your friend talk and see that other friend over there and if she is still there and she wants to talk to you then she will call you. Wait until she gets back and then talk to her about it, tell her that you called her to say hi and she shouldnt have been so mean. But maybe she felt like you werent letting her spend time with that other friend of hers.
Dont do anything drastic until she gets back but yeah, you should talk to her.
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That's mean :(.
Did you tell her she's being mean and hurting your feelings? She might be doing it without realizing it. Or, maybe she's just acting "cool" around her other friend. If she continues with this behavior, I say you get rid of her! And if she comes crying back to you, act like she was to you. She OBVIOUSLY doesn't deserve you if she's gonna act like this. :)
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-Jam
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