Well .. i like this boy right.. ive liked him for a long time. Almost a year. And like 6 months ago he said he liked me as well as my friend amy. Then he asked me out and hes like "Maybe if we go out then ill forget about amy?" and i was stupid and said yes to him. Then the next day he said hes sorry for screwing around with me and he dumped me. Then out of no where hes like "I love you" and im like I dont know what to say and he said Neither do i..then for like a week he flirts with me, then after he just stopped talking to me. Then i found out later that he used me to get to amy. Its been about 4 months and its really getting to me that he did that and i still love him. I think im in love, all i want to do is be with him.
For the past three days, ive been having a dream about him - Its after school..and i was on the stairs.. standing talking to a friend and looking at my phone..then he comes behind me and hugs me from behind and holds my hand, and i like push away and im like "What the hell are u doing?" and then he looks at me..then walks away then i try looking for him but i cant find him..then i call him to see if he wants to walk home together..but he wont pick up his phone.
Can someone please help me, and help me figure out what this dream means?
One of my friends think that its interpreting my life, that he says he doesnt want me, but he flirts with me and its confusing me, then he gets pissed that i reject him.. And my other friend thinks that he really does love me, but hes confused, and so am i, so every time he goes to make a move, he does it, then regrets it and takes it back.
I dont know..can someone please help me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? imconfused123 answered Wednesday January 3 2007, 2:03 am: ok i think the first part of your dream ,when he comes up and hugs you and then leaves, is like when he likes to flirt with you and then completely abandons you. and then the second part when you're trying to call him but he wont pick up is like when you're like in love with him but its pointless and he wont really come to be with you.
i think you should just forget about him and move on, and i know thats not easy but unless he completely changes, you dont really need him.
he doesnt seem to care about you so there's no point in trying. plus you need to think about yor friend amy and how he sees it. [ imconfused123's advice column | Ask imconfused123 A Question ]
vivalajam0x answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 4:57 pm: Hmm. This is tricky, but I'll try to help!
I agree with your friend. He seems confused.
I think you definitely like him, even though he has put you through crap.
Guys are like that--they put you through hell, yet you just can't get enough of them.....
Anyways, back to what I was saying,
I think you should talk to him. Explain to him that you still like him. Also, tell him about your dream...
If that doesn't work out, move on. A lot of guys are a waste of time anyways. :P
About your dream: I think that before you went to bed those 3 nights that you were thinking about him...and what you want to happen with him...[except for the part when he doesn't pick up the phone, obviously lol.]
Well, I really hope I helped.
Good luck, and keep me posted!!
twistedlover69 answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 12:16 pm: this is a hard question but ill try well i think that he needs to make up his mind because hes playing mind games and your letting him in a way and i have the same problem u cant help who you love and next time he trys to make a move tell him straight out that he eighter likes you or he doesnt and if he says he does than do what you think is right and than if he regrets it i know it will be hard but i would just cut him off completely you know because hes playing with your head probley to make him feel better about him self and you dont need it just think your falling for him and he only talks or flirts with you when its convient to him and if he cant make up his mind think to yourself why if he really loved you or liked you than his mind should of already been made up you get out before he hurts you anymore i hope i helped goodluck [ twistedlover69's advice column | Ask twistedlover69 A Question ]
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