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Okay...very complicated situation, very simple question. How do you win a guy back over?
We broke up, but we didn't really break up. We still hug and kiss and shit, but I feel as though he's trying to convince himself he doesn't love me anymore because what he felt for me freaked him out, or something.
However, I want him to miss me so I thought maybe I'd just leave him alone for awhile and be a little bitchy to him and see what he does.
But then I wonder if he's trying to drive me away, and if I did that he'd still get his way.
I'm tired of playing his games. I need to be stronger and like, not avoid him but not give into him. Like I'll wanna do something and he'll alter the plans or something and I'll just go along with it, and I think I need to stop.
Giving him the cold shoulder would work if he isn't trying to drive me away...but at this point I feel like I have nothing left to lose.
He turned into a nasty, controlling douchebag like all of a sudden and I want the sweet romantic guy I fell in love with back...=(
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you can't change a guy, if he's someone you aren't attracted to anymore, more than likely thats who he is going to be if you guys get back together.
you can't really win a guy back over either. there is no right or wrong why to win a guys heart. its just something that sorta happens.
you have to give things time, i know its hard, but everything will eventually work itself out. just try not to stress & try not to make it obvious that you miss him. do some fun things, let him know that he is not your number one priority.
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there is this emo rock goth boy that i no, and he is nice and funny but i dont fancy him.I had a dream that i snogged him and liked it
what does this mean? (link)
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most of the times dreams are just something that is thought in the back of your head at one point of the day, most of the time you can remember that thought & other times you won't remember it. the dream means nothing & i wouldn't obsess over it ;)
hope i helped.
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all my mates have kissed some1 , i havnt, what is the first kiss like and "how do you"kiss lol!
13/f
sadie x
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it doesn't matter if you are the last person on earth & haven't kissed someone.
your first kiss should be special & with someone special.
and when the moment comes for you to have a first kiss, you won't worry about the fact that you've never kissed someone before & you don't know how. kissing is sorta something everyone is born with, you just know how to do it? i hope that made sense. lol
good luck :]
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k iv asked this question b4 but i guesss there needs a lil more deatil ... while i slept with this guy 2 monthes ago .. and he asked me if i was on the pill and i said no .. and he said he would pulll out .. and we had sex and when we were done i even gave him head to get him to cum witch was like 15 seconds after ... is there any wya i cold be pregnant cause i still havnt got my persio 2 monthes later ??? but my period is very messed up .. cause i once toook a whole pack of birth controlll like 3 monthes ago ??? please help (link)
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the only way to solve this thing, is to take a pregnancy test. usually if you had sex while you weren't on the pill & got pregnant then, and then got on the pill. you would still be pregnant, theres just a chance that the baby would have deformitites.
like i stated above, take a test. it will solve all your worries
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everytime i watch the movie thirteen my vagina starts like pounding. its really wierd. whats going on? (link)
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you are just getting horny. thats all, don't panic., it's normal.
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Oh my god.. i am only 13 and am a female and i have had sex.. he used a condom but i am afraid i might be pregnant... but i started bleeding today but i think he popped my cherry yesterday (he fingered me ) we had sex about a week ago... oh my god i am so scared what should i do...? please hurry up and answer me its very important! (link)
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usually your cherry is only popped by sex, and it bleeds like maybe 30 minutes to an hour after the sex happens. but you don't bleed that much when your cherry is popped. if the bleeding continues then you know its your period, just stay calm & breathe, everything will be all right.
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My boyfriend and I used to have no problems with fingering, etc.. However, everytime he fingers me now (I'd say it's been occuring for a month).. I start to bleed. Sometimes there will be slight irritation afterwords, but while he does it - it doesn't hurt at all. The blood is sometimes bright red, sometimes brown. We're both virgins.
We've discussed it and we think it might just be that his fingernails have caused little cuts and abrasions - and we aren't allowing enough time for them to heal.
While he says that my health is more important to him then messing around, it's still really embarrassing for me and a downer for both of us ( we can't really finish).
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this could be from many things, i'll just list a couple though.
maybe the first time this happened, he had started fingering you when you weren't probably "wet" which caused his dry fingers to rub against your dry area, and its possible that if he has big fingers, he's ripped your skin. which can be ripped again & again(explaining the constant bleeding, everytime you were fingered) but if you give it time to heal it should be all right.
or your theory could be right, if he has long finger nails, tell him to keep them short. and just make sure he knows to be careful next time.
just be careful not to get these 'cuts' infected, it could lead to serious problems, but my best advice, is if after a couple weeks, you guys try it again, and you still bleed, go to see a doctor.
i hope i helped.
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I am 13. I have had sex. I am scared to go to the doctor to get birth control pills because i am afraid he'll tell my mom and he'll look at me and be like you only 13... and/or how do i get there.. haha i dont know just some advice will hepl. :]
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you don't have to have your parents permission to be on the pill. you can get your school nurse or even your home ec teacher to schedule you an appointment & a ride there & back. and the doctor is not allowed to say anything to your parents if you ask him not to. if he does, then you could sue him..
but i hope i helped you -
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When my boyfriend and I are having sex, he tends to climax very early. Out of all the times we have had sex, the longest he lasted was 5 minutes! I need him to last a little longer so I can finally orgasm (I've never even had one). What can either of us do to solve this problem? (link)
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me & my last boyfriend had the same problem..
okay, use a condom, because it reduces the sensation for the guy.
you could also try newer positions, such as doggystyle because it doesn't allow him to get as much pleasure, but it still pleasures him.
or its even a good idea to let him eat you out first & then start having sex, you'll climax faster. but thats basically all. im sure there are more better ideas, but i hope i helped anyways? =)
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ill just flat out say it. i cheated on my boyfriend. but here's the situation:
my boyfriend of 3 months and i are not allowed to see eachother at the moment. lets call him ian. he is 17 and i am 14. my mother doesnt approve, so we cant see eachother. before this mess started happening, we were having sex. dont prejudge us. back then we were both completely in love with eachother. now all we do is argue yet we're still together.
well i am in high school and he graduated last year. i met this one guy who i really liked. lets call him mike. mike and i kinda got caught up in the moment last night and had sex together.
right now i feel so bad about cheating on ian cuz i know he'll never forgive me. and i truely do love him. when we're together, its the best feeling in the world.
but my problem is, what should i do? i dont want to break up with ian and i dont want to tell him but i feel so bad. please dont call me a slut or a whore. please give me actual advice, i need it. (link)
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when i cheated on my boyfriend, the first thing i did was be honest with him. i wanted him to find out from me, instead of someone else. luckily, he wasn't as upset as i suspected. he was angry at me, but he liked the fact that i told him. i let him know that it was by accident & i don't want to lose him. that i still wanted to be with him, and i tried everything to make sure he understood how sorry i was, maybe, just maybe your boyfriend will be just as understanding. but either way, sweetheart, you might want to tell him. you wouldn't want a rumor going around & him finding out from someone else.
i really hope i helped..
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ok I'm really confused right now, i Dont know what to do right now. I like my boyfreind brandon, but he can be a huge asshole. he tells me what and what not to do, he critisizes me, and even yells at me, plus he has problems of his own and i can't deal with him and his problems AND my problems alltogether.he also hides things from me, lies to me, and sneaks about everything. I can't ever beleive him. all my freinds say i should dump him, but i still like and care for him. plus he's not ALL bad. i really enjoy being with him. There's also a guy named Russell who seems to be interested in me, and ditto for me. Me and him talk alot on the phone, and he helps me with alot of problems, and I like him too, but i dont want to leave brandon then go out with russell right after, but if i wait for a while then break up with brandon, then russell gets a girlfreind and loses interest in me, then that would SUCK ASS TOTALLY. i dont know what i should do. should i break up with my boyfreind, or give him 1 last chance. If i DO give him 1 more chance, then this will be the 3rd chance i have given him, and im TIRED of playing games with him. what the hell should i do?? (link)
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sounds like a problem i had a year ago between my asshole boyfriend chris, and i guy i had just met named chase.
it truly was the hardest decision i had ever made, but i knew what i had to do. i broke up with chris & maybe you should break up with brandon, if you have doubts at all, about him, then it should be obvious to break up with him. when i broke up with chris, i started dating chase a week later, i didnt care that it made chris made, i actually liked the fact that it made him mad(haha, im horrible.) & you shouldn't worry about it either, if he treats you wrong, you need to find someone to treat you right, and you never know, russell could be that guy. because choosing my current boyfriend chase, was the greatest decision i had ever made in my life.
i hope i helped. =)
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what are some fun hairstyles for school football games.
our school gets really into the whole school spirit thing, people paint they're whole bodies.
if you have any ideas of like ribbons or glittery things or easy to do styles. my hair is like shoulder length and my school colors are blue and gold.
thanks sooo much.
i need an answer REALLY soon. (link)
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sometimes, two braids are cute, with one braid tied with a gold ribbon & the other blue. (people at my school do this)
a lot of girls also wear their hair in a high, messy ponytail(curly or straight) and then just tie a ribbon around it.
like you could even create your own school ribbon, for example, my schools mascot is a wildcat & our colors are red, black, and white, so our cheerleaders, buy plain red, white & black ribbons, and then paint little paw prints on them, and its adorable.
you could even wear your hair down, and pull it back with a gold/blue ribbon(be sure to leave your bangs down if you have them, it looks way cute)
& some girls buy hair glitter, you can get it at any little department store, such as Sallys Beauty Supplies, or even Rite Aid, or Walgreens, and then fix your hair & have someone spray the glitter all over. it looks adorable, yet be sure not to get it near your eyes, it burns like crazy.
well i hope i helped. =)
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Right. There's a girl and I've known her since the summer, and we basically hit it off really well at camp. We're both into theatre, we're both very philosophical, and we both have warped senses of humor :) (The best kind). It took us a while to go from being "good friends" to an official relationship, but a couple weeks ago, we did. It feels amazing.
Since camp, we've talked on the phone for about two hours straight every single night. Some of our conversations are deep and meaningful, some are silly and random, but there's never been one I haven't enjoyed. The largest issues with this whole deal is that she live about an hour away from me. We see each other every other weekend, though, and sometimes more often than that.... We're both happy with the way it's working out.
Anyway.
She makes me feel happy. She makes me feel very, very comfortable, like I could tell her anything. When I'm with her, I get the "warm, fuzzy" feeling that people talk about. I always look forward to our calls at the end of the day, and I get the feeling she does too. Sometimes it can feel very difficult to be an hour away from here, but other times I'm just so happy to know her in the first place.
So... How do I tell if it's love? I'm partly afraid it's just infatuation, which is something I've experienced many times.
Hrm... Any insights would be highly appreciated. (link)
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sorry to break it to you hun, but you are highly in love. and don't be scared, it is a wonderful thing. just be careful not to get your heart broken, although by reading your question, it doesn't seem like thats going to happen =)
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i have this guy friend called Chris and i think he's just the best. he's so funny and caring and just so amazingly awesome!
the other day we were hanging out and just before he left he said he had something to tell me. he told me that he loved me and that he had done ever since the first time he'd met me. then he kiss me and ran out. i realised after he'd left that i'd fallen in love with him too, and it just took him saying it to make me realise that i did. but have i left it too late to tell him?? i don't want him to think that i don't like him and miss my chance but i just don't know how to say it now, the moments kind of gone?!
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tell him. it doesn't matter how late it is. just apoligize for not being sooner & tell him that at first you were a little nervous, but you truly know how you feel now. he'll appreciate your honesty. :]
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I'm a 19 year old female in my second year of college and It seems that I'm stuck in somewhat of a rut. Every guy I fall for, and every guy that falls for me seems to have a very short attention span when it comes to being interested in me. I'm a very timid person when it comes to relationships, and it seems that the minute I show any sign of maybe coming around about the idea of being with someone, he drops me. just like that. What am I doing wrong? Is there a secret to fixing this? I just feel so confused. (link)
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maybe you are just going about all this wrong. first of all, when you meet a guy & think things are going to possibly start getting serious, make sure thats what he wants, and then if he doesn't, then you know not to continue the relationship. it will take time to find someone who will want the same commitment(sp?) that you do, but i promise someone will show, whenever you least expect it. =)
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i like this guy adn today he was kind of being rude to me like saying, you look like a monkey ( we were doing something about monkeys in class) and you smell like a monkey. and you are retarded. i was really hurt because i like him and i don't like it when he says that. does this mean that he finds me annoying or something? what should i say if he says it again? (link)
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this could be one of three things. 1) he could still be living in the first grade where boys showed you they liked you by pulling your hair & telling you that you have cooties. or 2) he could just be a rude person, and not really know how to say anything nice or 3) he could be one of those guys who get really nervous around girls they like, and don't really know how to act.
I think he's immature personally, but the bright side is, he notices you, and gives you some attention, even though it may not be the best attention.
And if he does it again, you should really tell him how it makes you feel, and maybe recite that same old first grade quote we heard over & over again by our teachers "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all" haha. i hope i helped. =)
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you said your favorite music was metal/screamo. Can you tell me some of your favorites? (link)
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wow, there are tons. but sure, i'll list a few songs.(some may not be considered screamo or metal)
Memphis Will Be Laid; Norma Jean
Bayounetwork; Norma Jean
Writing on The Wall; Underoath
Some Will Seek Forgiveness; Underoath
Every single song by Atreyu
Blue Eyed Suicide; Across 5 Aprils
The Last Sunrise; Aiden
Goodbye We're Falling; Aiden
I Set My Friends On Fire; Aiden
My Assassin; The Bled
So Sick; Flyleaf
Bullet Theory; Funeral For A Friend
Misery Loves Its Company; The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
Seventeen Ain't So Sweet; The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
Justify; The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
Unreal; Soil
Diary Of Jane; Breaking Benjamin
Sooner or Later; Breaking Benjamin
Until the End; Breaking Benjamin
We Don't Care Anymore; Story Of The Year
All That's Left; Thrice
Stare At The Sun; Thrice
Maybe Memories; The Used
Pull Harder on The Strings of Martyrdom; Trivium
Ascendancy; Trivium
My Hatred; Trivium
A Beautiful Tragedy; With Broken Wings
if you were looking for songs to listen to, i know tons. just ask me anytime. i hope i helped. =)
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ok well this guy told me he liked me! and i told him i like him, and we kind of act like boy firned and girlfrien like we always hug and everyhting, but the thing is i have started talkign to him about 10 days ago after the summmer break for which we didnt talk at alll. and we hung out for the first time and idk at first we didnt talk and hung out with other people but then at the end we did and got more firnedly to the point that it was quite friendly. and umm im just wondering how long is it gonna take him to ask me out??? like agh he told me he liekd me like 2 days ago? and i wnat to know how soon he will ask me out!! also a couple of his and my friends ask me if we like each other so i hope thats a good thing =) (link)
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maybe you shouldnt wait on him to ask you & maybe you should get up enough courage to ask him out. what if he's waiting on you to ask him out, because he's shy.
you never know, it could lead to love.
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ok so here is the thing, me and my best friend(both girls) can talk about anything...but her and her loser boyfriend have been on and off for the past year. She told me after the broke up the last time they were done for good, well they have been hanging out a lot, and she told me that they have been having sex. I really don't care that they have sex, but there not going out anymore. She told me that she doesn't want to do the whole friends with benfits thing, but everytime they start kissing it leads to sex. I've tried to tell her that if she doesn't wanna have sex then she shouldn't kiss him cuz she knows what it leads to. But she doesn't think when they have sex thats it's her fault, but it both o there fault. How can I make her underdtand that? Any help would be amazing! (link)
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i hate to tell you this, but your friend has her own opinions, and yours probably wont faze her. if you've tried to warn her time & time before, then trying to get her to understand wont be any different. she's going to have to handle this by herself.
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Okay so lets say you wanna start making out with this guy and so on...but how do you get to that point? Like ill start it but how do u get his attention to make him want to kiss you? Like its not just some random guy i mean ive had sex with him so its not like a first time or anything... (link)
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if you've had sex with him, then i dont see why it would be weird to just start making out with him?
whenever i want to make out/kiss my boyfriend, i just look at him & hold his face & then start out with a small simple kiss & it usually leads to making out, and so on. maybe you should try the same? I hope i helped. :]
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