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he doesn't last long
When my boyfriend and I are having sex, he tends to climax very early. Out of all the times we have had sex, the longest he lasted was 5 minutes! I need him to last a little longer so I can finally orgasm (I've never even had one). What can either of us do to solve this problem?
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Boys tend to get more pleasure out of sexual intercorse more sooner than woman, if it helps hold a vibrator against your clitor to orgamsn sooner x
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use the stop and go tech. when he is about to climax puill out till he can go longer and then continue and repeat this you have to
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I say have more fore-play, that way it can be slower, don`t rush it
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hmm,
ohh yuh.
have him wear a condom,
because it increases the climax time.
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me & my last boyfriend had the same problem..
okay, use a condom, because it reduces the sensation for the guy.
you could also try newer positions, such as doggystyle because it doesn't allow him to get as much pleasure, but it still pleasures him.
or its even a good idea to let him eat you out first & then start having sex, you'll climax faster. but thats basically all. im sure there are more better ideas, but i hope i helped anyways? =)
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First, use condoms everytime. Young guys have this problem frequently due to overexcitement, and inexperience. Also, this can be the result of hurried masterbation...basically training the body to orgasm as fast as possible to avoid getting caught. Not having sex often may increase the rate of orgasm for a male, because he is sensitive to the stimulation.
As far as you are concerned, the best way to discover your own orgasm is without him. Then, you will be able to transfer your knowledge of what helps you orgasm alone, to when you are with your partner. Females usually orgasm easier on top during sex, because you have more control of your own stimulation. Him not lasting is not a good excuse for him to get out of giving you your turn at orgasm. He probably is just clueless. Figure it out alone and teach him, or ask for oral. That should do it if he does not give up after five minutes. A last note*** Oral sex will also spread sexual transmitted diseases, so know your partner and take precautions. Hopefully you are already using condoms, which will also help him last longer! Some types are made especially for this, so try some.
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The best answer I can give you is FOREPLAY. There are plenty of things that you can do together to get you closer to orgasm before you actually have sex. Read around.
If anything, try not to verbally pressure your boyfriend. If there is anything that will destroy a man's ego, it's the fact that he can't satisfy you. Experiment with foreplay techniques that get you aroused before you actually have sex.
Don't worry if you can't have an orgasm through vaginal sex if you've never had a climax before. My suggestion would be to use masturbation to figure out your body likes. After all, if you don't know how to satisfy yourself, how do you expect another person to do so? Take the time to learn your own body. With that knowledge, you can enhance your sexual experience with a partner.
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