Question Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 2:29 pm
i have this guy friend called Chris and i think he's just the best. he's so funny and caring and just so amazingly awesome!
the other day we were hanging out and just before he left he said he had something to tell me. he told me that he loved me and that he had done ever since the first time he'd met me. then he kiss me and ran out. i realised after he'd left that i'd fallen in love with him too, and it just took him saying it to make me realise that i did. but have i left it too late to tell him?? i don't want him to think that i don't like him and miss my chance but i just don't know how to say it now, the moments kind of gone?!
karisue answered Thursday September 21 2006, 5:43 pm: tell him. it doesn't matter how late it is. just apoligize for not being sooner & tell him that at first you were a little nervous, but you truly know how you feel now. he'll appreciate your honesty. :] [ karisue's advice column | Ask karisue A Question ]
Geneva answered Thursday September 21 2006, 4:56 pm: it's never too late, you might want to tell hi m soon though, befoe he starts to expect it! good luck! [ Geneva's advice column | Ask Geneva A Question ]
adviice_whore answered Thursday September 21 2006, 4:29 pm: if it was only the other day then of course not. it takes people years to let someone know they love them! like the person said under me, its never too late. he is probably waiting for you to make the next move because he doesnt want to seem obsessed. let him know you love him back and ask him to the movies or mall or something. ♥ [ adviice_whore's advice column | Ask adviice_whore A Question ]
Vikki27 answered Thursday September 21 2006, 4:05 pm: It's never too late to tell someone you love them. If you really do feel that way, just tell him. There doesn't need to be a moment or a time or a place because he will just be pleased to know you feel the same way.
I would, however, suggest that you tell him in person. You need to sit him down, look him straight in the eye and just say it.
If, on the other hand, you really want to create a moment, get him to go for a walk somewhere with you. Get him to hang out with you at home if you like and put some soft music on. Go out for a meal and tell him there. Moments can be made anywhere, so use that to your advantage.
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