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does anyone know what this song is called....?

"" You said the way my blue eyes shined, put those Georgia stars to shame that night..."

Thanks so much

Tim Mcgraw & it's by Taylor Swift. great song!

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Dear Everyone,

how can you tell a guy likes you. i know i should just ask him but i dont really want to unless im sure he actually does.

signs that he likes me?

1. he IMs me first[before i used to IM first]
2. he has nicknames for me [which no one else has]
3. his default pic on his myspace is of me and him together
4. he plays around with me by holding my hand, sitting on my lap, messing with my hair, ect.
5. out of all his friends that are girls, he pays the most attention to me
6. he constantly wants to hang out together and when i have to go he begs me to stay[lol he will hold on to me and not let me go!]
7. he will make certain remarks; did i ever tell you how much i love you?
8. he shares his secrets with me that he has told no one else
9. he hugs me from behind
10. we always get mistaked for being a couple
[the other day a guy came up to me and said someone told him that my friend and i were "together". and when i asked him who told him that he wouldnt tell me. he said he forgot.]

but see the problem with all of this is that i used to like him then i told him and it was a disater because the feelings werent returned. and then i stopped liking him and now i do again. so im not sure about this one.

sincerly,
Emily Williams

sounds like he likes you... don't do anything thing til he does so it wont end up in disaster.

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i no this question doesnt really fit this category but i hav msn and on a bunch of ppl's personal names tht deal w/ love hav a sign: 3 sum lik tht 1 of those 2 ive asked a bunch of ppl but WAT does it mean???

Delesha :)

it's a heart.

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this is kind of an akward question to ask..but how exactly do you give a handjob? and what do you do after? it would be kind of weird to hold the guys hand after or something..

you just "play" with his penis with your hand. it's not a hard thing to do and if you don't know how, have him guide you or tell you how he likes it. I know a site that teaches you.. if you want that, let me know privately. after.. just make out of have him finger you (i recommend him fingering you first tho). you dont have to hold hands (a little awkward..) you can cuddle after.

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i translate from american espanola to english
13/f. Im not sure how I have taste of my friend. Like in bff or the bf. Weve be friends really long then he began during long time ago to say bffs so I did to because I say more to him than to my other bffs and he he says more to me and he was always there for me. But on the other hand so much people think or say to us they think we dating or we must but we are not. He knows I had taste of him that I know that it had taste of me but now I do not have any idea. I went last night to a party of paintball. Both we go much then paint balling in the party that my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and he. It would go mainly with him. And we flirt together so much that is what im confused around. when we separated he looked for to me and worried? im the kind of gothic violent rough girl and hes the kind of nice prepy. Other individuals that taste had and had taste of me would be im rough to each alsothey back. Pero hes to pleasant. He is that as what must be. But now hes been wearin much black and acting depressed. what does that mean. But on the other hand we joked or we did shoot eachother. he spoke with my other friend on whom not tell me. began truth or dare. And he began to my 5 better friendly and they and another individual. I kept doing of truths that were to nervous. It knew that it was a set up. He requested truth to me if i ever take a dare. Then she requested truth to me if I had taste of him then truth to him if he had taste of me we both say no. im not sure if I have taste of him as boy friend or best friend? And ive never kissed or been kissed. That is what it was supposed to be. I thought wed end up makin out. I have taste of him like bff or bf or bff or the then bf then that just I am not sure. Hes everything i think about.
I really need help soon. im gona see tomarrow in one class only. it will be so okward. if I never do tomarrow probly it will never happen between us. both knew or we thought before the party that we had taste of eachother.
I do I have taste of him like as boyfriend or best friend. How does he have taste of me? What must i do? How you kiss? Ive never had a bf! But i do rejection to many individuals.
How do i change what happened?
What must i do?
i spaek american espanola an i use a transentor

okie dokie then...
it sounds like he likes you but it's stillnot clear if its flirting or like just being your friend. it seems to me that its more like he actually likes you. just give it time... don't rush into anything... no kissing for now since you're not even sure he likes you like that. class... just pretend nothing happened. it's only awkward if you make it awkward so just act normal. nothing bad or embarrasing happened so you have nothing to worry about.

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what are some really good movies
i'm a 15 year old girl btw.

the devil wears prada
cruel intentions
borat
rocky horror picture show
mean girls
diary of a mad black woman
pursuit of happyness
just my luck

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im 16/f. my boyfriend is experienced and has had sex before and i am still a virgin. he fingered me the other day and when he put 2 fingers in it really hurt me. We're planning on having sex like within the next few days. Will it really really hurt beacuse it hurt me so much with just 2 fingers? thanks

I think you're moving just a tad bit too fast here. have him finger you a couple more times before you move to sex... it's a big step and not only would it hurt physically but emotionally too. i don't know if it will happen to you but one of my close friends made that mistake a couple days ago... the guy dumped her and i've been on the phone with her for 2 hours everynight since.. think about it...

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13/f

Tonight I'm going to a mixed boys and girls sleepover, and the guy I fancy is going to be there. I want to look good, but I can't be too dressed-up because it's a sleepover, not a party. Also, I would like to wear something a little rock chick.
So my question is, what should I wear?

Thanks in advance, xxx

i don't know what you like to wear but i would wear (if i were going kinda rockerish)
black sweats that are flattering
a band tee/tank that matches
chucks & a some original jewelry.
straight hair

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Hey, ok, I need songs that I have to do w/being overwhelmed or just so busy and tired and run-down. Anything like that would help. Doesn't really matter what type of music either. Thanks

don't worry bout it - shedaisy (it just makes you feel better haha)
honey i'm home - shania twain
country women like to sing about that haha if you need more let me know.

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13/f. Im no sure cómo tengo gusto de mi amigo. Como en bff o el FB. Weve sido amigos realmente cercanos entonces que él comenzó durante mucho tiempo a decir bffs así que hice porque te digo más que mis otros bffs y él me dice mucho y estaba siempre allí para uno a. Pero por otra parte ligamos tanto a gente pensamos o decimos éramos datación o debemos pero no éramos. Él sabe tuve gusto de él que conozco que él tuvo gusto de mí pero ahora no tengo ninguna idea. Fui a un partido del paintball anoche. Ambos vamos pintura Balling mucho entonces en el partido que mi equipo era mis 5 bffs 3 de sus bfs y él. Iría principalmente con él. Y nos ligamos tanto que es lo que im confundido tan alrededor. ¿Él demostraba apagado y demostrándome apagado y cuando nos separamos él me buscaba y preocupado? Pero im la clase de muchacha y de hes ásperos violentos góticos la clase de individuo agradable prepy. Otros individuos que tenía gusto y tuvieron gusto de mí serían im áspero áspero a cada uno también. Pero hes a agradable. Es eso como qué debe ser. Pero ahora hes sidos wearin mucho negro y actuando presionado. Hace ese medio algo. Pero por otra parte bromeamos o nos tiramos en propósito. él hablaba con mi otro amigo sobre algo que no me dejarían No. ella comenzó después verdad o atrevimiento. Y comenzó apenas a mis 5 mejores amigos y ellos y otro individuo. Guardé el hacer de verdades que estaba apenas a nervioso. Sabía que era una disposición. Él me pidió verdad si la identificación toma nunca un atrevimiento. Entonces ella me pidió verdad si tuve gusto de él entonces verdad a él si él tuvo gusto de mí nosotros ambo No. dicho. Lo lamento. ¿Cada uno acaba de saber ya de todos modos solamente im no sure si tengo gusto de él novio o mejor amigo? E ive nunca besado o besado. Eso es lo que fue supuesto para ser. Pensé wed el comienzo que te duraba que apenas beso de un atrevimiento del `' como hacer o algo. Tengo gusto de él como bff del FB del bff del FB entonces entonces entonces que apenas no estoy seguro cuál es incorrecto. Hes todo lo que pienso alrededor.
necesito realmente ayuda pronto. el gona im lo ve otra vez tomarrow en una clase solamente. será tan okward. si no lo hago tomarrow probly nunca sucederá entre nosotros. decimos a eachother mucha materia y ambos sabíamos o pensamos antes del partido que tuvimos gusto del eachother.
Hago tengo gusto de él como un novio o mejor amigo. ¿Cómo hace él tienen gusto de mí? ¿Qué debo hacer? ¿Cómo te besas? ¡Ive nunca tenía un FB! Pero rechazo a muchos individuos.
¿Cómo cambio qué sucedió?
¿Qué más debo hacer?

did you use a translator for this? where are you from... your spanish is ...interesting....
no estoy segura de que entiendo lo que me estas preguntando... si necesitas mi ayuda, dimelo en ingles por favor. sin no hablas ingles (yo creo que si por que to espanol esta medio raro) dime en ingles!

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Can someone help me
I need to portray for class a picture with words of the quintessential family portrait
Like okay so far I know its this:
Family – mother, father, brother, sister, dog?
Living in a big house with a white picket fence
Car, suburbs
Anything else?

they are all in shape, eat dinner together after cleaning up and combing their hair...

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hi, i might get a room at the hilton leicester, in england, but like, are the rooms the same at every hilton? because the bed takes up 1/2 of the room, and in movies at the expensive hotels, the bed takes up 1/20 of it. ive only seen pictures of the hilton, but yeah. Also, they say on the website that the rooms have "fluffy robes" so would they charge you if these fluffy robes accidently fell into your bag and yuou walked out with them? lol thanks.

don't try to steal from the hotel.. i'm pretty sure they will charge you for it. yes, they charge for the minibar.

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Okay so, he and I have been together for 4 years. I've broken down alot of his committment barriers, no kids, I have kids and he loves them. no living together, we have lived happily together for 3 years.. we have yet to fight, no marriage "right now". he bought a 4br. house for me and my kids!! we move in this week..he has said, you want to be mrs. dont you?? I said yes, of course!!Lots of suggestive talk, his friends slap him on the back and say when are you gonna marry this beautiful girl?? He blushes and laughs! My b-day is 7-7-77. Proposal POSSIBLE?? He has been married 2x, me once. we are an incredible team with love and understanding, lots of communication?? what do you think? I am 29, he is 42, age definately doesnt matter..

he will probably be popping the question soon. from what you have mentioned, sounds like he is just one step away! good for you!

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my boyfriend wears too much cologne but i don't know how to tell him! i do NOT want to come straight out and tell him "you wear too much" he just needs to know somehow. how can i let him know that?

just tell him... don't leave him to wonder why you don't want to get close. I don't know how close you 2 are but i'd be funny about it like boo i think you sprayed one too many times. you could just ask him nicely like what cologne is this? it's really strong... then he might get the hint.

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i have verizon wireless.


i only have 100 texts and my mom says is she adds on 1000 to it, it will make our plan longer, so she wont.



is this true?

well you can't have 1100 texts for verizon...
but if you mean 1000, then yes, you can.
if she just changes the texting plan, it wont add time to the 2 year contract... I'm almost positive.
she might just want you to use your texts wisely (never worked for me, but you can try) or just doesn't know.

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helloo =] i was just wondering
what are some good spray tans/lotions
that give great results that i
can buy at the store? like cvs,
walgreens, kmart, jewel. something
that is easy to apply. thankss [=

sally hansen airbrush sun has worked for me a couple times.

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Ok, so my mom installed this internet filter called CyberPatrol. It's really annoying because it won't allow me on way too many sites! It pops up for the most unnecessary reasons!!! usually its for "chat", "glamour and intimate apperal" and "drugs alcohol and tobacco"!!!! I'm a 13 year old girl and this Stupid filter isn't allowing me to Chat with my friends or shop or even allow me on any websites were they even Mention the word cigarettes! Please help me! 1.tell me if you agree with me. 2. I don't want to know how to hack into cyberpatrol, but I want to know how to get my mom to be reasonable with me! Is It because she doesn't trust me? Does she think I'm gonna go on 'adult' websites? PLEASE DO NOT tell me that she just wants to 'protect' me from junk on the internet, because that's not the problem!
In short...I just want my mom to be reasonable!

Just don't freak out about her. Maybe ask her nicely to change the settings. start off with that and gain her trust. tell her that you do not plan on smoking (insert reason here) and it just happens to be on some sites that you like to visit. Reassure her that you won't give out information or talk to anyone you don't know. you have to be mature about it... no screaming or yelling... just telling her that some not so bad stuff is blocking you from where you need to go. She is trying to protect you from bad stuff but you can't be sheltered forever, ya know? I have a brother who is 13 also and my parents have a protection system on his computer too but they just don't allow porn and just really bad stuff. if all else fails, remind her that there are school computers and you could do stuff on there so you might as well learn to be responsible at home, not somewhere where anything goes.

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15/f

my boyfriend (17/m)has been fighting with me a lot lately and much of it is harsh. today was killer. it got to the point where he called me a dumbass and the most immature person that he knows, and that he's been going out with me for the past 10 months, because i have "the potential to be a good girlfriend." he tells me that i act like a spoiled little kid and need to grow up and stop being so immature.

this kind of fight happens too often. it has lead me to vodka. i can mix it with cranberry juice to cover the smell and my parents never notice that its gone so i can get away with it. i drink it because its the only thing that can get rid of my saddness. i dont want to be an alcoholic. i realize that i need help.

what can i do? what should i do?
please help me.
i need it.

and also,
i need a friend.

he's being ridiculous. you need to dump him because if it's making you unhappy, you shouldn't be with him. don't sacrifice your happiness over a guy that just thinks you have "potential". after 10 months... it should be past the potential phase.
however, he does have a point with the immature thing... maybe not the most immature person (he's dating someone 2 years younger... you're not supposed to grow up fast just for him) but drinking to make you happy is an immature solution. i know it seems like the only way to just kinda forget about things but there are different ways to handle sadness. take this from the person who has been through soo much in a year and did all kinds of "bad" stuff to shake it off. i guess i can help you with experience so lemme know what you're willing to do to make a few changes and be happier. i'll be your friend! :)

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im going to a kenny chesney concert soon.
and i wanna know what are some cute saying to put on a t-shirt?
like rewording his lyrics into cute and funny sayings.
thanksss.=]

i would put
"she's a big star"
"at Kenny chesney (tour name) 07!!"

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i live in NY. is it to late to still be wearing UGGs? to me it is.. but i still see people wearing them? do you still wear themm? ..the weather here is like in the 50's.

I wore mine in NYC last night & i didn't feel too out of place. it was like 35 degrees out so i definatly did. before i thought it was too late and i put them away but the weather is being weird so i wear them.

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