I like fairies (thus why I am wearing fairy wings in the picture). Good grammar rocks, too. It doesn't have to be perfect but I get frustrated when people completely disregard it. I like every color except pink. I hate the wind. Sometimes, I carry around a little teddy bear I found at an antique store. His name is Robert. I dress very eccentrically. It's not unusual for me to wear a prairie dress one day and a Mod dress (think Austin powers) the next. I don't dye my hair, or wear much make-up. I think it's sad that no one puts any emphasis on natural beauty anymore. I think it's a good thing to be open and educated about sex and other issues that are considered taboo. I have a hard time seeing where homophobics are coming from.
Basically, I'm just some weird teenager in Arizona. If I haven't scared you off already, feel free to drop me a line. -Danielle
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does in hurt when myou have sex for the first time iam 15 and a girl (link)
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Yes, it really, really hurt me. It depends on the person, but for the most part, it will hurt to some extent. Circumstances are important though. If you are really comfortable with the guy, use lubrication and have a lot of foreplay, that should ease the pain a bit.
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where could i get a homecoming dress..and fast! ive checked nordstorm and all major companys.. debs, delias, macys, pennys.. all of those.. anywhere else? (link)
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I really love loralei.com
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ok incase i end up sex with this guy later today and i was wondering if i should shave down there well like i uslly shave but not all just most but i dont know how he likes it so what should i do? (link)
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If you are expecting him to go down on you, you might want to. Foreplay is pretty important, especially for a girl.
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ok i know u guys are probelly sick of hearing these qs but i need to know im 14f and my height is 5.5 and my weight is like 116 do i weigh to much for a gurl my age and height.
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No, you are not overweight. Stop worrying! ;)
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okay this might sound dumb to some of you, but i have a friend named well lets say kristen well shes the type that if you like the guy she likes shes alright with it intil you start to go out with this guy then she like hates you and thinks your trying to ruin her life so shes pretty emo, well the other day she told me that this guy that is really hott that ive been watching named josh that he liked me, well she thinks i like this other guy but actually i like josh, i dont know if i should start talking to him and go out with him since we like each other or should i back off since kristen likes him?
please help. it might be dumb but plz
no mean answers
btw: 15.f
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Just go after who you like. :)
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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month and 1 week he wants to have sex im 14 hes 15 have we been going out long enough (link)
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No, I don't think you have been going out long enough. If you have to even ask, the answer is probably no. Wait until you know each other and trust each other a lot. Wait until 6 months at the VERY least.
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I have a big problem with thinking i am FAT! I'm 5'5 and i weigh 119.5! So I dont eat alot. My boyfriend worries about me an tells me if i dont go to start eating right then he was gonna tell someone. I went to the doctor to get my physical for cross country an he pushed on my tummy an asked me if i ever ate an i said sometimes an he said do you have an appitite an im like not really an he said that he could tell that i hardley ever ate by pressing on my stomach! I wanna eat but i get too full soo easy! what should i do? (link)
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My doctor says that I am too thin as well. I don't eat a lot, but honestly, I just don't get time until later in the day. I think what you should do is try eating a lot of small meals if you get full easily, which is supposedly the healther way to go about it anyway. If you'd normally eat 2 or 3 really big meals, divide that up so it's about 5 or 6 smaller meals.
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Today my boyfriend told me some stuff would be much more enjoyable if my lower region was shaved, but the problem is, it IS shaved. My question is- how 'shaved' can you get? Can you get to where there aren't even the little hairs? I've tried that before, but all it did was leave me with razorburn. (link)
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I'd say try a wax... or tell him to fuck off! Whichever you prefer:) He should be happy that you at least care about his wants at all.
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So some new neighbors just moved in a couple months ago. I am almost positive that he beats his wife. They have two young daughters. I have no actual evidence.
Is there anyone I could anonymously call to look into it? (link)
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This is an incredibly tough situation since it is dangerous to get involved in.
Here are some hotline numbers...
1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
1-800-787-3224 (TTY)
They will probably have better advice for you than anyone else here can provide.
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Does anybody know anything about Julius Caeser. Cuz i have question on my worksheet and it says why do you think the book is called Julius Caeser and not Brutus Cassius sense he is the tragic hero in the story. (link)
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He is the tragic hero because he gets so awfully betrayed by his best friends. His conflict never gets resolved, and therefore you have tragedy. He is the protagonist of the story, so the story is going to have his name in the title.
Sparknotes.com and cliffnotes.com always helps, along with pinkmonkey.com and novelguide.com
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I was just wondering if i'm like mentally okay. I'm like super sound sensitive as in i can hear alot of noises and all but i'll focus in on one and it'll start to really annoy me. Then i'll start getting mad all of a sudden and it'll bother me even more. The same is when people move alot or scratch or anything it bothers me so much i get like steaming mad. I also have really bad mood swings. My family gives me a hard time about them but i can't control them. I just get mad and all. Is there something wrong??? No stupid answers plz. I'll rate high for good ones. Thanks.
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If you have anger management problems, you might have a personality disorder such as Borderline. I suggest you ask your family to get you to a therapist or a psychologist rather than waste their time getting mad at you for it. It's always nice to have an unbiased professional help you out.
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I have a fairly disgusting problem. A few months ago, without any warning, I got these weird sort of cuts like, on the underside of my breasts. They're not really cuts, but I can't explain it any other way. I guess it's almost like a rash, and it very often stings. Sometimes it bleeds. I looked it up on web MD and the only thing I could find was a breast infection, but I looked at pictures of it and it doesn't look like this. Does anybody have any idea what this is, what caused it, and what I can do about it? Please don't tell me to go to a doctor, I've already figured that out and I plan on doing it, but I'd like to have some idea from somebody who may have had this happen before. Thanks very much.
Oh yeah, and normally I laugh at sarcastic answers, but not this time. Please do not answer this unless you can be serious and you know what you're talking about. (link)
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Maybe you are reacting to a certain type of material that your bra has. I have never heard of anything like this before, so my answer isn't very educated. Sorry!
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well, im not really sure how to ask this... but how is it that u gain privacy????? im a freshman in high school and my mom sits next 2 me when i talk on AIM and looks @ my myspace constantly. she's more on top of that thing than i am. look, i love my mom, but i dont approve of having no privacy. sum1 please help me out here! (link)
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I say either use the internet at the library or just try talking to her. If she won't budge it's really more her problem than yours for being a little psycho.
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so my boyfriend brandon and me were surposed to go out to dinner with my mom tonight. and he went to get new speakers today for his truck so hes been installings them all day. well i told him were going at 6. its fucking 5:51 right now.
he doesnt have his cell with him and hes not answering his house phone. and hes idle on aim for 2 hours. im pretty pissed. and its really embarassing for me cause my mom is like wheres brandon. so yeah i dont really know what to do. i guess im just going out with my mom now. but i need a good away message for this asshole to read. cause i know he reads them.this is so not like him, hes honestly the greatest guy ive ever known and im extremely happy with him. im just pissed at him right now. and he even told me today when i asked him if hell be done in time "yes i will babe cause i know youll hate me forever if i dont go"...so he KNOWS im going to be pissed already. hellppp..and can you please help me what to put on my away mssg?
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If he's such a great guy then calm down and talk to him about it when you can. Something bad might have happened- wouldn't you feel bad if it was beyond his control and you left this awful message up?
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this is so bad. this is so so bad! i had sex with this guy who is 20. im 13. dont think im a bad person please! but anyway, a lot of things "werent right" so i bought a pregnancy test and it came out posative. im in my 2nd trimester right now. im so scared i cant even deal with it. every day i cry and cry! my parents dont know what to make of me! i didnt tell the guy! what do i do? im so scared! i dont want to give her (yea its a girl) up for adoption because ive wanted kids since i was like 6! this is horrible. i could DIE in childbirth because im so young. what do i do? any tips? ANYTHING! im so mofo SCARED!!
anything helps
no smartass answers
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You need to talk to a doctor and sort through your choices. Freaking out is NOT going to help. You also need to talk to your parents, it wasn't very clear if you told them or not. I know you've wanted kids since you were little, but you have plenty of time to have more. I don't think you will die, especially if you seek proper medical care. 13 year olds, sadly, have children all the time. Luckily, most of them don't die. Please seek help for this- you are too young to take this on alone.
I think that the people who keep telling you that this is rape and all of that really need to get their priorities straight. Sure, it's illegal, but does that change what happened? You need to focus on the problem now, and bringing more drama into your life by bringing him back into your life or getting your parents to sue him is not going to help you at all. The last thing a pregnant 13 year old needs is more stress.
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ok if a gurl sleeps w/ a guy who shes not goin out w/ and has cheated on her boyfriends a few times just like goin up the shirt or making out would u call her a whore (link)
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No. I'd call her confused and seeking attention in the wrong places. Sleeping with a guy you're not going out with can be okay as long as you know the consequences and that it probably won't lead to anything. Cheating, on the other hand, is really not cool. It's never too late to start making good choices.
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A few days ago I was at my boyfriend's house. We were in the living room and he turned to me and said "I think I can smell marijuana". (He knows the smell because his sister did it once when she was in highschool) So he concluded that his mother must be doing it since he had found a bag of it in her drawer two years ago. He also added that one of her workers comes over to drink and then spends the night. He believes that the guy who spends the night is her "supplier." The next day when she was gone, he went into her room and looked into the drawer where she had kept it two years ago. Sure enough he found some. We both do not condone drugs and I asked him to talk to her about it. He did not want to do that. So we decided the next best thing to do would be to throw it away. So we did that. Then today I asked him if she's still doing it. And he said he didnt know and decided to check her drawer. He found another bag that she had gone out and bought. Finally, he decided to confront her but she was not home. So we went over to my house and then I get a call on my home phone from his mother. She started asking him if he looked through her drawers to which he said yes. And she said "Well where is my stuff!" And then he said she shouldnt be doing it and hung up on her. Now he is at home but she is sleeping. And I was wondering what the BEST possible solution of dealing with this is? And should he keep letting her do it even if he doesnt like it? Or should he get her help or try to stop her from doing it? Please answer this urgently. Thanks. (link)
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Your best bet is to not get involved because even though he is your boyfriend and you care about him, what his mother does is not really your business. He needs to handle this himself if he has such a problem with it.
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ok i hope i don't freak anyone out but sometimes i feel like i belong in a previous time. i feel like i dont' belong in this world.....(for intance i feel like i was supposed to live in the 1950's or something)....what should i do? (link)
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You're never going to get to live in that time, so really you just have to accept the time you live in. If you have a special interest in it, it never hurts to research it and get into the stuff that was popular during that time.
Plus, if you think about it, the world has always had its disadvantages. People romanticize the past because they didn't live in it. Would you really want to live through the age of McCarthyism? People tend to forget about the bad stuff.
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i really need advice!! i know i shouldn't be worrying about this stuff, and i know i might develop later on, but i need some tips now! is there any type of food or any exercise or anything i can do to get boobs but not get fat? or get boobs at all? i really have none and i'm sixteen!! and i just look disproportional. someone help please! i'll rate high (link)
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I have had friends who's boobs have grown due to birth control, but everyone responds to birth control differently. There are also herbal supplements that claim to help breast growth... can't hurt to try them can it?
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my eyesight used to be really good until i started reading a lot and so my eyes were in the light a lot and now they're pretty bad. i can barely see people walking down the hall. i have glasses, but i don't like them at all, and once you start wearing them a lot, you get dependent on them, and you can never not wear them. right now i can still see people in front of me and stuff, and i don't wanna have to start wearing contacts every day and not be able to see without them. does anyone know anything i can eat or any exercises for the eyes i can do to make my eyes get better? or anything? no surgery. please help i'll rate high! (link)
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There's really nothing you can do except wear your glasses for when you really need them if you don't want to become dependent.
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