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What is the most important thing when you look for love?
Someone who makes you feel safe and wanted. Someone who you know you can trust and you can be honest to. Someone who can always make you smile no matter what, and someone who's sincere.
heyy! i'm a gymnast but i have this problem on bars, it seems that everytime i'm going to do my routine (kip, switch kip, birdie, straddleback, kip, birdie, kip, cast handstand, giant, giant, layout flyaway) my chalk comes off and the bar becomes very slippery after my straddleback. i've slipped off the bar on my giants before becasue of this.. i just a lot of chalk & water.. does anyone have any suggestions as to how to chalk my grips so it doesn't feel slippery? oh and does anyone know where to buy that butt glue stuff? the stuff that makes your leo stick so you don't get wedgies? haha thanks!
I was a gymnast too, for about seven years. You should but chalk on the bar as well as your grips, but It works better if you just put a little bit of water on your grips so that the chalk sticks. If you use a lot of water then you'll slip easier and you don't want to lose your grip doing giants or straddlebacks. You can buy what your looking for at most Big Fives or usually leotard and dance stores.
-Hope I Helped and Good Luck with Gymnastics!
16/F dating a 17/m for over a year.
Today, I had plans to meet up with my mom to go look at prom dresses after school.
I told my boyfriend, "I'm not waiting for you after school" because it takes him a minute or two to meet up with me after school. But when I don't have to wait for him (I've always waited on him unless he's absent), I can get out of the school pretty fast and manage to beat the school traffic. He gets upset and starts to ignore me.
A few minutes after telling him that, my mom sends me a text message telling me she was going to check me out an hour before school dismissal. Of course, I told my boyfriend. He still continues to ignore me.
After I got home, we were IMing each other back and forth with this conversation:
Him: :-\
Me: what?
Him: what you said when i last saw you
Me: what? that I didnt want to wait?
Him: yeah, that was stupid
Him: saves you a minute and a half at the most
Me: no no, 4-5 minutes
Him: it takes me 4-5 minutes to walk about 150 feet?
Me: no, but have you seen me walk fast? Yeah, I do that when I dont have to wait.
Him: just shut up
Him: even if you were going to save time, big deal
Him: what did you need to rush outta there so fast for?
Him: that dress might sell out before you get there?
Him: doubt it
Me: to look at dresses?
Me: to beat hellacious traffic?
Him: you're ridiculous
Him: the whole thing was stupid
Him: waiting on me wouldnt have made you any late
Me: even your friend said it made sense
Him: he didnt care
Me: he said, "It makes sense", Andrew.
Him: and uh, i dont care
Him: forget what he said, it wouldnt have made a difference if you waited on me
Him: and it was ridiculous that you would argue with me about it and completely refuse to wait for me
Me: you're the ridiculous one who is currently overreacting. It doesn't matter anymore, Andrew. I checked out at 1:51.
Him: no, it doesnt matter that you checked out
Him: YOU WERE REFUSING TO WAIT FOR ME
Me: okay? So I could get out of there.
Him: that's stupid
Him: you're f***ing dumb as s**t f**k you im done good bye
He signed off at 7:42:29 PM.
What should I do?
No offense, but it sounds liek he's a jerk. If he over reacts like that to something so simple than maybe you should think about finding another boyfriend. There are tons of guys who you'll probably like a lot more. You shouldn't have to waste your time with the same fight over and over again.
How old do you have to be to get a hotel room in New York State?
It's the same as everywhere else in the US, 18 unless you have a guardian with you who is over 18.
i know they're both bad, but which ones worse?
-estacy, or weed?
Ecstacy is way worse than weed, weed gets you high, ecstacy can kill you.
whos the artist that has the lyrics to "you stole my heart" as the title? It begins with a D i think. and the music video had like tarot cards in it? sorry if this is confusing,but thanks in advance!
You Stole My Heart by Dr. Sin
whats a valedictorian and how/when do you become one?
thanks.
A valedvictorian is someone who has the highest GPA out of their graduating class.
sorry if this is the wrong category. anyway, to the question.
Im 13 and a girl(tell by the name?) and I've really liked this guy for maybe...seven months now. I talk to him alot at school, and he's grown to be a really good friend. He teases me and flirts-if you can call it that?-(example-knudges me when im on the edge of a seat so I almost fall off, then smiles and laughs, and helps me back up...)and I really, really like him. A few days before vacation, which was last week, he started to sit next to me in the classes where we can choose where we sit, and made sure he could stand next to me in the lunch line, and talked to me alot more. We talked on line for about an hour the day vacation started, and we laughed and teased each other, you know, stuff like that. I was going to tell him I like him, but I chickened out. I got frustrated, because I had a few chances. Today, the day after vacation, he didn't talk to me at all, except for once at the very end of the day. What I'm asking is do you think, maybe, he likes me? I don't want to say anything to him if he dosen't like me, because I get embarrased really easily, and I don't want anything to change our friendship. So, I sort've have two questions : Is there a chance he likes me, and what should I do? I can't get him out of my head. Please help. Thanks :)
When guy's like girls they tease them. I don't know why but they do. Plus it sounds like he likes being around you, especially if he sits by you and not his friends in class. So there's a pretty big chance he like you. Maybe this guy just needs to know you like him back before he makes a move. Good Luck with telling him!
Hey im 16/f. Well my parents just recently found out about me dating my brothers friend who is my age. He was spending the night "for my brother" and we were like sneaking around my parents back cuz they didnt know and they made us break up. (his mom doesn't like me) So i've been a reck lately and we still really love each other and what-not but he goes to a different school but he'll be here next year so we're gonna date next year. But i try to write notes but he doesn't want to get caught cuz his dad like beats him. (not bad) So are there any songs/quotes that describe sort of this situation it doesnt have to be exact! Just how i want him back and its just hard.. Thanks a bunch!!!!!
S CLUB LYRICS
"Secret Love"
La la-la la-la la-la la-la la
La la-la la-la la-la la la la
La la-la la-la la-la la-la la
La la-la la-la la-la la la la la
I come to see you
Every night
All on my own
Nobody else
The way that you're dancing
The look in your eyes
How your body moves
Will hypnotise
I can't
Show my feelings
When I'm around you
But I can
Hide this secret secret secret
Like I do
I see the fire in your soul
And it drives me wild
The music's burning in my heart
I feel desire
When you dance I lose control
Cause you lead me on
To the point of no return
My secret love
La la-la la-la la-la la-la la
La la-la la-la la-la la la la la
Underneath the moonlight
I imagine his kiss
All of my dreams
Start like this
I'm way downtown
I'm out of my depth
Why am I here
What do I say
But I can't
Fight my feelings
When I'm around you
But I can
Hide this secret secret secret
Like I do
I see the fire in your soul
And it drives me wild
The music's burning in my heart
I feel desire
When you dance I lose control
Cause you lead me on
To the point of no return
My secret love
La la-la la-la la-la la-la la
La la-la la-la la-la la la la
La la-la la-la la-la la-la la
La la-la la-la la-la la la la la
The way you move's so firey and strong
Dark latin heats me up as the beat goes on
Your moody stares send shivers down my spine
The more I watch the more my temperature climbs
And my secret shows
I see the fire in your soul
And it drives me wild
The music's burning in my heart
I feel desire
When you dance I lose control
Cause you lead me on
To the point of no return
My secret love
I see the fire in your soul
And it drives me wild
The music's burning in my heart
I feel desire
When you dance I lose control
Cause you lead me on
To the point of no return
My secret love
And this one kind of explains th situation:
No One Needs To Know lyrics
Am I dreaming?
Or Stupid?
I think i've been hit by cupid
No one needs to know
Right now.
You are viewing lyrics of No One Needs To Know by AVRIL LAVIGNE from the album UNKNOWN at LyricsAndSongs.COM
I met a tall, dark and handsome man
And I've been busy making big plans
No one needs to know
Right now.
I got my heart set
My feet wet
But he don't even know it yet
No one needs to know
Right now.
I'll tell him someday, someway, somehow
But I'm gonna keep it a secret for now
I want bells to ring
The choir to sing
A white dress that gets to keep the kinda hold on thing
But no one needs to know
Right now.
I'll tell him, someday, someway, someway
But I'm gonna keep it a secret for now.
Gonna have a little girl
A little boy
A little engy we call Leroy
But no one needs to know
Right now.
And I'm not lo-ohnly anymore at night
And he don't kno-oh-only he can make it right
And I'm not lo-ohnly anymore at night
And he don't kno-oh-only he can make it right
Am I dreaming?
Or Stupid?
But boy have I been hit by cupid.
No one needs to know
Right now.
No one needs to know
Right now
No one needs to know right now
I need to memorize a poem for school !
It has to be at least 10 lines and
published by an actually author. I was hoping to use one of the guy's peoms that Noah reads in The Notebook. However anything else will do.
Does anyone have any easy , school apporpriate poems that I would memorize? Rember they have to be by a real author. THANKS!!
The Notebook Poems
Dylan Thomas: The Notebook Poems 1930 – 34 Edited by Ralph Maud (London: Everyman, 1999)
Dylan Thomas began the first of his existing notebooks at the age of fifteen whilst living at 5 Cwmdonkin Drive, Swansea. They continued until he was nineteen, and stopped as he began to select poems from them for his first collection, 18 Poems, which was published in 1934. Poems from the notebooks also formed the basis of Twenty Five Poems (1936) and contributed to The Map of Love (1939) and Deaths and Entrances (1946).
These are the titles of all the poems published in The Notebook Poems. First lines are given when the poem is untitled.
Juvenilia from Manuscripts:
The Mishap
The Maniac
Song to a Child at Night-Time
You hold the ilex by its stem
Verse from Swansea Grammar School Magazine:
A Ballad of Salad
Request to an Obliging Poet
In Borrowed Plumes
The Sincerest Form of Flattery
The Callous Stars
Two Decorations
Poems from the story, ‘The Fight’
Frivolous is my hate
Warp
The Grass Blade’s Psalm
One has found a delicate power
The shepherd blew upon his reed
The Shepherd to his Lass
The rod can lift its twining head
1930 Notebook:
Osiris, Come to Isis
The lion-fruit goes from my thumb
Poem Written on the Death of a Very Dear Illusion
You shall not despair
My vitality overwhelms you
And so the New Love Came
On Watching Goldfish
The lion, lapping the water
I Am Aware
My river, even though it lifts
The corn blows from side to side lightly
We will be conscious of our sanctity
I have come to catch your voice
My love is deep night
When your furious motion is steadied,
No thought can trouble my unwholesome pose
The hill or sea and sky is carried
So I sink myself in the moment
No, pigeon, I’m too wise
The cavern shelters me from harm
Woman on Tapestry
Pillar breaks, and mask is cleft
It’s light that makes the intervals
Let me escape
Oh, dear, angelic time – go on
And the ghost rose up to interrogate
When I allow myself to fly
Admit the Sun
A Section of a Poem called ‘Hassan’s Journey into the World’
I know this vicious minute’s hour
Claudetta, You, and Me
Come, black-tressed Claudetta, home
Cool, oh no cool
They brought you mandolins
The air you breathe encroaches
When all your tunes have caused
Written in a classroom
Hand in hand Orpheus
I, poor romantic, held her heel
Oh! the children run towards the door
Tether the first thought, if you will
How shall the animal
1930-32 Notebook
This love – perhaps I overrate it
Today, this hour I breathe
Sometimes the sky’s too bright
Here is the bright green sea,
My golden bird, the sun
Live in my living
Rain cuts the place we tread
The morning, space for Leda
The spire cranes; its statue
Cool may she find the day
Yesterday, the cherry sun
Time enough to rot
Conceive these images in air
You be my hermaphrodite in logic
Until the light is less
The neophyte, baptized in smiles
To be encompassed by the brilliant earth
Who is to mar
The natural day and night
Although through my bewildered way
High on a hill
Refract the lady, drown the profiteer
Into be home from home
If the lady from the casino
Through sober to the truth when
It is the wrong, the hurt, the mineral
Even the voice will not last
True love’s inflated; from a truthful shape
Since, on a quiet night, I heard them talk
They are the only dead who did not love
Have hold on my heart utterly
The caterpillar is with child
Foot, head, or traces
Or be my paramour or die
The womb and the woman’s grave
Let Sheba bear a love for Solomon
There was one world and there is another
For us there cannot be a welcome
An end to substance in decay’s a sequence
Why is the blood red and the grass green
Have cheated constancy
There’s plenty in the world that doth not die
This time took has much
Which of you put out his rising
Written for a Personal Epitaph
When you have ground such beauty down to dust
Sever from what I trust
Never to reach the oblivious dark
Introductory poem
Take up this seed, it is most beautiful
There in her tears were laughter and tears again
How can the knotted root
Children of darkness got no wings
It’s not in misery but in oblivion
What lunatic’s whored after shadow
Here is a fact for my teeth
Any matter move it to conclusion
Too long, skeleton, death’s risen
No man knows loveliness at all
Do thou heed me, cinnamon smelling
They said, tired of trafficking
Be silent let who will
Being but men, we walked into the trees
The hunchback in the park
Out of the sighs a love comes
At last, in hail and rain
Upon your held-out hand
Nearly summer, and the devil
Pome
Were that enough, enough to ease the pain
Typescript poems:
Walking in gardens by the sides
Now the thirst parches lip and tongue
Lift up your face, light
Let it be known that little live but lies
The midnight road, though young man tread unknowing
With windmills turning wrong directions
The gossipers have lowered their voices
Especially when the November wind
February 1933 Notebook:
Sweet as the comets’ kiss night sealed
It is death though I have died
Had she not loved me at the beginning
Before the gas fades with a harsh last bubble
Hold on, whatever slips beyond the edge
After the funeral, mule praises, brays
We who were young are old. It is the oldest cry
To take to give is all, return what given
No faith to fix the teeth on carries
Out of a war of wits, when folly of words
In wasting one drop from the heart’s honey cells
With all the fever of the August months
Their faces shone under some radiance
See, on gravel paths under the harpstrung trees
Make me a mask to shut from razor glances
To follow the fox at the hounds’ tails
The ploughman’s gone, the hansom driver
Light, I know, treads the ten million stars
My body knows it wants that, often high
And death shall have no dominion
Within his head revolved a little world
Not from this anger, anticlimax after
The first ten years in school and park
Pass through twelve stages, reach the fifth
First there was the lamb on knocking knees
We lying by seasand watching yellow
Before We Sinned
Now understand a state of being, heaven
Interrogating smile has spoken death
No man believes, when a star falls shot
When I lie in my bed and the moon lies in hers
The tombstone tells how she died
Why east wind chills and south wind cools
This is remembered when the hairs drop out
In me ten paradoxes make one truth
A woman wails her dead among the trees
Praise to the architects
Here in this spring, stars float along the void
A praise of acid or a chemist’s lotion
Too many times my same sick cry
We have the fairy tales by heart
Find meat on bones that soon have none
Ears in the turrets hear
The woman speaks:
Let the brain bear the hammering
The minute is a prisoner in the hour
Shall gods be said to thump the cloud
Matthias spat upon the lord
August 1933 Notebook
The hand that signed the paper felled a city
Let for one moment a faith statement
You are the ruler of this realm of flesh
That the sum saintly might add to nought
Grief, thief of time, crawls off
Shiloh’s seed shall not be sown
Before I knocked and flesh let enter
We see rise the secret wind behind the brain
Take the needles and the knives
Not forever shall the lord of the red hail
Before we mothernaked fall
The sun burns the morning, a bush in the brain
My hero bares his nerves along my wrist
In the beginning was the three-pointed star
Love me, not as the dreamy nurses
For loss of blood I fell where stony hills
Jack, my father, let the knaves
The girl, unlacing, trusts her breast
Through these lashed rings set deep inside their hollows
Ape and ass both spit me forth
The eye of sleep turned on me like a moon
The force that through the green fuse drives the flower
From love’s first fever to her plague, from the soft second
The almanac of time hangs in the brain
And from the first declension of the flesh
All that I owe the fellows of the grave
Here lie the beasts of man and here I feast
When once the twilight locks no longer
Light breaks where no sun shines
I fellowed sleep who kissed between the brains
See, says the lime, my wicked milks
This bread I break was once the oak
Your pain shall be music in your string
A process in the weather of the heart
Foster the light, nor veil the bushy sun
The shades of girls all flavoured from their shrouds
In this our age the gunman and his moll
Which is the world? Of my two sleepings, which
Where once the waters of your face
I see the boys of summer in their ruin
In the beginning was the three-pointed star
If I was tickled by the rub of love
Collateral Poems
I have not moulded this marble
Calling temerity to see
You too have seen the sun a bird of fire
That sanity be kept
That the sum sanity might add to nought
Do you not father me, nor the erected arm
Foster the light, nor veil the feeling moon
First I knew the lamb on knocking knees
You breath was shed
didnt know what category to put this in..
uhm what does nukka meann ??
i feel soso stupid!
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1. nukka 734 up, 84 down
slang for my nigga, but can be used by the white boy due to less offensive tendancies. Warning: only attempt with the boys, do not call a random large black man a nukka...or prepared to be shot
Word to my nukka!
What up nukka?
YO, NUKKA!
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2. nukka 285 up, 92 down
A white mans term for a black man, so that he might not get the shit beat out of him for using it.
What's up nukka
by Ryan Garrett Aug 25, 2003 email it
3. nukka 142 up, 87 down
A way to say nigga without actually saying it. For a white guy this is probably a better word unless you really know the black guy and can say nigga.
What's good my nukka?
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4. Nukka 21 up, 32 down
The white mans nigga. whites can say it and so can blacks (unlike nigger) mexicans MAY NOT say nukka they may say nothing
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black man- yo nigga.
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5. Nukka 92 up, 114 down
Just another way to say Nigger without getting caught or being accused of being racist...
Damn Nukka, you need to get new shoes
Marcus is a crazy half Nukka
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6. nukka 26 up, 60 down
a slang term for nigger, or negro. this phrase in mainly used when confrontation of two niggers occurs.
Hey Nukka!!! You got beef? Get yo black ass over here so i can curb stomp yo ass.
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7. nukka 15 up, 52 down
a different way tah say nigga..
whuss good nukka u still ugly O' what??
west braccin nukka, where da herbz at?
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by SOANE CARSON CALI. Oct 2, 2006 email it
From your point of view, what do you think the cons of illegal immigration are? And remember, it is ILLEGAL immigration, not legal.
Thanks!
I know you wanted cons but here's both:
The Pros and Cons of Illegal Immigrants
March 29, 2006 · To form my opinion on Illegal (IL.) immigrants I have to balance my love for America with my Christian morals of being the good samaritan. I want my kids, our schools and my neighbors to live a safe and prosperous life. At the same time I want those repressed and downtrodden immigrants to be able to come to the land of opportunity.
So how do we balance the Republican tide of shutting off the world, with the Democrat view of letting the masses in? This forces the Republicans to look like the bad guys and the Democrats to look like they're weak on defense. In either case, it's all smoke and mirror politics. One side is trying to make the other side look bad, so their side can win an election.
Who gains and who loses when you have IL. immigrants?
Pro – Immigrant makes money in America to send to family.
Pro – Business gets cheap work.
Pro – Business doesn’t have to pay taxes.
Pro – Business doesn’t have to pay for healthcare.
Pro – Business doesn’t have to contend with OSHA.
Pro – Upper class Americans can save money on maids, lawn care, etc.
Con – America loses money on taxes.
Con – America’s schools lose funds teaching kids of IL. immigrants.
Con – Middle- and lower class Americans lose jobs to IL. immigrants.
Con – Nation's hospitals lose money in charity treatment of IL. immigrants.
Con – Nation is forever in bilingual debate.
Con – Those that come to America legally are disadvantaged in comparison having spent so much effort.
Con - Lack of control on how many terrorists make it across the border.
Con – Increased crime; A criminal will never take the proper route.
So having done this I feel that immigrants and Republicans stand more to gain from a porous border at the expense of the nation's taxes, middle class and security.
You know thoughs things on Myspace,
and other websites that are like 10 things
boyfriends should do. Or the 50 cutest things
boyfriends do. Can anyone get me a list?
Like examples are, kiss her nose. Send her cute text messages in the morning. Sneak up behind her and tickle her. Thakns
Tell her how you ADMIRE her. always tell her you LOVE her at all times. when she is UPSET hold her tight. pick HER ver ALL the other GIRLS you hang out with. PLAY with her hair. pick her up TICKLE her and WRESTLE with her. just TALK to her. tell her JOKES. bring her FLOWERS just.. because. hold her hand and run. just hold her hand. throw PEBBLES a her window at night. let her FALL ASLEEP in your arms. SING to her NO MATTER HOW awfull you sound. get her mad at you then kiss her. give her piggy back rides. PUSH her on SWINGS. tell her she looks BEAUTIFUL. when she is sad stay on the phone with her even if she is NOT saying anything. look into her EYES and SMILE KISS her on the forehead. slow DANCE with her even if there is no music. KISS her in the rain. AND WHEN YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH HER..... TELL HER
ok, well...i'm 14/m...and i have an amazing girlfriend that i love SOOO much...but i have a lot of people that i kno that just...don't support my decision to be with her...there's kinda some good reasons for their argument but i hate it when they bring it up...
well, when i first met her, she was going out with this 21 year old, and he was a jerk, but she couldn't get him to leave her alone. this guy was horrible to her- apparantly he thought it was love...he's a weirdo...
well, he threatened to hurt her (and me, for that matter) unless she had sex with him, and of course, she wanted him to leave her alone, because not only was he being a horrible person to me, hejust wouldn't leave her alone...so she did it. and this guy left her alone.
and so everyone calls her a whore and all that stuff and she's not- she's not a slut, doesn't dress like one, is amazingly beautiful...but i feel like i'm the only one who sees that in her...
so i guess what i'm asking is- how can i get other people to see what i see in her? because honestly, none of my friends do...
thnx
If you truly love her than it shoudn't matter what others see in her. It should just matter what you see in her, and if your friends are truly your friends then they should respect your decisions and opinions even if they don't agree with you. Other people won't always see your girlfriend like you do, and sometimes that can be a good thing. Talk to your friends tell them what your feeling. If you can trust them explain the situation, they may not agree with you but they may leave it alone. Besides, nothing lasts forever, as soon as something else happens the attention will be off your girlfriend.
Hope I Helped & Good Luck!
what is the recipe for cabbage strudels?
Cabbage Strudle
Ingredients:
4 cups finely chopped green cabbage
1/4 cup chopped onions
1 1/2 apples, peeled and chopped
1/3 cup pitted dates, chopped
1/4 cup + 2 Tbsp. lowfat sour cream
1 teaspoon prepared mustard
8 thawed phyllo dough sheets
1 teaspoon melted margarine
Directions:
Coat a large nonstick skillet with cooking spray. Place over medium heat until hot. Add cabbage and onion; cover and cook 5 min. Combine cabbage mixture, apples and dates in a large bowl. Combine sour cream and mustard; stir well. Add to cabbage mixture; stir well and set aside. Working with 1 phyllo sheet at a time, spray each sheet with cooking spray; placing one on top of the other. Spoon cabbage mixture lengthwise down one-third of phyllo stack, leaving a 1 inch border on longest side and a 3/4 inch border on shorter sides. Starting with the longest side, roll up jellyroll fashion, and place, seam side down, diagonally on a 15 X 10 X 2 inch jellyroll pan coated with cooking spray; tuck ends under. Brush with margarine. Diagonally cut 1/4 inch deep slashes about 2 inches apart across top. Bake at 400 F. for 45 min. Let stand 10 min. before serving. Good served with pork
19/F
Ok this seems long and soap-opera-ish but please bear with me. I’ve gotten rid of some of the details to make it shorter but please tell me if it isn’t clear enough. And please don't rant at me about being a cheating b**** or anything. I know I am a bad bad person. I just need you to tell me what to do.
Nate has always been the typical "rich bad boy" type. He gets a pack mentality when he is with his boys so he’s labeled an official ***hole. He's had a pretty bad past and when you get him alone, he’s different. He and I go a few years back when I wasn't into the party scene, and it got around that he "wanted" me. I shot that down and he gave up. I've been intrigued by him (i.e. had a crush on him) and we always used to exchange looks all the time at school and parties and I could feel the sizzles (but wasn’t sure it was mutual). Only last year did we start talking a bit inside and outside school. Then I finished school and didn’t see him.
In May, I met Blake. He’s ridiculously good-looking, the sweetest guy ever, and a cook. I didn’t think he was into me so I backed off then recently, Blake started showing interest in me and I was thrilled. We were perfect for each other, our life goals and views were the same, we had minor arguments sometimes, which ended with practically no resentment on either end, and we always made up quickly. It was the perfect relationship. I was still a virgin but he understood because he had only been with one chick (his year-long girlfriend in grade 11).
End of last year, Nate and I ended up at a party together. I was hammered out of my mind and we had sex in a bedroom. It was harsh to the point that he did it, shoved me away and left. I was broken after. Eventually, I told Blake and he was mostly sad for me and he did whatever he could to make me feel better. Including sex and it was just like the rest of our relationship, comfortable.
Then one day, Nate showed up at my house after I saw him at the mall and went home all shaken up. We had sex. We have had sex about five times now altogether. Usually it’s when I’m vunerable. It’s pretty much casual sex but it is explosive as in really really hot, stuff I thought didn’t exist outside novels. Blake and I haven’t even come close, even though there is some sizzle, it isn’t comparable. Told Blake once and he was mad but he came back and told me he’d still have me and he didn’t understand. Usually Nate just has sex with me and sticks around for a while and leaves but one time, he actually stayed after and kissed my face and stuff.
This is what confuses me. Blake and I are perfect for each other and it’s not a completely devoid of sexual drive either but when I’m with Nate, it feels right like it’s exactly where I belong.
I’m just so afraid of hurting Blake. I want to stay with him but at the same time, I feel like puking when I think about what a disgusting unfaithful slut I’m being. And I’m pretty sure Nate doesn’t want a relationship. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t want to look back twenty years from now and regret it. I know that bad boy’s can’t be tamed but I know his history and I kind of still ache for Nate but Blake is just perfect.
Help?
I know a couple guys like Nate, rich, bad ass, unbelievably good looking, and usually afraid of commitment. Although usually If it's just one night stands they're looking for, they don't sleep with the same girl over and over and over again; They move on to the next girl in line. So he probally does have stronger feelings for you than a one night stand. He's probably just afraid of commitment or his feelings for you which might be they reason he pushes you away. However it's unfair to string Blake along if you have stronger feelings for Nate. I was in a similar situation, I stayed with my boyfriend even though I had stronger feelings for someone else because he was safe. I was afraid that If I broke up with him to take a chance on the other guy and things didn't work out, I would end up alone. I didn't want that so I stayed with him. Maybe you should take a chance on Nate. If it works out thats great, if it doesn't than he doesn't deserve you. But it sounds like you have a better connection with Nate than you do Blake, and you may regret not taking a chance on what could be a better relationship than what your in now; but If you don't try you'll never know. Sometimes love isn't enough in a relationship. There's a difference between loving someone and being in love with them. It also seems like Nate is falling for you, maybe you will be the one to tame him him. Talk to Nate and tell him how you feel. If he really likes you he can't run forever. Good Luck, and follow your heart! Everything will work out in time
P.S. Close your eyes and think. If everything was perfect and you could have whover you wanted, who would you want? Who do you want to be with right now?
okay i saw this movie awhile ago at a friend's house and i cannot think of what its called. im pretty sure johnny depp is in it.and i remember there were these really big alien worm things and i remember to parts. one was they were out on snowmobiles and one guy was taking a piss and the alien thing came out of the ground and bit his dick off and the other was one guy was on the toilet taking a shit and the alien came up through the toilet and killed him. what movie is thiss?
The movie is called Dream Catcher, but I'm pretty sure Johnny Depp isn't in it.
My dad doesn't let me have a boyfriend. But for the past (almost) year my mom has let my secretly go out with my boyfriend. Now I have been with my bofriend for almost a year. My mom doesn't know we've kissed (although she almost caught us once). Around the 5th month we did some sexual things that i'm not proud of and actually regret.
I told him and we've talked about it, and he is ok with it, and we haven't done anything like that ever since. Recently i have been feeling extremely guilty because i have always told my mom everything, except what my boyfriend and i have done. The thing is that if i tell my mom i will lose my boyrfriend adn her trust, and if i dont i will feel guilty. I feel so guilty that when i am at his house i get depressed, i want to leave and i feel as though i am alone. I don't know what to do.
If you've been together for amost a year then the chances are that your mom probably knows or at least guessed that you guys have kissed. You don't have to tell your mom, maybe you just need to talk to someone else you trust. A friend maybe? Or if you really do tell your mom everything nd your that close then maybe she'll understand where your coming friend. Although I don't know your age. If your younger than 15, than maybe it isn't the best thing to tell your mom if you really want to keep your boyfriend. In the end it's up to you.
Just ask if you need more advice! Good Luck!
There is this song thats sad and here are some of the lyrics.....
Turn around
every now and then i get a little bit lonely....
turn around
It says turn around a lot
its a super sad song.... does anyone know what it is????
thnks in advace
It's "Total Eclipse of The Heart" by Bonnie Tyler
Well I don't know. You see, i'm 13. This boy has been my best friend for about two years and we've been together for a year. It's nice and everything. We are real close and know almost everything about eachother and everything. He's different from the rest of the guys i've gone out with. Don't think I am a slut or anything but we are both comfortable being naked around eachother. He trusts me and I trust him. No, this is not my first relationship. Anyhow, he's always there when i need him. Well, he's actually a nice boy and won't take advantage of me or anything like that or trying to get me to have sex with him. I know i'm young and yes i am still a virgin. Most of you are probably thinking "teen love dont have sex with him" Of course i'll be on birth control and have a condem and everything but i'm not sure if i should give up my virginity so young. So what do you people out there think about the whole situation?
I know you probably don't want to here this but 13 is a really young age to be thinking about sex. I have friends who lost their virginity at age 13 & 14 and though it seemed like a good idea at the time, later they got into more serious relationships and had serious boyfriends that they loved and they regretted that they didn't wait and give their virginity to someone that they did actually have really strong feelings for. What I'm saying is just think before you give up your virginity because later you might regret it and you can only give your virginity to one guy. Is this the right one?