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guys.
sorry if this is the wrong category. anyway, to the question.
Im 13 and a girl(tell by the name?) and I've really liked this guy for maybe...seven months now. I talk to him alot at school, and he's grown to be a really good friend. He teases me and flirts-if you can call it that?-(example-knudges me when im on the edge of a seat so I almost fall off, then smiles and laughs, and helps me back up...)and I really, really like him. A few days before vacation, which was last week, he started to sit next to me in the classes where we can choose where we sit, and made sure he could stand next to me in the lunch line, and talked to me alot more. We talked on line for about an hour the day vacation started, and we laughed and teased each other, you know, stuff like that. I was going to tell him I like him, but I chickened out. I got frustrated, because I had a few chances. Today, the day after vacation, he didn't talk to me at all, except for once at the very end of the day. What I'm asking is do you think, maybe, he likes me? I don't want to say anything to him if he dosen't like me, because I get embarrased really easily, and I don't want anything to change our friendship. So, I sort've have two questions : Is there a chance he likes me, and what should I do? I can't get him out of my head. Please help. Thanks :)
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When guy's like girls they tease them. I don't know why but they do. Plus it sounds like he likes being around you, especially if he sits by you and not his friends in class. So there's a pretty big chance he like you. Maybe this guy just needs to know you like him back before he makes a move. Good Luck with telling him!
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well it sounds like he does like you! But you dont got to be afraid to tell him! If u you dont want it to be embarrising then do it in private. If he doesnt like you then you just sit down and talk to him so he dont treat you diferent
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It's great that you guys have become friends already! And from what you say, how much time you spend together, how much he wants to be around you, he probably has a big crush on you like you do on him. If your too nervous to ask him yourself, you could always have a friend just ask him who he likes so its not that obvious. If you find out he likes you, then go for it! It's great when a girl has the courage to ask out a guy, and if you know he likes you.. whats that harm? So yes, there is DEFFINETLY a chance he likes you, if you want to know for sure, take these quizzes!
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Try having a friend ask him who he likes to find out, and go from there! If you don't like that idea, ask him yourself casually. "So who do you like these days?" Just as you guys are talking maybe on the phone or IM or even in person!
BEST OF LUCK:) hope I helped!
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I really and truly think this guy likes you. Often, the male race of our species is cryptic and confusing. It's in their DNA; it's the Y-chromosome talking.
Usually, their teasing ends with them laughing at you. When he helped you up, I think he wanted an excuse to hold your hand. It was also a very nice gesture. A guy flirting on this level is usually a telltale sign that they at least somewhat like you.
You're going to have to talk to him and tell him straight up. Be direct. Don't get him running in circles; they get dizzy and confused. You know, more confused than they ALREADY are. They don't need it. :)
Say something like, "You know, Cody [or whatever his name is ;) ], we've been friends a long time. I'm really starting to like you. I always feel like myself around you and you're a great guy to be around. I don't want to ruin our friendship, but I'm willing to take this chance because I realllly like you."
[wait for response]
-Depending on what Cody says here, use one of two replies.
1. "Great! So I'll have my mom pick you up for the movies at six-thirty on Friday!" (or something like that, if you decide to go on a date and see how it goes)
2. "I don't want anything to change between us. I just didn't want to regret not telling you how I felt later on" (If he wants to be just friends)
I've already hinted at it- if you don't tell a guy how you feel about him, the "what ifs" will haunt you for a loooooong time. Don't be like that "I wish I could tell him but I don't know how" story. Tell him tell him tell him!!!
I certainly hope I helped you. Sorry for such a long response, but I was in a good mood today and felt like helping out people in the relationship department.
:)
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