|
| |
|
I have been dating this really sweet guy and he is my first boyfriend. I have realized i really dont have those feelings for him even though i thought i did. Either i have to end it. He has told my friends he really really likes me and i dont know how to break it off with him. I feel so bad. How can i let him down gently (link)
| |
There's no easy way to do it. The best way to breakup with someone is face to face. It's more respectful that way. You have to be honest with him and if you still want to be friends mention that. Of course he'll be upset but just give him sometime and he'll be fine. Be honest!
|
|
This thought has been bothering me alot lately.First,I'm 13/f.But I'm in a relationship with one of my best friend's who've i've known for a long time.He's 16/m.I really love him,and he says he loves me to death,but sometimes it doesn't feel like he does.I'm not a posessive gf,but sometimes he goes for weeks without talking,or visiting me.And when I visit him,or talk to him,he says he's been busy,but he missed me.We recently broke up,because I thought we were better off friends.But he told me that girls would sext him pics of themselves,even when we were dating.He acted like it wasn't a big deal,but for me it was.So when I had a fit,he told me he would delete them,but I didn't feel he was telling me the truth.Now,we're back together,because I realized I loved him more than me bff.But now,I feel as though I should just call it quits,and give up on our relationship,and friendship,and never speak to him again.I really feel that's what I should do.I'm gonna do it today,but first,just needed advice before I did it.Thanks =). (link)
| |
It sounds like you aren't happy with him because of everything he's doing. If that's the case you just need to tell him up front you aren't happy and end it there. Don't go back to him or talk to him or contact him. You need to move on and do your own thing and find someone who is going to make you happy. If a guy likes you, as I always say, he will make the effort. If you ask the guy to change something and he cares for you he should do it. I'm not saying change totally but if he's doing something that hurts you then he should know something has got to change. Good luck! :)
|
Hi, I am 19 years old and I started using birth control pills (Trigestrel) for the first time 3 weeks ago. Me and my boyfriend have been sexually active for about 4 months now, and since we use the pull out method and not condoms (we tried using them, but it is much less enjoyable as even the lubricated ones caused me irritation, burning and pain during and after sex) I decided to get pills to play it safe. We decided to keep on pulling out untill at least a month after I started on the pills so that we know they will be effective...
In the past two weeks I have been experiencing many symptoms that I find are on both the lists of pregnancy symptoms and birth control side effects. (nausea, abdominal cramps, breast tenderness, fatigue, bloated, weight gain, moodswings and cravings- at first I thought I have an eating disorder because Im permanently hungry)
I dont usually get pms symptoms apart from cramping and my period is still in a weeks time. I'm feeling really sick and I really hope it doesnt mean pregnancy. Also am I using a pill that is bad for me? Cause I can't be on this stuff permanently if its whats causing the symptoms. And I have no libido feeling this sick...
Thanks for your advise :) (link)
|
The pull out method is definitely not a for sure thing...it can lead to pregnancy. I'm glad you decided to start using birth control however the pull out method without birth control or a condom just isn't safe. I've heard some people start taking the birth control pill and wait until you take it awhile for it to be effective.
I'm not a doctor but if you are expecting your period in 2 weeks. You should would wait until you are suppose to have your period. If you miss it you should would get a pregnancy test. Pregnancy test aren't always 100% correct so if you are still having those symptoms I would go to a doctor to get that checked out just in case. At the doctors they can do a urine sample as well as a blood test just so you know for sure. In the meantime don't worry or stress but that is only going to make matters worse. Just try to relax and don't think about it too much (easier said than done). Birth control pills work differently on everyone. Sometimes they may have a few bad effects on some people and others it doesn't effect negatively at all. Also make sure you take them correctly because that is another thing that can lead to pregnancy as well.
Let this be a lesson to you though so from now on use the birth control or have some kind of back up so you know you are safe and protected.
I'm sure everything is fine! Just take it easy and relax for now :)
|
19/f
I am so confused on what to think or what to do. I recently got out of a 13 month relationship. Him and I have had a lot of fights in the past and this time it was bad. he broke up with me, then regretted it and wanted to take me back, but i said no because i was just fed up with all of the drama and fights. Then a few weeks later I meet this other guy named Kent. well kent and I had a great time together. we both go to the same college so we usually just hung out in each other dorms and watched movies. Then we started liking each other more than friends and decided to have a thing. we wanted to make it official but i didn't want people to think i was moving on so fast or i was just using him as a rebound (which is not true at all). so we kept it a thing for about a week and everything was going great. until he started having doubts and now he's telling me he wants to just stay friends for a while. when I asked him why, this is what he said- I have a lot of issues going on right now (depression, his friend died 2 years ago, and some other stuff he hasn't told me) and I really dont want you to see my bad side. I need to get things straight with myself first and clear my issues before we start anything because I dont want you to see my bad side. And we had a huge talk about this and I told him that all relationships have to deal with bad sides. you can't prevent that. and no matter what I say to him right now, he won't listen to me. I told him I will always be there for him. For some reason he has this idea that when I find out his issues that I will hate him.. I told him thats not true because I dont hate people, especially people like him. He's just stuck with this idea that he's not good for me and that i'll eventually hate him and leave him..
I'm just so confused on what to do.. I really really really like him.. but I dont understand why he's pushing me away and telling me that i'm going to hate him and he has issues. What should I do? I've tried talking to him multiple times but he just tells me he has to go and doesn't want to talk about it and needs space. So i've tried giving him space but i'm going crazy. What is your advice on this? (link)
|
I'm going to tellyou the truth.
You need to give this guy his space and maybe think about seeing someone else. if a guy really likes you, he'll be with you and make every effort to be there for you. This guy seems to be coming up with excuses and you shouldn't wait around for him. I know you may like him but he sounds like he has a lot of baggage and you don't need that right now. Leave him be and move on!
|
|
Is anyone on here in a LDR? I'm with this guy that I really like but I'm going across the country for college and just wanted other peoples opinions on it. (link)
| |
I've been in a couple of LDRs and they can have good times and the bad. Just stay in contact. Try calling them on the phone everyday or contact them by using the social networks (twitter, facebook, etc). Staying in contact is the main thing and its mainly about the communication in the relationship.
|
17/f
So I have this new boyfriend and things are great.
I was talking to my guy friend who I was sorta involved with before and we got into this argument because he hates the fact that I have a new boyfriend and stuff. It got to the point where he was telling me he cares about me more than any guy I date. This guy always pushed me to do more with him all the time, but I never wanted to have sex. I always told him that making out is as far as I'd go.
Well then he was like, "It's not my fault about everything that happened. You shouldn't have lead me on by making out with me."
I'm wondering if that's true that making out with a guy means that eventually there's gonna be more.
Like, I usually wouldn't have believed this but one of my last boyfriends almost raped me cause I didn't want to do more.
My guy friend who was all mad at me was saying that if I don't want a guy to push for more, don't make out with them.
I've already made out with my current boyfriend and it scares me that he's gonna push for more.
I'll probably end up talking to him about it later but what's your opinion? I know I have this guy friend who might just be jealous but is what he's saying true?
(link)
| |
Making out with someone is not in anyway shape or form saying that you'll have sex with them. Maybe in his mind or maybe he's getting his hopes up. Just because you kiss someone does not mean that it's going to lead to more its possible but not a definite.
|
okay so i've been talking to this guy Javier for a while and it seemed like at first he was gonna ask me out and be happily ever after.
Recently though he had told me he lost interest and liked someone else and he still wanted to be friends.
a week after this we were texting (as friends would do)we he all of a sudden told me that when he saw me in school today, he wanted to kiss me. i told him that "stuff happens to make us feel thatt way" and then he went on to asking if i would have let him.
Me being honest i said probally but i would have been confused. He then mentioned that he missed the close intamacy that we had when we were talking-- even though it wasnt sexual.
ive already asked him to make up jis mind on what he want since i really don't feel like wasting my time for nothing, why fight for something you cant win?
i haven't had sex with him. i tld him i wouldnt unless we dated. i havent done anything sexual with him at all, no oral, no foreplay, a peck on the cheek, and a kiss on the neck, and a makeout session here and there but nothing too serious.
Should i just give up? or should i just be upfront about it?
16/f/junior in high school
17/m/senior in high school (link)
| |
It sounds like he doesn't know what he wants and he's confused. And you sound like you don't want him to play around with you. It's up to you whether or not he's worth it. If I were you I wouldn't play his game. What if he does end up kissing you again and then the next week says he's into something else? I say move on and look for another guy who isn't going to play around with your heart. Good luck!
|
|
Ok im15f and I'm not super or real good at anything. I'm just average in school I get a's and b's and sometimes the occasional c but not only in school in sports I'm ok at them but I'm not good enough to get played which lowers my confidence I feel like a fail. I have no true hobby I'm not creative with my hands in my mind I am but there's no way I can express it cause I suck at writing also I can't speak infront of people like I get way to nervous so things aren't for me. I wanna do something in my life than just be a dud with barely any friends (link)
|
When I was in school I was average I got Bs and Cs meanwhile my sister would get As and Bs. My parents decided I should play sports such as basketball and softball. I would play a forward for basketball but no one would ever pass me the ball I guess I was jsut better on defense. Meanwhile my sister was the center and would be the top scoring player in most of the games. She won all these awards too. Softball I pitched and was mainly in the outfield...I hated being in the outfield and I barely even hit when I was up at bat. My sister was the all start catcher and got the most hits and the awards continued.
Luckily for me when I was younger I found something I loved. I loved theatre and music. I joined theatre groups went to an all arts high school and was in many choirs I even sang at my graduation. Everyone has something they are good at or passionate about. What do you like to do? What makes you happy? Think about what you like to do and what is a way that you can express yourself. You don't have to speak to express yourself. Maybe draw or paint. Maybe take up learning to play an instrument. Do something that challenges you but makes you feel alive. I'm a vocalist and whenever I see I'm on top of the world! Keep your head up and keep going! Good luck!
|
What do you think is the key to a successful marriage? Or what exactly are you looking for in the m an that you marry?
As for me I think that I found the type of man that I want to marry. We're both fairly young though, I still have yet to start college but I'm a bit behind (I'll be 21 in less than six months, so I'm a bit behind). My boyfriend just turned 22 in July, and has two years of college left to complete.
I say that he's perfect for me, because I think that in a man success is so sexy. He's the first one in his family to ever obtain a college degree, he got his associates in June 2011. To me that shows success because in a family where not everyone graduated college, it can be fairly difficult to actually get your degree of any sort. I have full confidence in him that in June of 2013, he will have his bachelors degree and be almost ready to obtain a good future for himself.
The point of success where the two of you are currently at should also be a strong consideration. If you barely have enough money to support yourself, the two of you are going to struggle financially which will lead to many fights. I've seen this plenty of times, especially exposed to parents who have been unhappily married for over half of their marriage.
The level of support that he gives you should be a consideration as well. My boyfriend is extremely supportive of me, and his opinion on things is very important to me, the only other opinion that I value more than his is my own.
Trust and communication, the two of you have to be able to trust each other and communicate very well together. Without trust and communication a marriage can be very miserable, I've seen this before. You have to bring up the little things that upset you about him, or else they're going to build into even bigger things. I trust my boyfriend very well, and we've communicated well with each other enough for him to be my longest relationship which will be six months on the 18th.
So I think in order for a marriage to work out the two of you have to be successful, be able to work out your problems, be able to trust each other very well, and support each other when the two of you need it.
As far as personal traits that I think need to be happy in a marriage one day is to be with someone whose caring, loving, takes good care of me, is good in bed.
I've never been married, so I don't know if I'm inaccurate as to what makes a marriage work or not. If you are upset or offended by something that I said, I apologize. (link)
|
I think the key to a successful marriage is definitely the trust and communication. Those are two of the MOST important things that you need even in a friendship or other relationships you might have in your life. Another thing that I would find to be important is laughter.. you have to be able to make each other laugh and to have a good sense of humor. Yet another important thing is being family oriented, family is an important thing.
When I was 20, I was with my ex for a year and a half and I was convinced that I wanted to marry him but I learned later on that I changed and he changed. Sometimes when you are with someone for so long you go in different paths and sometimes you both reamin on the same one.
My boyfriend now, it'll be 2 years in January, he is amazing and I would love to marry him but only time will tell. Love is an amazing thing. Love also has its ups and downs, but its how you manage both and how you continue to make the relationship work. Good luck to you and your boyfriend! :)
|
I am a junior in high school. Although everyone says it's time to get serious once one reaches junior year, somehow I don't know how to adjust to it. I can be very lazy and seem to be pretty "chill" about this year. I don't seem to give a crap for the life of me and I just can't get my mind focused and out of the "summer zone", the zone where I just don't care about anything.
I feel so shitty. I feel like already I am going no where in life! At all! I don't know what I want to do after high school, and I just feel so lost. I realize everyone probably feels this way sometime in high school or later in life, or even earlier, but I just feel so...ugh. I don't even think I can afford college.
Not that I am putting excuses on others, but my childhood was very difficult. My father was never there to teach me or tell me about life in high school, and I was never raised to be independent, anyway. Half the time, my mother was going crazy, and she sunk down into a deep depression, as was I when my father abandoned us. Up until freshman year, my life was very dramatic and lonesome. I don't know anything about financial things, or even living on my own for that matter. I feel like a sorry excuse for a teenager and like I will never be able to live on my own and handle myself. I am very forgetful, lazy, and indecisive. I have difficulty paying attention and I try to stay focused and get what I need done, but I don't have much motivation. I'm smart at times and I have so many goals, I also love to write and stuff, but I never figured out what I want to do in life.
I need some guidance. I feel scared to go to my parents about this, and I just can't find anything to ease my worrisome thoughts.
I'm sixteen, and I'm a female.
Thank you. (link)
|
I know right now it's tough and it seems hopeless but you have to push yourself sometimes. We all do things that we don't want to but sometimes you have to push yourself in order to get the things you want.
When I was a junior in high school I had no idea what I wanted to do and guess what I've been out of high school for 5 years and I still don't know. That's okay. I'm trying to figure out what I want I'm still young I'm not married and I don't have kids. I have the freedom to figure out what I want and explore. In high school I feel the pressure they put on students is that you have to know what you want and guess what not everyone does and thats ok. I use to sit near this girl in class when I was in junior high and she had goals and always knew what she wanted. Fact of the matter is that there are very few people like that.
Think about the positives and think about you possibly would want to do. Try out new things and maybe work in retail see if you like that or maybe work in healthcare and see if you like that. Whatever you find appealing "attack it" and go for it and do the best that you can Life is like a mini mall of opportunites that awaits you. Believe me you're not alone and I'm sure if you ask your peers how they feel most of them would be able to relate to what you're feeling. Think about it, if money weren't an issue what would you want to do?
As far as your childhood being difficult, we all go through struggles in our lives its how we overcome them. We are all dealt a hand of cards in our lives its how we play them that matters. I understand how you are feeling all to well and I'm working on making myself happy. I'm not where I want to be but I'm getting surely but slowly I'm getting there.
"Life is a journey, not a race"
Think positive and believe me I know its hard but you'll get through it and eventually things will work out. Good luck! :)
|
Hey so I'm a sixteen year old girl in high school, junior year. I've been dating this guy for 18 months and he just turned eighteen, a senior. Something I've always kind of noticed about him are his very protective tendencies. When we first started dating it wasn't so bad, he was about as protective of me as he was his little sister so I knew it was out of concern and coming from a caring place. As we've continued dating, he's started to verge on the over protective side, and this I don't like. He get's so angry when guys make crude and dirty comments about me to him. Like, obviously joking comments. He plays football and all of the guys give eachother crap about everyone's girlfriend. It doesn't bother me, but it bothers him. And just last weekend he almost tried to fight some kid at a party who was being, I'll admit, out of line with me. The kid was grabbing and pulling me and wouldn't listen to me when I told him to stop and wouldn't let go. I appreciated when my boyfrined came over and told the guy to let go, but I didn't appreciate how he continued to threaten the other guy and how he completely escalated the situation. When my boyfriend does those kind of things I feel like he isn't even concerned abotu me at that point. I feel that it hasn't become about protecting me its become about HIM protection HIS "property". You know what I mean? Like he's doing it for himself and that just bothers me. Not only is it embarassing for me but its a little frightening too. We've had talks about it before but he I don't think he understands what I mean. Does anyone know what I'm trying to say here and how I should say it to him?? If so, please help!!
(Oh, by the way, on a side note. He constantly defends his over protective attitude by saying I'm too small to protect myself properly, which also extremely annoying. I know I'm physically little but that still bothers me that he doesn't think I can take care of myself. Any advice on how to handle that too? PLEASE don't tell me to break up with the kid. We've worked through so many bigger issues together, I'm not ending our relationship over this.) (link)
| |
Guys just have protective tendencies its just human nature. It's not that you're his property but you're his girl. I had a situation with a boyfriend where there was this kid who was giving me trouble. My boyfriend got concerned and ended up fighting with the guy because he was scared and got nervous. The reason he did was because he cares about me. Now was it a bit overdramatic? Kinda but I appreciated the fact that he stood up for me. Maybe your boyfriend just has this trait of when he feels he needs to be protective. There's nothing you can really do to change it. You've already talked to him and you don't want to break up. The only options you have are to accept it or try talking to him again and really tell him how you feel and don't hold anything back. Good luck!
|
im a girl, bi, sophmore
so i met this girl freshmen year we became really close and we ended up together (gf&gf). she then broke up with me during the summer. i loved this girl to death! everything i do and everything i think about is her!
there is not one day i go without thinking about her.she ignores me alot now and it hurts me alot. everytime she does something like that to me i end up crying most of the night cause of her. i would do anything to get her back. what should i do?? (link)
| |
Well what was the reason for the break up? Did she tell you? I would say try to talk to her and tell her how you feel. Be honest. That's the best you can do and if she says no you ahev to respect her wish and move on. Don't put yourself down though!
|
|
Me and This Guy Been Going Out And Now he Saying Stuff Like He Dont Trust Me So I Went Off On Him and We Over Now! Im Happy about that But He Still BOthering Me what Do I Do? (link)
| |
This has nothing to do with you this guy just clearly had trust issues. The guy probably does that to a lot of girls that he's dated. Maybe something happened to him in the past that makes him have a hard time trusting people. It's probably best that you aren't together because you shouldn't have to deal with someone like that.
|
21/female. Tony- 18.
Me and Tony have been dating for about 3 months now. We're going to our first concert together this weekend, it's a country one.
I'm a little nervous. We're going with my two cousins (Tony's friends with them also) The reason why I'm nervous is because Tony said he's going to be singing along and dancing, and I'm not like that! I don't wanna be the boring one just standing there doing nothing -but it's just not really me to be crazy. Me and Tony can act dumb together, it's just how we are but when it comes to dancing ...forget it! It's my biggest weakness and something I get really embarrassed about because I'm horrible.
I don't really know how to act/what to do. I don't wanna make a fool out of myself. I shouldn't be worried about this, but I am! (link)
| |
Whata re you afraid of? Are you afraid what people might think? Go to the concert and have fun. Act a fool. 'Dance like no one is watching!' I myself can't dance for my life but if I was going to a concert I don't care what other people think of me I'm going out there to dance. When I go out with my friends to a club and I want to dance I don't care what other people think about me. Why are you going to restrict yourself from having fun? Why because you might not be the best dancer in the world? It's not like you're trying out for 'So You Think You Can Dance'. Have fun and have a good time!
|
Hi,
Here's the question. I've been with my bf for almost 3 yrs now.. and as far as I think.. it seems to be going pretty well..We have even talked about getting married etc...Anyways.. I asked my bf a long while ago how come in all this time I have never been able to come over to your house.. ie: see it or hang out there.. He says that he lives in a small shack kinda condo and is embarrassed to take me there.. Mind u he's seen my place and all. and I'm not ashamed to bring him there.. He comes over all the time.. I just egnored it and thought ok whatever.. then I realized his cousin and his family come over all the time and he has no issues with it so why me.. and secondly.. he always says to me to make more of an effort to get along with his mom... which I try but it works both ways too. not one sided.. and Thanks Giving is coming up.. how come she invited his cousin's family and not me.. I am so confused.. what do I think.. what do I do? does she really like me? does he really want me mixing in with his family? Does he really see a future for us? or just playing me along giving me high hopes... any ideas? I'm soo stressed.. (link)
|
I think you might be reading way to into this. I tend to hang out mroe at my boyfriend's hosue than I do my own not because I'm ashamed its just how it works out most of the time. Why should it matter where you're hanging out as long as you're with each other. Ever heard of the expression 'blood is thicker than water'. His cousin goes to his house because that's his family!
Well what si your relationship with his mother? Do you talk to her? Don't put the blame game on her what can you do to make the relationship with his mom better?
Thanskgiving is usually a holiday where families get together. I never hang out with my boyfriend on Thanksgiving because that's my time to be with my family. I love his family but I want to spend time with mine of the holidays.
I think in the end you NEED to talk to your boyfriend because these questions you're asking can only be answered by him. If you don't feel right about thigns let him know and communicate. Communication and trust are the two things you need most in a relationship. Good luck!
|
I emailed a guy and told him how I felt about him. He wrote back a few days later. Saying that he apologizes if he doesn't respond back in a timely manner. I then replied back telling him not to rush. Whenever you get the chance to get online again you could reply back then.
Sometime after I sent that email to him. He's been online and active but has yet to reply back to my email. What could be the reason as to why he hasn't replied yet? I'm a 26 yr old Leo female. Emailing an 26 yr old Virgo male. I sent him the email on September 15th 2011 now it's September 26th 2011. I hope I'm not reading too much into it. (link)
| |
I'm going to be honest with you because I don't lie. I don't think he feels the same way you do. If a guy likes you he'll have no problem saying it whether it be on the computer or in person. If a guy is interested he will go out of his way to talk to you. The fact that this guy has not responded says he isn't interested.
|
|
so, my friend is going through a really hard time, she tried to commit suicide, and she's getting really depressed. her mom doesn't pay any attention to her.. she used to be the peppy sunshiny person, now she just puts on a mask... I know what it's like I used to be the same way.... I keep telling her to talk to people, then I suggested for her to change up her normal life and listen to some songs she never would consider (my kind of music) and i'm just wondering... what else can i do for her? (link)
| |
Well first off you are truly a great friend to her and by asking what you can do shows how good a friend you are to her. Sadly there isn't much you can do besides be there for her and listen to her. Support her and let her know that you will always be there for her. She should really try talking to someone but you can't force her too. Obviously if you know somethings going on tell someone. Are you close to her mom? What about your parents? Maybe talk to your parents or talk to her mom and let them know whats going on. This situation is serious and shouldn't be taken lightly.
|
When my sister was pregnant she ate cornstarch and potato chips with chocolate (link)
|
There are four reasons why you get cravings when you're pregnant:
Hormones: Some women will eat foods during pregnancy that they normally find disgusting. Why? Major hormone changes can affect taste and smell. This change can be caused by pregnancy, menopause, and birth control. After birth, these hormones return to normal, and so does taste. Some pregnant women also report a metallic taste in their mouths.
Nutritional deficiencies: There's a lot of debate over this since there isn't a clear relationship to cravings and the nutrients you need. Iron is one of the most confusing of these. Ice is a common craving for people low in iron, although there it doesn't contain iron. In some pregnant women this can go further, causing pica, a disorder that causes them to crave eating non-food items like dirt or laundry detergent. Again, like the ice, these items contain little or no iron.
Comfort foods: You're just as likely to crave some favorite from your childhood when experiencing stress from a pregnancy as you would experiencing stress from another source. This is strictly a matter of personal preference, and could lead to cravings for anything from macaroni and cheese to miso soup, depending on your background.
Health: Some changes in diet may to avoid foods that increase morning sickness or may harm the fetus. Pregnant women almost universally have an aversion to coffee, tea, and alcohol, even if they enjoyed these drinks before they were pregnant.
Read more: Why do pregnant women have weird cravings? http://www.strangequestions.com/question/763/Why-do-pregnant-women-have-weird-cravings.html#ixzz1ZvoP8vr9
|
Hey, I am 17 and female. The boy I will be talking about is 17 and male, obviously, haha. At the beginning of the school year, he was kinda rude and sassy to me. I think that's joking to him but it was rude to me. Now, weeks into school, I see a significant change in him. Every time we see each other in the hall, we say hi to each other, every time.. it never fails. We are both in the marching band, his friend was asking him who he wants to be on their bus for travelling to cavalcades and this boy said he wants me on their bus. Out of everyone in the band, he chose me, I was flattered. So, my friend and I signed up for that bus not only because of the boy but because the boy has friends that are my friends as well and we all mesh together and we'll have a lot of fun when we're driving late at night after a competition. A few other things he does is at practice when it was hot, I was talking to one of our mutual friends and he kept squirting me with his water bottle telling me to drink up because it was hot. He also went out to get lunch when it was raining and when he came back inside, I was talking to him about how hard it was raining and he shook off like a dog and got me all wet. He also sings (jokingly) a song to me about our first period class together because we sometimes walk there together.
Sooooo, he likes me, right? (: thanks! (link)
| |
Some guys do crazy or mean things if they like you. I mean its hard to tell because I don't know the kid. He could just be playful or possibly like you. When it comes to these things its hard. Before my boyfriend and I started dating we went out one day for a walk. I started crossing the street and he was like "Hey idiot you're going to get hit". I confronted him about it and he told me it was because he "liked" me. He continues to be "mean" to me even today. Romantic, huh? My advice the only way you're going to know is if you talk to him about it. That's if you feel comfortable and if you like him too. Go for it! Good luck!
|
|
i sorta like this guy..but i dont think all my friends would approve of him because i heard them talking bad about another girls boyfriend like "hes not goodenough for you" or "hes ugly". i know i shouldnt care..but their opinion matters to me and i dont want them to talk bad about me or the guy behind my back. what do i do/say? (link)
| |
At the end of the day if you like the guy then you like the guy. If you end up dating this guy its about you and him not your friends. Who cares what they think? If they act like that then they really aren't your friends. Real friends would be supportive and be happy for you thats what friends are for. Now if the guy treated you badly I could see why your friends would have a problem but if their just judgemental then just ignore them and do what you want to do.
|
|
