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how do i get her back???


Question Posted Thursday May 5 2011, 10:08 pm

im a girl, bi, sophmore
so i met this girl freshmen year we became really close and we ended up together (gf&gf). she then broke up with me during the summer. i loved this girl to death! everything i do and everything i think about is her!
there is not one day i go without thinking about her.she ignores me alot now and it hurts me alot. everytime she does something like that to me i end up crying most of the night cause of her. i would do anything to get her back. what should i do??


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AdviceMistress answered Wednesday October 5 2011, 3:03 pm:
Well what was the reason for the break up? Did she tell you? I would say try to talk to her and tell her how you feel. Be honest. That's the best you can do and if she says no you ahev to respect her wish and move on. Don't put yourself down though!

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julie75 answered Friday May 6 2011, 6:58 pm:
Something that you need to do, that I know you won't want to do, is to break contact with her for a while. Don't try to text, call, e-mail or facebook for about a month. If she felt closed in or trapped, it may have pushed her away. Give her that space and hopefully she'll have time to think about how she really feels about you. When you've given her that month, go back to her and let her know that you'd really like to be her friend again and maybe hang out once in a while. I know the first week or two will be hard to get through but try spending time with your family or other friends, or do a little reading to get your mind off of her. I hope this helps and good luck.

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LatinaAdvice answered Friday May 6 2011, 12:41 pm:
If she loved you she would come back , if she doesn't you know the reason why she never made it into your future. You sound like a nice girl love , dont stress over someone who hurts you they ain't worth it.
I know you love her but when you think about all the things the person does to hurt you inside makes you dislike them.. i don't think she deserves you babe, your really young i bet loads of girls would want you . And i know you want her but you got to think about this , while she is out there having fun ... she couldn't care less , if she cared about your feelings she wouldnt have done anything like that. You should enjoy yourself and have fun babe :) good luck and always smile smile smile life is too short to be down :) xxxxx

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