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friends dont approve..
i sorta like this guy..but i dont think all my friends would approve of him because i heard them talking bad about another girls boyfriend like "hes not goodenough for you" or "hes ugly". i know i shouldnt care..but their opinion matters to me and i dont want them to talk bad about me or the guy behind my back. what do i do/say?
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At the end of the day if you like the guy then you like the guy. If you end up dating this guy its about you and him not your friends. Who cares what they think? If they act like that then they really aren't your friends. Real friends would be supportive and be happy for you thats what friends are for. Now if the guy treated you badly I could see why your friends would have a problem but if their just judgemental then just ignore them and do what you want to do.
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Well if they're passing judgement on someone's boyfriend based off their looks, they're not the correct people to be passing judgement, period. It's understandable if the guy had a history of being a cheater, or an abuser, but if they're saying he's not good enough for the girl because he's 'ugly', then their opinions definitely shouldn't matter to you!
Is the guy you like handsome to you? Is he nice to you? Does he treat you right? He should have more pros than cons if you're considering dating him lol. If he's worth the chance, forget about what your friends think. And if they say rude remarks, you stand up for yourself and say your taste is different than theirs. While they may like brown eyes, you like blue. Why should YOUR boyfriend have to fit THEIR standards? It just shows their lack of maturity. Good luck!
Uniq
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If you like this guy and you feel you two are right for each other then date him, Relationships aren't about what your friends think it's about what YOU want and what makes YOU happy.
If their opinion matters on who you decide to be with, Then you are allowing your friends to basically choose for you. Rumors have it all but not everything you hear is true. You friends will always have opinions no matter whether you have their approval or not, You just cannot satisfy everyone. If your friends decide to talk badly behind your back instead of being happy for you then these wouldn't be true friends to begin with.
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