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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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What is the code for hiding my top friends on my myspace page?

You can hide your top friends, your comments or both.

Use this site:

http://www.freecodesource.com/index.php?page=myspacegenerators/hide-sections-generator

It lets you scroll over the section, so go to the friends section [with all the Toms] and then click it. And it should pop up with a code. =)

I am redoing my AIM profile. So I like want it to look nice and stuff. I also like to put a quote into it. Any ideas????

Thanks! :)

I use this site for my quotes:

www.wittyprofiles.com

It's really good. =) They've got quotes for basically everything. Famous quotes, friendship quotes, love quotes, break up quotes. Everything.

I'm not so good at the little html things for myspace the only one i know is the heart one but i'd like to know bold strikethrough, underline you know so if aany of ya'll know please tell :)

haha
That bolds the text.
haha
That italisizes the text.
haha
That underlines the text.
haha
That strikethroughs [puts a line through] the text.
haha
That centers the text.

Take out the stars, and it'll work. =)

hey i have a good friend that has been depressed lately. what should i do to make my friend happy and get her mind off of the things that are making my friend sad. please help, i dont like seeing my friend this way.

Get her some counseling, or be her should to cry on. Let her know that you'll be there for her when she needs someone to talk to or cry with.

14/m My friend is a year older than me and has a boyfriend, but she likes me and is not sure whether to break up with him and date me or not. So what do I do...?

If she likes you, then she should dump her boyfriend because if she leads him on, he's just gonna get hurt so much worse.

Tell her that.

This could get into a long story but im not going to let it.
Around my school, they guys pick on me because im kind of a pushover and dont get mad about anything.
Most guys only do that in front of their friends and when they arent in front of their friends they are totally different.
Anyways,one of the boys[ Jake] was with me one time, with no one there.
And randomly said "Michelle , i used to like you"
then it was a long awkward pause and he said "just kidding".
We used to hangout all the time and i liked him.
We ended up even having sex and whatnot.
We stopped talking for this reason but his best friend told me he really likes me but is only mean to me because he does that in front of his friends becuase his friends do it.
He has a girlfriend now, but he still tries to get my attention if he can and hes constantly staring at me.
I like him so much but I don't think he knows at all.
Summers coming and thats the last time we hung out
I dont know what i should do anymore?
Should i wait until next year when I might have a class with him or what>?

When you guys are hanging out [alone] or are together alone, just tell him how you feel. If he still likes you, he'll let you know.

But then again, why would you wanna be with a guy who has to be someone else around his friends. When he's around his friends, he's gonna end up treating you like shit.

I like two guys right now. I want to go with only one of them to the movies on Friday. I am scared though that I might hook up with the one and the other will find out and stop liking me. I know this is crazy but I don't know what to do. Pleas ehelp me.

I think you liked being like.

Go out with the one on Friday. And if the other one doesn't find out, go out with him on Saturday.

See which one you like more & choose.

Host: Welcome back to, "How well do you know your Spouse!". Ok, the question is, what is the last thing you think your husband would give you?

Wife: Ooh... that's tough... Um... I'd have to say... a ring!

Host: Ok, remember, this is worth $1,000. Lets see if you are correct! Husband, flip your card over!

The husband flips the card over.

Host: The... antidote?

Wife: The antidote? Honey, what's that suppose to mea---

The wife suddenly dies.

can someone explain that to me?? i dont get it!

Hahahahaha. Oh my God. That's too good to be true.

He ended up posioning her and the last thing he'd give her would be the cure [the antidote] and he didn't because she died. Ahahahahaha. I'd slap my husband if he ever did that to me, but it's funny.

Lmfao.

Ok my brother 17 has a gf. (going to be 17 real soon) well ok. My brother is sso wipped its not even funny. I'm 14 and my brother and I have never really gotten along. At first i relaly liked him gf, but now shes just getting really annoying. If my brother and I ever even argue (which we do a lot) she'll be like STOP IT. and hit my brother. And like i said i relaly don't like my brother, but i think its stupid what she does. They think there in love with eachother. But i relaly don't think that shes right for him. He has changed soo much. but i could never tell my brother that, b.c there sooo in love. but i'm getting sick of it, and her

I was the same with my brother. But we were close. Then he got a girlfriend, and we never get along because I would always let him know the truth about her. He'd get pissed & claim that I was lying, and I'd tell him "WELL FINE, LET THAT LITTLE HOOKER RUIN YOU. SHE'S JUST GONNA END UP FUCKING YOU OVER." So, when they finally broke up, things went back to normal, and me & the girl actually became friends.

Even though you & your brother don't get along very well, it's easy to see why a girl would make it worse. You love your brother [if you wanna admit it or not], and you don't wanna see him get hurt by some girl. So you wanna protect him but you don't wanna tell him because he'll get mad.

And next time she hits your brother, punch her in the face. The only one who can hit him is you, ahah. And make sure you let her know that. Or at least be like "Don't touch my brother like that. He'd never hit you, so don't hit him either. Or I'll hit you." And your brother is 17, he thinks he's in love. But don't rag on him because when you're 17, it'll probably be the same way. He won't like your boyfriend, and he'll look out for you.

Although you guys don't like each other, it doesn't mean you don't love each other either.

i know how the baby thing works but like where does it come out???

The same hole the guy sticks his penis in to have sex with you.

How should I tell my mom about me having vaginal discharge. Im 13 and of course a female. I know she wont do nothing it's just I'm embarassed

Aww, there's nothing to be embarassed about. Just, tell her. If you know she won't say/do anything, then don't worry. Just say "Mom, I'm discharging." She might just tell you it's a sign your period is gonna come.

i have 2 questions that are basically totally different but if you can only answer one thats fine!

info: im 16/f, 5'7, and about 120 lbs give or take.

1~ i dont drink but just outta curiousity, about how many shots [i know it varies though] would it take for me to get drunk?

2~ im pretty slim but im trying to tone up before summer. my legs are the WORST and im soo uncomfortable in bathing suits just because my legs and around my butt are so fatty [i guess im pear shaped]. how can i tone my legs and butt without doing much cardio? [im trying not to lose too much weight in other areas]. i already do some squats and leg lifts but is there anything else?

thanks =D

[1] It varies from person to person. I weigh 152 lbs [I can't believe I just told the internet that], and I'm 5'4" I'm not big, or little. I'm average. I am what people a lightweight - meaning it's not hard to get me drunk. Some people can get drunk easily, like me, or it takes them a while to get completely trashed.

For me, it takes about 2-3 shots. And if I'm not taking shots, it'll take me about maybe 3-4 cups of alcohol to get me trashed.

[2] As for your legs, go out for a run like 3 times a week. It'll build muscle in your leg, and it'll make them look better. Also, try lunges. It's where you put your left/right leg forward, and the other leg way behind you, and just stand like that. It tones around your butt, and your legs. =)

My mom is making me try out for cheerleading and i have never done it before what should i be working on.. i almost got my backhandspring... what are some could chants and spirit ups to say???

I would ask the cheerleaders what you'd need to do for tryouts so you could get on the squad. If they're not stuckup little bitches, they should tell you. Every school is different, but I doubt they'll make you say any chants.

Just get some stunts down [the ones they tell you], and get a routine together. =] Good luck.

can someone please tell me the story of adam and eve?

God made a man, named Adam, and gave him the garden of Eden. Adam was lonely, or whatever, so God made Eve. The devil took form of a snake & convinced Eve to eat the apple that God had forbid her to eat, so then he punished Adam & Eve for not listening.

Some girls say that becaue of Eve, we have our periods as punishment for her eating the apple.

Personally, if I ever met her, I'd kill her. Periods=fail.

I REALLY like this guy. I mean, he has his flaws but thats just what makes him perfect to me. I'm always thinking about him. And he's great and everything and sweet. My best friend is kinda friends with him and she tells me how nice he is. I mean if she didn't tell me what he's like then it would be just an attraction but now I know his personality, and its not an attraction its a crush.

I'll just get straight to the point. I talked to him once but it wasn't a long conversation, just a short one in the hallway. And after that he looks and smiles at me often. I like him a LOT. One of his good friends who I'm friends with told me he likes me! I was so happy but then he told me that he REALLY likes another girl, but she won't go out with him. He likes me but he likes her much much more. I don't know what to do. If she said no to him he just wants more, right? And if she says yes then theres the possibility of them breaking up but he still has to get over them. What if they date again after that? What if they don't break up until high school and I never see him in high school? WHAT IF THEY DATE EACHOTHER FOR FOREVER!

I mean its not even a win-win- situation! I don't know what to do. The only thing I can do is get closer to him but I don't know how because I dont have much experience with guys except for when I was in 6th grade, but we were young back then and all we did was ride bikes haha and kiss but only like a peck.

If you wanna get closer to him, invite him over to your house, or ask to him out to lunch or something. And don't think that because you're the girl, you can't initiate the date. It's getting more common, and more sociably acceptable.

And it's not like you're in love with him, chill out. If you guys never see each other in high school, so fucking what!? There's plenty more guys that are cute with good personalities, but you just gotta look & be open to new things. If you just stay focused on one guy that you're not even with, you'll miss other chances to be with amazing guys, all for some guy who probably doesn't even want you.

Just don't make him your life [which it sounds like you're in the process of] because if you never get him, it's gonna crush you, but it's gonna be your fault. If he doesn't wanna be with you right now, then wait for him, but don't make him the main guy in your life, because he just might fuck you over & go out with someone else.

BUT, go out somewhere with him, and see how things go. If things go good, and he wants to go further, then go further, but keep what else was said in mind so you don't get hurt.

Hey!
I was just in HSM at my school, and once a month we want to have like little HSM reunions and we'd get eachother gifts and eveerything but what are some activities we can do to keep in touch and to keep reunions super fun?

Perform some of the songs you guys all really liked, or watch the Disney version of the movie. =]

Or, you could order out some pizza & play games or something.

well i started dating my friend.
He was like my best guy friend and now were dating but we never hung out

any ideas on what to do on our first hang out /date???

You could go to the mall or the movies. You could get ice cream, or go out to eat. You could play mini golf, or go bowling. Or, you could go to maybe a park, or a concert. Or, order a pizza & stay at home and watch movies on PPV. Or rent some. =)

my friend ;amanda ;always makes plans with me & then ditches me last minute. and i never get to see her ;she lives 45 min. away i havent seen her in over a year. so i basically told her not to talk to me im so mad. i dont wanna hate her ;shes one of my best friends ;its just i cant keep wasting my weekends at home cuz she ditches me. what should i do?

You should make plans with her, and then ditch her last minutes. Give her a taste of her own medicine, and let her see how it feels. She won't like it at all.

Or, you could tell her to grow up & you'll be there waiting for her to call & meet you somewhere so you can actually hang out. And in the meantime, hang out with some of your other friends. Don't let your weekends/plans revolve around her cause your other friends might get pissed.

im trying to download applesauce for aim & it wont work or idk how to make it workk =(

heres where i tried downloading it from;

http://fileforum.betanews.com/detail/Applesauce/987092859/1

it asked to open or save & i clicked open and that one program popped up listing applesaucee & this readme thing & i double clicked applesauce and it said cannot find route key. what do i do? did i do something wrong or something? pleasee help? thanks so muchh in advance

I have applesauce, so maybe I can help you out a bit.

When I downloaded it, I googled it so I went to google & typed in

and then I clicked the first link I saw which read:

File Forum | AppleSauce

And then I clicked that, and the site came up. I clicked Download Now, and then it said that it was sending me the applesauce.zip thing, and then when that popped up on my screen, I clicked on Save, and then let it downloaded, and then I opened it, and then made my colors.

Hopefully that helped.

im freaking out. it's almost the end of the marking period, and i have a C in one of my classes. im retaking a test in that class so it will hopefully bring it up, but i also have 2 bs. i used to be such a good student and now i get distracted by the social stuff. how can i be more focused on my school work during the week? how can i imporve my work ethic?

Okay, first off, a C isn't really that bad of a mark. 70's aren't bad grades. Anything below a 65 would be failing, and that'd be bad. It'd be a D or an F. So be happy that you're not failing, and that's it just a C.

Anyways, this is what I usually do.

I come home, & get started on my homework. I don't run to the computer, or the tv, or to the kitchen. I sit on my bed [with no music playing], and get my homework done, and then when there's homework that needs to be done on the computer, I go and do that. I turn the sound off, exit all of my IM programs, and I don't go online [google, yahoo, etc] unless it's absolutely necessary for what I'm doing.

Then when I finally finish, I get something to eat, and then do whatever I want. I started to do that when I realized I was never gonna get out of highschool.

Try that & see how it works for you.

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