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I'm not sure what to do.
I REALLY like this guy. I mean, he has his flaws but thats just what makes him perfect to me. I'm always thinking about him. And he's great and everything and sweet. My best friend is kinda friends with him and she tells me how nice he is. I mean if she didn't tell me what he's like then it would be just an attraction but now I know his personality, and its not an attraction its a crush.
I'll just get straight to the point. I talked to him once but it wasn't a long conversation, just a short one in the hallway. And after that he looks and smiles at me often. I like him a LOT. One of his good friends who I'm friends with told me he likes me! I was so happy but then he told me that he REALLY likes another girl, but she won't go out with him. He likes me but he likes her much much more. I don't know what to do. If she said no to him he just wants more, right? And if she says yes then theres the possibility of them breaking up but he still has to get over them. What if they date again after that? What if they don't break up until high school and I never see him in high school? WHAT IF THEY DATE EACHOTHER FOR FOREVER!
I mean its not even a win-win- situation! I don't know what to do. The only thing I can do is get closer to him but I don't know how because I dont have much experience with guys except for when I was in 6th grade, but we were young back then and all we did was ride bikes haha and kiss but only like a peck.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
If you wanna get closer to him, invite him over to your house, or ask to him out to lunch or something. And don't think that because you're the girl, you can't initiate the date. It's getting more common, and more sociably acceptable.
And it's not like you're in love with him, chill out. If you guys never see each other in high school, so fucking what!? There's plenty more guys that are cute with good personalities, but you just gotta look & be open to new things. If you just stay focused on one guy that you're not even with, you'll miss other chances to be with amazing guys, all for some guy who probably doesn't even want you.
Just don't make him your life [which it sounds like you're in the process of] because if you never get him, it's gonna crush you, but it's gonna be your fault. If he doesn't wanna be with you right now, then wait for him, but don't make him the main guy in your life, because he just might fuck you over & go out with someone else.
BUT, go out somewhere with him, and see how things go. If things go good, and he wants to go further, then go further, but keep what else was said in mind so you don't get hurt.
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