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bothers gf
Ok my brother 17 has a gf. (going to be 17 real soon) well ok. My brother is sso wipped its not even funny. I'm 14 and my brother and I have never really gotten along. At first i relaly liked him gf, but now shes just getting really annoying. If my brother and I ever even argue (which we do a lot) she'll be like STOP IT. and hit my brother. And like i said i relaly don't like my brother, but i think its stupid what she does. They think there in love with eachother. But i relaly don't think that shes right for him. He has changed soo much. but i could never tell my brother that, b.c there sooo in love. but i'm getting sick of it, and her
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I was the same with my brother. But we were close. Then he got a girlfriend, and we never get along because I would always let him know the truth about her. He'd get pissed & claim that I was lying, and I'd tell him "WELL FINE, LET THAT LITTLE HOOKER RUIN YOU. SHE'S JUST GONNA END UP FUCKING YOU OVER." So, when they finally broke up, things went back to normal, and me & the girl actually became friends.
Even though you & your brother don't get along very well, it's easy to see why a girl would make it worse. You love your brother [if you wanna admit it or not], and you don't wanna see him get hurt by some girl. So you wanna protect him but you don't wanna tell him because he'll get mad.
And next time she hits your brother, punch her in the face. The only one who can hit him is you, ahah. And make sure you let her know that. Or at least be like "Don't touch my brother like that. He'd never hit you, so don't hit him either. Or I'll hit you." And your brother is 17, he thinks he's in love. But don't rag on him because when you're 17, it'll probably be the same way. He won't like your boyfriend, and he'll look out for you.
Although you guys don't like each other, it doesn't mean you don't love each other either.
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I used to get the same from my girlfriend as well whenever I used to argue or insult my sister (even as a joke). It's one of those things I guess. However, it does seem there may not be anything you can do about your brother and his girlfriend. If he believes he is in love then no matter what you say to him I doubt it would make him think otherwise. It may instead just cause another barrier in between you and him because he will think you are just jealous and trying to break them both up. If the relationship is a mistake unfortunently it is your brothers mistake to make and hopefully learn from. As much as I hate to see people making mistakes sometimes you can not always help prevent them from making them. They have to make their own mistakes to learn from. For now the best thing you can do is just try and be happy for them and if things do go wrong with them, be there for your brother.
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Hi,
i know it is hard for you but there is nothing you can really do. It is your brothers decision and he wants to be with her. Think about it this way, you say you and your brother argue a lot, has it ever occured to you that you guys argue because your opposites? If you are then that means you like opposite things.And either way, i know you might not believe me now but sooner or later you will get wipped with your own g/f. How would you like it if someone kept telling you who to choose as a g/f? If i was you i would be happy that your brother is happy and just be patient.
I hope i helped.
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