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ok i put up questions about how a guy asked me out a while ago and i sed no but no regret it. and everyone sed go for it.but now the only question is when? its summer i dont see him that much. should i say to him over im or and away message cuz he has an away message up like 24/7. wut should i do? how should i ask him? (link)
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hi....well how while ago? try to see if he still feels da same?!?! see wussup first u dont wanna b turned down...but if u like him a lot n u wanna give it a try...then in his away message b like hey sup i was wondering if may b u n me could chill sometimes...if u agree or w/e then holla at me...n leave ur number or w/e...if he calls :) HEYYYYYYY good luck ;) if he doesnt then move on...:-D xoxo effy
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Hey, I've liked a guy for about 2 years now. He's taken, he used to like me, I think he's over me now. But I fucking love him. To death. Omg, help me. (link)
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hi, well if he use to like u then y didnt u go wit him at da time?!?!? but since he is taken n w/e i dont think u should b a cock blocker n ruin someones relationship cuz i bet u wouldnt want that for ur self...so may b u should move on n everything...then see wussup...if he relly wants this gurl (dat he has now) n he is happy wit her...then dont u want "da love of ur life" to b happy!?!?!? so i dunno i think u should see wussup first n then do wut u got to do gurl :) xoxo effy
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im 14 and this may sound weird but i've liked one of my best friends ive known since kindy, since 2nd grade. i told him i was in love with him and he didnt really seem to care. then he started dating this one chick, and it bothered me but what could i do? so when they broke up i asked him out and he turned me down. and now hes got this new girlfriend who hes like in love with. and i love him with all my heart but he just wants to be my friend. what should i do? should i just be his friend or continue competeing for his attention and his heart? (link)
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hi, well listen...may be its time for u to move on...n may b not being his friend will help...tell him that u cant b his friend cuz u care more bout him then just a friend..n till u get over him or w/e i think its better now to b so close to him...close that door...n open another for another cute n caring guy to get in ur life...may b doin that that special someone will come :) meet new ppl...meet new guys...give the guys an opportunity to get to know u n everything...:) so good luck xoxo effy
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hey well my boyfriend and i have been going out not even a month yet but we've gone out longer times before. well sometimes i feel like we're drifting apart and then we come back together. what should i do and how should i feel. when i feel like we're drifing apart, i want him to know that i still love him but when he says it back, its as if he doesnt really mean it.... but then somehow we go back like normal...what should i do?? is this like a sign that i cant read or is it just the way he is? (link)
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hi, well there are lots of guys that dont relly show affection...cuz thats the way they are...but if he "loves" u then there is no way he wont show it..b/c to a person who u love u will always show the best n try to do the best...may b he is not the one u wanna b wit...may b u can find someone else who could like treat u better...n make u feel comfortable...n make u feel like a princess!!! so if u think its not workin then may u should like take a break or something n see wussup :) xoxo effy
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Hey This is really embarresing to say but Im a girl and I mean I think Im bi but Im not sure one time me and my friend thought we should show our bodys off a little to eachother and after I was done She satrted and I started to get horny and sweaty and I just wanted to like fuck something right then so I went into the bathroom and started fingering myself and my friend knows that I finger myself a lot but anyways she walked in on me and she saw that I was fingering myself and she was like why are you doing that right now? And So I stop and pulled my pants up and started to cry and told her the story and said oh and I think shes discusted...:/ Also another time I started to get horny (i do a lot kinda) I told her I was getting horny and she was like oh i see and I was like would you do me a favor and she said it depends and I said get your dildo and stick it up there for me because i really needed it right then but she wouldnt /: So yeah it was embarresing I really just wish one of my friends were either bi or a lezbo because I really need someone to be able to do stuff with! When I see pictures of nude guys i just say cool but when I see a girls thats when I start actually looking good! I REALLY NEED HELP OR TIPS ON ANYTHING! PLEASE HELP ME! );I WILL RATE YOU (link)
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hi, well there...hmmm if u need someone then get someone to do stuff for u...either a gurlfriend or a b/f...w/e u feel like...there are lots of gurls who are lezbo n bi..n i dunno wut...n i bet there lots of guys who would wanna b wit u n shit...so if u want it that bad then get a b/f or a g/f n do ur thing...by the way i've hurd that there are some ppl that get horney all da time n that they wanna have sex all the time...n thats somekind of disease but i dunno wuts it called..so i dunno if u get horney like all da time...like every singel hour or u know lots of time may b u should check wit a doctor or something i dunno...something like dat...anyways hope i helped xoxo effy
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Is there any way to get ride of a pimple FAST???
HURRY I NEED TO GET RIDE OF IT BEFORE FRIDAY!!! (link)
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hi, well from wut my grandma use to tell me to get ride of pimpels is either take the juce of lemon n put it on ur face n keep it for a lil bit n wash it out...(that helps the skin to get smoth n shyt) or if u want it to get away...i guess u just have to hide it wit make up!!! dats da faster way...xoxo effy
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how do u fix jealousy? i dont want to be jealous. but i dont think i am that much. (link)
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hi, well jelousy its nothin that can help dat...dependin on wut ur jelous bout..like for ex. if ur jelous bout ur b/f or w/e u just have to trust him n if u trust him a lot n everything u wont b jelous!!! if ur jelous bout ur friends..then u just have to tell ur self that ur better then anyone that just b/c they get lots of guys or i dunno w/e so wut?!?! u could 2 n bla bla bla...i dunno i dont think there are other ways to stop jelousy...jelousy its in u...i dont think u could do much bout it...thats my opinion..so hope i helped xoxo effy
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15-f...I'm not happy at all, and I don't know how to change that. Me and my boyfriend broke up a while ago but I'm okay with it now its just that I don't really have anyone now. I have a few friends, I'm just a shy person. It just seems like once I think I'm happy something comes and ruins it. My mom and I get along, but she just makes me so mad. I know all parents are like that. But then it all builds up and I don't know how to handle it all. One time I cute myself and I know it was stupid, but now everytime I get upset thats what I think about...I don't know how to handle my emotions...I just want to be happy.... (link)
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hi, well ur being HARSH ON UR SELF THERE...relax n chillax...try not to worry to damn much bout problems...there are lots of stuff u could do n keep ur self entertained...so wut u should do is..hang out wit ur friends as much as u can...give other guys an oppertunity to get to know u n get in ur life :) n may b who knoes u might find dat special someone out there...also talk on da phone...watch TV...go to the pool or i dunno do something...rather than stayin home n thinkin bout ur problems...i mean of course u have to worry bout them n everything but not to get out of control...try to hang out wit ur friends...go to their houses...invite friends over n bla bla bla ..xoxo effy
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i really like this guy. but he lives in another state. i dont get to see him very often, but i can talk to him online or on the phone. should i ask him out? (link)
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hi, well from experience long distance relationships dont work...but if u like him n he likes u n u want to give it a try or w/e then go ahead...but LET HIM ASK U OUT!!! xoxo effy
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I really like this guy, lets say his name is anthony. Well me and anthony hang out alot. And we flirt a lot too. But he dont like me he likes my friend and my friend dont like him. And it hurts so much cuz i kno he likes her. And hes told me he thinks im hot and that i have a great body and that im koo to hang out with stuff like that. But he just tells my frieend that he likes her and that it. Idk wut it means or what todo. So basicly wut i wanna kno is how to get him to like me, and anyother things you guyz might think help????? (link)
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hi, well since he thinks ur hot n everything then i bet u got a chance...try to b as close to him as possible.. n w/e u do just b ur self...da guy needs to like u for who u are not for someone ur not...if he likes u for who u are then u guys ment to be if not then forget him n move one...there are planty of guys who wants u n everything...so basically just let him know that ur interested by the way u act n w/e w/e....dont tell him u like him till u b sure he likes u back or w/e...just show him ur interested flirt wit him...n everything ;)))) hope it works out...but if it doesnt trust me its better to move on :))) give other guys a chance :) who knoes who that mr.right is!! ;) xoxo effy
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this kidd wants me to have sex with him what do i do i mean i like him but i keep thinking about the ocnsequences... (link)
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hi, well if u like him a lot n ur ready then go for it...but u should b very careful...use protection...like condom n pills so u wont get pragnent...but if ur not ready n u dont think that the kid its dat special one then forget it..dont do it...n if he presures u dats b/c prolly thats all he wants!!! carful n good luck xoxo effy
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my friend always lies to me and im so sick of it! what should i do? (link)
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hi, well if she lies to u she aint a tru friend...dont trust her wit stuff...just keep away from her dont b 2 close...xoxo effy...
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My best friends ex likes me. He has asked me to have phone sex with him and he has told me and loves me and wishes I was his girl. I have told him a thousand times that we can only stay friends since he is my best friends ex and i do not like him at all. He is a perverted just like every other guy but much worse. All he talks about is girld having sex with him. He even has sadi that he'd rape me! I was really scared and he was serious. I don't know what to do and I can't tell my friend. I've told her we've talked and she was happy but I didn't tell her what he said. I need advice ASAP!! HELP PLEASE!!!
Signed,
Fed Up (link)
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hi, well there...listen wut i would do is tell wussup to my friend b4 she finds out from him or from someone else that he has talked to...n then serious problems begin b/c she wont belive u n she will tell u "since u were so inocent then y didnt u tell me?!?!" n bla bla bla...so wut i would do is tell her the truth tell her that u dont like him but he keeps on botherin u n sayin all dis things...n bla bla bla...tell her u told her so one day she wouldnt find out from someone else n then wouldnt belive anything u would say...n bla bla bla :) u know how this things are...if u need anything else ;) then holla i'll b more then happy to give u my opinion :) xoxo effy
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I really like this guy, lets say his name is anthony. Well me and anthony hang out alot. And we flirt a lot too. But he dont like me he likes my friend and my friend dont like him. And it hurts so much cuz i kno he likes her. And hes told me he thinks im hot and that i have a great body and that im koo to hang out with stuff like that. But he just tells my frieend that he likes her and that it. Idk wut it means or what todo. So basicly wut i wanna kno is how to get him to like me, and anyother things you guyz might think help????? (link)
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hi, well there i dunno wut to tell u but since he thinks ur hot n everything u might have a chance there...u might wanna show him that ur interested guys usually like dat ;) ...they like attention so :) xoxo effy
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alright so i've been dating this guy for a little under 2 mos, but i can already tell that he's more special than anyone else i've ever dated before... but theres a problem. let me tell you a story first:
i got a job closer in town (i live in the suburbs) and i moved in w/ my grandma for june because i wouldn't have been able to commute to work in june. i happened to move in 5 minutes away from my boyfriend, but i lived 20 minutes away from all my other friends from school, and i couldn't spend time w/ them as often as i did with him because 1. i live closer to him and dont have time to commute after work and 2. they never too the initiative to ask me to do something... they just assumed i would if i wanted to. and i did want to do stuff w/ them really badly on the weekends (cz i moved back to the burbs on the weekends). Towards the end of June a few of them started getting mad at me because i was supposedly spending all my free time w/ my boyfriend, when i only saw him at church on sunday and maybe twice during the week.
well, i got the argument with my friends settled, but the way they settled it was that i had to do stuff with them w/o my boyfriend, and that really hurts him. it's basically like they're saying to him "we're more important to her than you are" or "we want to split yall up" when i know they dont mean either, but he's still really mad and upset about it. is there any advice you can give me on this subject??? i just wish that my boyfriend and my friends could get along.
btw: i dont go by the motto "Chicks before d!cks" because my boyfriend is also one of my best friends and it'd still be like ditching a friend if i went off to do alot of stuff w/o him. (link)
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hi, well tell ur friends how u feel bout him...n how special he is to u...n how much u care...n how much u cant stand being away from him...n how u wish that them n him got along n everything...i bet they'll understand if they're tru friends...i mean my gurls always understand me...y wouldnt urs?!?!/ n yes i dont go wit that motto either cuz mah baby its one of the best friends ever...i could talk to him bout anything...so i totally understand u:) just try wut i told u...if it dont work i'm sorry but ur friends aint tru ones :)) or they need to grow up n understand things better...tell them to put them selves in ur shoes ;) xoxo effy
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Yeah..my gay dad is always telling me that im gunna live with him 10,000 miles away from my friends i REALLY dont wanna go what should i do to make him change hs mind (link)
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hmmm tell him how u feel...talk to him n everything if he doesnt listen then when ur 18 move out :) xoxo effy
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my friend cuts herself just for the heck of it. she doesnt know why either. i know it sounds crazy but she does it anyways. i've tried to talk to her about it and she promise she'd stop but i see cut marks on her all the time recently and much more than usual. what should i do? should i tell somebody....please help!
signed....scared for my friend (link)
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TELL SOMEONE!!! as soon as possible!! wut u waiting for...finding her dead somewhere!?!?! tell someone she needs help asap! xoxo effy
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WoW, i rEaLLy nEeD HeLp,
i just got over a really bad break-up, and im still hurting, i like him alot but he doesnt like me =/ i was so upset i cut my self,ill NEVER do it again, but i dunno what to tell him cause hes just one of those people that say o and cool not the person too really care, but he was a good boyfriend, and made me happy and i really already miss him..and its been like 4 days, and i really want to go back out with him, but we fight alot, is there any certain thing i should do to get him to talk serious, cause i REALLY wanna know if i have to let go for real this time... (link)
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hey, well relax...n dont u ever ever EVER cut ur self...damn just forget him...try as hard as u can...try to get over him...open doors to new guys..give an opertunity to another guy to make u happy xoxox effy
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I have been really stressed out.....and i get jealous when im Ex-Girlfriend talks or hangs out with guys but then i am starting to like this other girl but i still really like my Ex-Girlfriend! What should i do??????????
P.S. i am 14 years old and a male (link)
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hi, well first chillax n relax...theres no need to be stressed out...just take it easy man...try to forget ur ex...move on...n give a chance to dis new gurl :) who knows....wut happens ;) xoxo effy
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I've had this one friend "Helen" since 5th grade. I just met "Sarah" this year, and we became really good friends. For some reason , Helen is being such a mean you-know-what to Sarah. She's called her a h** and said she did something with another kid, which is SOOOOOOO not true. Helen doesn't even know Sarah, and she's talking about her. What am I supposed to do?? I don't want to get caught in the middle of this argument. (link)
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she is jelous dats it ...talk to her n tell her that no metter wut u guys will still b friends...tell her to stop hating...n to respect ur friends just like u respect hers...xoxo effy good luck
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