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Q: i havnt gotten my period in like 6 months im soo sure im not pregnant cuz i took the test like 3 times and i dont feel like i am and stuff whats wrong with me??
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it depends how long ago you got your period because for the first like year it gets a little messed up
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Q: Okay,
The guy that i've seriously been crushing on is coming over tommorow and i have a huge red acne dot on my nose and i have tried everything to shrink it.
i've used pro active, hemmeroid cream to decrease the swell, 10% benzoyl peroxide cream, eye drops, not touching it and keeping it clean, hydrogen peeroxide, drinking TONS of water, and tea tree oil. i'm so scared, its valentine's day and my nose is a mess.
i included a picture so you can best judge what to do.
http://img258.imageshack.us/img258/8277/picture03xn0.jpg
please anything that works.
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dont worry about it
it will unswell by 2morow and then just use cover up
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Q: I am in middle school...in grade 8 and my friends and I wanna do a dance to a song that will be funny and flirty anyone have and ideas on songs or dance moves...THX Luv ya
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Man Eater by Nelly Furtado
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Q: How do you flirt with someone?
I used to be a very big flirt and easy going with the guys
I've had a boyfriend for a while, but we broke up like 2 weeks ago.
There is this other boy in my Spanish class that I have my eye on, he seems really nice and cute.
I don't remember how to flirt, as stupid as that sounds, it's true.
Can anyone give me advice on how I go about talking to him?
I tried today, but I kind of choked on my words.
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flirting would basically be seeming intrested in what he says. tease him a little bit but just playfully. repeat back things has said for example if hes eating fries "hyprcrit u hate fries!" lol just rememeber in talking to him have confidence and talk to him like hes a normal person. good luck!!!!!
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Q: well, i didnt kno what category to use. so yeaa. anyways... this is going to be long and confusing...
so my life is basically retarded right now. i dont have many friends. i mean i do, but none of them are really close, cos people tend to cause drama and screw me over, and i got sick of it, so i pretty much pushed everyone away. when i first meet people, im really shy and i usually dont talk much. i also suck at opening up, even though i want to, i just kinda.. cant. i have one really close friend, and shes not even that close. her mom is really strict and i only see her at school usually. outside of school, i never have anyone to hang out with accept my older friends, but sometimes i feel like im a pain in the butt to them. cos i cant drive and i always need a ride, and i barely talk to them. we dont know much about each other, we just hang out. its weird. i love being out with them though, everything feels better. i hate being at home. my parents always give me shit. they expect me to get straight a's or a+'s, and they give me so much responsibility. then, it soccer, they expect me to be a star player. but i cant, im not that great. they always yell at me when i dont live up to their expectations. they dont know anything about my life either. one time, my dad was asking me about drinking. i told him i dont do it and that i would never do it. he told me i wasnt fun, which was weird. truth is, ive been drinking since i was 12, and ive smoked, both cigs and weed. it makes me feel kinda guilty when they compare me to my sister and say how shes so bad, yet im so good and obediant and stuff. with guys, its been shit. ive had two boyfriends, neither of which lasted very long. im more of a tomboy, and im the youngest of all my friends that i hang out with outside of school, who are all boys, pretty much. theyre all either seniors or older, except for 2 or 3 of them, and im a freshman. there was also this guy that ive liked since i started talking to him in the beginning of the year. he kissed me, but told me it was just spur of the moment. then we didnt talk for a while. after about two or three months of little contact, hung out again and he kissed me and.. we had sex. it was a mistake, but i dont regret things.. so i guess its not really a regret. now we stopped talking so much again. i also like one of my senior friends, but hes.. well, i dont know whats up with him. hes a real gentleman, so hes never really like "dayumn, shes hot" i only heard him talk like that once, and it was just me, him, and two other guys, and they were saying they would fuck one of the teachers at our school for an a. he was just like, "oh yea, me too" but kinda in a quiet "not really" way. theres one other friend i have, and hes.. well, i feel kinda close with him. like, i feel like almost like siblings, or maybe just like best friends. but yea, i dont want to get attached to him because hes so bad. he goes to juvi school and is in gangs and stuff. well anyways. in school i always use to get good grades and never get in trouble. this year, my grades have dropped a little, and i have already gotten 3 referrals. ive been ditching and stuff too, which i know i shouldnt but.. i did. i want to go somewhere far away but i cant. my parents are giving me so much responsibility, they want me to like, save all third world countries. seriously. i dont. i want travel. my parents dont know any of my friends. not my guy frinds anyways. she thinks im always hanging out with my "nerdy friend" amanda, but im always with my guys.
sorry, this jumped all over the place. anyways, i just wanted to know your perspectives on my life and what i should do and stuff. i know i do bad things and hang out with bad people, but i dont want to stop hanging out with them. them make me happy. so i just want to hear what you guys think of this and stuff...
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parents suck. they dont understand we need to have our oun lives with out oun dreams and stuff. we want to do what WE want to do and not what THEY want us to do. your not bad, i ditch and im like a good girly girl. you dont need to tell your family about smoking because you know what? if they think your innocent let them think that. why not? if your sister is like you can you talk to her? or is that not an option? because she might have somthing to tell you. in class you could work a little harder, just show your parents your trying and "participating" to get them off your case. your guy friends sound cool i dont see a problem with hanging out with them. as long as your not risking your life i think your pretty good. these boys sound great, but i wouldent try a relationship with them. they might not see you in that way (they could see you as one of the guys.....uch) and if they do have feelings for you, but it dosent work out you could be losing your bestest guy friend. your smart hanging out with boys because girls just start drama. if you feel like your being a pain to your older friends i wouldent worry. your probably not i bet they love you. and being around you. you could try hanging out with some people in your class though. because who do you sit with at lunch? youve got to think that nest year your Senior friends arent going to be at your school anymore. you can start making friends with boys closer around your age so youll be able to be ewith them for longer. good luck! if you want to IM me anytime to chat my yahoo name is Xo_Babes
Love Always
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Q: please help.
i will try to make this short for you guys haha. My best friend who i've been friends with since kindergarten got her first boyfriend about a month ago.(we're freshman) Yeah, it's cute and everything, but holy mother of god it can get annoying. It's Sean this, Sean that (her bf). It's non stop details about them and how awesome everything is. All days it's "has he been looking at me...do you think he likes my shirt? what about my hair?" goodness... And then i have to hear about all the stuff he says to her about him loving her and stuff. and she sends me long emails and crap with buttloads of info about their conversations and i cannot take it. I've addressed her politely about it and we're open about things with one another, but she won't stop. IMAGINE NON-STOP QUESTIONS LIKE "ok if sean and my relationship were weighed on a scale on how much he likes me...would our relationship be a sumo wrestler or an annorexic girl?" Yeah. I ignored that one. And it sucks because i just broke up with someone recently and i hate that everything is shoved in my face like that. I am not in anyway jealous, and i know that because i am secure with myself and i do not wish to be in any sort or "relationship" right now. Help please. There are no signs that this mindless chatter between she and an annoyed, attempting-to-ignore-her-me , is going to die down anytime soon.
p.s. i am sorry it is so long. i know i said it wasnt going to be so long! =/
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no its not to long its intresting actually. poor baby i know how you feel. youve got to explain to her that you know she loves her boyfriend, and that its fun to freak out when a boy likes you, but you just ended a relationship and its difficult for you. tell her you love her to death, and your not annoyed with her at all, but you are annoyed with all the Sean talk and you know your going to start resenting (hating) her if it dosent stop soon
good luck! tell me how it all works out!
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Q: me and this guy hooked up *we made it to about 2 or 3 base-ish then he said it was moving to fast, but hes was the one making the moves and stuff and i didnt really do anything but yeah so now were just friends but how do i get him to go out with me and see how awesome i really am?
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once somthing like that hapens its hard to get to kknow eachother emotionally. even though he made all the moves, he probably just couldent halp himself. i think you should remain on a friends basis for a little and really get to know him. once he gets to know how awesome you really are as friends, hell ask you out for sure! just try getting to know him on a friends basis.
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Q: Well um heres a photo of me im the one with the medium lenthg browin hair with the white head http://coookiieloove.piczo.com
band well I dont see my self as a pretty girl like others i look at the mirror adn want to break it to be honest i need help i want to know what will make me pretty what make-up honstly i just want to look at my self and say hey i look pretty today but i never do please help
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firstly, you are very pretty. i would kill to have your hair! but i also think beauty is a state of mind. if you feel pretty, you will act pretty, and you and others will understand how pretty you are. i would get a sweet smelling perfume (like Pink Sugar) which could help you feel it. maybe iron your hair or somthing of the sort because the softness will help you feel gorgeous. get your nails done and it will be a constant reminder of how pretty you are. wear clothing that dosent make you feel in the background, wear clothes that fit you good and that make you feel good about yourself. give yourself compliments all the time. tell yourself "i am beautiful" 10 times a day. when you look in the miror give yourself a beautiful smile and say "look at me!". you aere pretty you just need to feel it
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Q: I have blue eyes and in every picture I've seen with me in it my eyes turn red. Every single time. If I were to wear brown eyeshadow, would that reduce the redness and make my eyes show up their natural color? Also, are there any other eye makeup tips that would be a solution. I know photos could be fixed by computer, but I don't want a reason for fixing..
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its not the color of your eyes becayse i have brown eyes and it does the same thing to me. an old modeling trick is looking right over the camera. the red eye thing is the light of the flash reflecting off your eyes and when your not looking directly into it your fine. try looking at the head of the photographer but dont look to far up because it will look like your looking at the sky. Xo,
Leo
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Q: I really want to get my stomach flatter. Is there a good diet for this? I am also going to start doing my zone pilates everyday. Also, i was thinking of taking some sort of weight loss pill, i know they are dangerous, but i am not looking for an extreme one. I am not overweight, i just have some fat, i need to get toned (i am like 110 and i am 5'4). The problem is that i am 16, so i wouldnt be able to order them because my parents CANT know...i need something from like a CVS.
Thanks so much!
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110 pounds at 5'4 is what i am, and im 13 years old. 3 yars younger then you. i dont think you need to lose wieghtm because i am considered thin! i would try doing crunches, 10 a night if you want to go easy. if your athletic (my brother is) you could do 100 a night, it would make you very sore and probably get you a six pack after a while. or you could do 50 as many as you think you need but yes crunches would be a good idea i think and you do NOT need to lose wieght remember you might stay the same weight or even gain because muscle tone weights more then fat does, but so? youll look toned.
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Q: I realized, I flirt a lot, with just about EVERY guy in my school..and i have a boyfriend..what are some ways that I could stop flirting.. I feel bad.. but sometimes I can't help it..i'm a natural flirt..thanks.
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lol flirting isnt bad unless you have a boyfriend, then its not so good. just try pretending your guy friends are girls. whenever you see a boy remember your boyfriend, and how you would act if he was there. be carful because you flirting with other boys can ruin a relationship. good luck!!
xo
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Q: hi i'm a 16 years old girl and have never had sex, a boyfriend, or kissed a guy. people tell me all the time that i am pretty and must have a ton of guy friends. i get ridiculously nervous around guys i really like and act like a total dork. what can i do to get guys to like me or to handle my nerves?
here's pics of me lol
http://i8.tinypic.com/24fa8o1.jpg
http://i7.tinypic.com/24fadcy.jpg
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woah your really pretty! dont think im lying bcz if i didnt think you were gorgeous i wouldent tell you that! im totally shy around boys, its 100% normal! going to talk to a boy with your friends always helps. that way you can put your arm around them or somthing, which makes yyou feel more secure. please do not cross your arms, it makes you look self-concious! try sitting down next to a boy, it makes you feel less like everyones staring at you. but, standing dosent make you feel trapped, like you could walk away whenever you want. first just try with stopping in the halls to say Hi and ask how a certain class was. and then ask somone for a homework assignment. then get more comftorble with conversations and youll get it. good luck!
p.s confidence is key. if YOU think your the hottest thing in the room, EVERYONE will!
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Q: Is there any websites or anything where you can find out other peoples passwords?
for IM screen names? THANX!!!!!!
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sorry! i didnt know this was illegal!
never mind then!!!!!!
:-[
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Q: about a week ago my ex of two 1/2 years told me that he couldnt be friends with me anymore bc his current gf was getting jealous.
i dont blame her..he was telling me he still loved me and wanted so badly to be together in the future. as my profile says..i am in a serious realtionship but am still in love with the one i view as my soul mate..well..thats him..
tonight he texted me and now we are talking on aim about it. he is currently apologizing for falling in love with her and ceasing our friendship bc of it...well i went to his myspace and read her comment to him and i just busted out crying and havent stopped...she was saying she loved him sooo much and she'd do anything for him and hes her world..it was soooo hard for me to sit there and read that knowing our past together and knowing he still feels the same way about me that i do him.
im not quite sure what i can do to get over him...its been 6 months since we broke up and we havent really talked at all besides a few brief convos about getting back together..ive tired not talking to him but it just hurts worse..does anyone have any suggestions as to how i can stop loving him???
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when you get that feeling, that you miss him, concentrate on a friend, a school assignment, a movie, anything to distract yourself. i think its one of the most horiable feelings in the world, to like someone and not be able to be with them. but this guy does not sound right. iif he is talking to you about how he loves you while hes dating another girl, what is he gonna tell other girls when hes dating you? you need to forget about him. maybe get a picture of an Abercombie (sp) model and keep it next to your bed. imagine this is your boyfriend. give him a name, a personality, and when you miss the other boy, just think of all the bad things about him. about how he would probably hurt you when you start going out. if your mad at him, you wont love him anymore. Anger conquers everything, even love! good luck!
xo
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Q: Okay, I'm 17/m and have a beautiful girlfriend that I've even promised to merry(sp?). Anyways, I have a friend that I was talking to, 15/f, and we got into a discussion. This discussion was about sex, we were talking and she asked me what I was thinking about. This was kind of weird because she usually can assume what it is. She kept wanting to know and then she asked me to email her my fantasies that I have about her. I hate to say this but I do have fantasies about her as well as my gf and sometimes all three of us. I know most of you think thats sick but were all young and young people do stupid things. Anyways, I'm scared and don't know what to do. Should I give into temptation and reveal my fantasies or keep them to myself? Is this feeling unnatural? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!! I'm sooooooo confused!
Thank you.
P.S. Me and my gf are perfectly happy with each other. We never fight, we love each other to death. We've been going out for 1 year.
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the fantasy thing is totally normal and fine. i would not tell this other girl about your fantasies because if you do, there is always a possibility your girlfriend is going to find out. if you are okay with your girlfriend finding out, you should tell her yourself, because she wont be very happy to hear it from someone else, especially not this other girl. good luck!
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Q: umm i have to read a newberry honor book. which one do you think is the best read for a 13 year old girl who likes like a little romance, humor, adventure, emotions, etc in a book? like just a good book basically, or i'll lose interest easy. i have to get it at the library tomorrow, for a literacy assignment. thankyou lots! it doesnt even have to be on this list. it just has to be a newberry honor book or a newberry award book.
these are some i found that i may like:
On the banks of Plum Creek
Ella Enchanted
The Cricket In Times Square
The Giver
Maniac Magee: A novel
Island Of the Blue Dolphins
Little house on the prairie
the view from saturday
the great gilly hopkins
joey pigza loses control
bud, not buddy
Holes
Charlotte's Web
The Summer of the Swans
The Westing Game
THANKYOU FOR YOUR TIME!
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The Giver by Lois Lowery is really intresting. its kind of Sci-Fi because its about the future but its soooo intresting like you dont get bored of it because everythings so new its like a different universe.
The Witch of BlackBid Pond By Elizabeth George Speare is a little romance. its historical fiction, a little boring but still a little intresting because everyone thinks the main character is a witch. its under 300 pages
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Q: hey im trying to find a really good song that deals with this: Well my ex boyfriends till means a realyl lot to me and i still love him with all my heart. I was wondering if there was any songs that any of you know off the top of your head this like like i still want you back and i love you. etc even though he was someone new. It can be country because i love country. Or hip hop R&b anything like that. THANKS A BUNCH! I'll rate 5's!!!
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Baby come back by Vanessa Anne Hudgens
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Q: My first serious boyfriend just broke up with me. We were together for almost a year, and it was a wonderful relationship until about a week ago when things went downhill. I lost my virginity to him awhile back and he was just the one person I could go to for anything. I'm just devastated and don't know what to do. I need suggestions on how to stay strong and how I should act if he happens to call.
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oh poor baby! me and my bf just broke up yesterday! anyways if you ever want to talk, email me at xo_babe@yahoo.com or IM me at xo_babe its my yahoo name and break ups totally suck but remember how many other boys there are out there you will get through this
if he calls say
1. its his loss
2. your already over him
3. HE broke up with YOU
4. youd really rather if he just stayed away from you
your waaaay to good for him
anyone who would brake your heart is a jerk
a mean mean jerk and theres a boy out there who will care about your feelings 100% just wait for him, he will comee!
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Q: What could you wear with a skirt?
Because it's too short and I don't like my legs showing that much. It's a jean skirt.
Are there certain leggings [colors] that go well with it?
Is thigh high socks a little too much?
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if its washed out denim you could wear black leggings. if not you could try white or grey. or you could try knee high boots (like Uggs).
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Q: whenever i put my hair up in a ponytail, the top of my head has these really really short pieces of hair and they stick up. It looks really bad and weird. So is there any way i can prevent from these small hairs from sticking up? I use hair spray, but all it does is make my hair look oily, and it doesn't even work. Should i use gel?? I try to use a headband, but the headbands keep falling off my head. any suggestions??
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if you get a smoothing cream, the kind you use after ironing your hair. its really smoothe and its clear. you can ask about it at any beauty supply store, or at save-on or sumthing you can easily find it. put like 3 squirts of it in your hand and rub them together. then smoothe it through the rest of your hair not the top. use whats left on your hands on the top of your hair so it dosent look greasy. if you need names of companys or the officiall name of the smoothing stuff just lemme know
also, BedHead products, any of them will keep your hair smoothe!
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FRIENDS ARE LIKE ELEVATOR BUTTONS. THEY CAN EITHER BRING YOU UP OR TAKE YOU DOWN. CHOOSE WISELY
A friend will let you borrow their umbrella but a best friend will take yours and scream "Run Loser Run!!!"
we are all angels
with one wing
and we can wonly fly
with the help of somone else
my friends are my wings
TRUE FRIENDS
THEY ARE HARD TO FIND
DIFFICULT TO LEAVE
AND IMPOSSIBLE TO FORGET!
you can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose! but you cant pick your friends nose
killers stab you in the head
Frenemies stab you in the back
boys stab you in the heart
but best friends dont carry knives
a best friend will never ever come to bail you out of jail so never use your one phone call on them
i tried that, but she wouldent pick up. when i got back to our jail cell, i asked her why she wouldent pick up her phone.
theres no thing as strangers. there are only friends we havent met yet
ill give you advice the best that i can
im only 13 so the advice i give you may not be the best
but ive made tons of mistakes so i can relate
and im obsessed with shopping so anything with clothes i can help
and im always here if you want to talk or hang out or anything
im giving you the truth straight up
i am a brutally honest person
Im also fun-loving and adorable
I consider myseld a happy person
I just happen to love black
Do not call me gothic or ill kill you
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Planet Mars Occupation: Being a Princess Age: 13 Yahoo: Member Since: December 26, 2006 Answers: 588 Last Update: July 1, 2010 Visitors: 26868
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