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boyfriend isn't happy anymore
My first serious boyfriend just broke up with me. We were together for almost a year, and it was a wonderful relationship until about a week ago when things went downhill. I lost my virginity to him awhile back and he was just the one person I could go to for anything. I'm just devastated and don't know what to do. I need suggestions on how to stay strong and how I should act if he happens to call.
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oh poor baby! me and my bf just broke up yesterday! anyways if you ever want to talk, email me at xo_babe@yahoo.com or IM me at xo_babe its my yahoo name and break ups totally suck but remember how many other boys there are out there you will get through this
if he calls say
1. its his loss
2. your already over him
3. HE broke up with YOU
4. youd really rather if he just stayed away from you
your waaaay to good for him
anyone who would brake your heart is a jerk
a mean mean jerk and theres a boy out there who will care about your feelings 100% just wait for him, he will comee!
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Me and a boy were together for 7 months. We were totally in love. About 2 weeks ago, he broke up with me with the reason, "I'm just not happy anymore, I want to see other people."
Of course you're going to feel horrible. I know I still do. The first week or so is the hardest. Looking at him will be painful. Seeing him with other girls will feel like your being stabbed.
I know this isn't what you want to hear. And I know you're not going to believe it. But time does heal everything. I didn't believe it at first. But it's true. You will learn to live without him. If you are meant to be together .. then things will work out. And if you're not meant to be together .. you'll have an opportunity to meet someone else. "I don't want anyone else, I want him!" yeah I know how it feels. But you'll move on, just as he is. I'm so sorry this happened to you. I know it sucks but there's really nothing you can do about it. He has to take it upon himself to decide if he wants to get back together with you.
If he calls, just act like he's acting. IF he sounds all natural and like you're just friends, act like that. If he calls and wants to get back together, and you really want to, tell him. I overly suggest that you dont call him. If you call him, then you're letting him know that you're constantly thinking about him and that what he did to you is bothering you.
I'm really sorry.
I know how it feels =
If you need any further help .. just drop one in my box.
--Ali
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