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well my sister is telling me this one dude that very shy likes me and like me my sis says that he tell her stuff to tell me should i belive her? (link)
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believe only half what you see, and nothing that you hear. x0
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Whenever I eat something in front of my boyfriend, I get all embaressed. I guess its because Im afraid I'll get food on my lips or face or something like that, so I only take a bite when he's looking away. Its so weird - I dont even notice Im doing it until he says something to me. I feel stupid eating when he's staring right at me tho. Does anyone have any suggrestions for what I can do to fix this ? Thanks a million. (link)
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hey if you got food on your lips or your face thats the way to do it! dont be afraid of what your boyfriends going to think about you, he should like you for the way you are, he might even think thats a lil cut or a lil funny and make a small joke about it but you can go right ahead and laugh with him. just be more comfortable with him. x0
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me and my boyfriend have been together for quite some time ((3 months)) and we have known each other since he was 15! he is 19 now & im 15... my parents think he is 16 and i hate lying to them but i love him and i want to be with him... how bad does this make me?? (link)
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alright just wait until your like 17 or 18, because if you tell them the truth its illegal and most likely your parents would want you both to stop seeing eachother. but thats one thing, or you can just tell them now and be honest. x0
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Um, is there like an actual way to play darts? Or do you just throw them really hard at the board? If there is an actual way...what is it? (link)
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yes, you can play games. electronical dart board would be easier palying these games.. but you have to stand a certian feet away from the board and throw them, after a while you'll learn to how hard to throw them and where you should aim them. x0
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what does it mean to pop your cherry? i have heard it tons of times but i never really understood what it meant x3 (link)
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to pop your cherry is to loose your virginity. theres a peice of skin that is broken when you have sex, but theres also other ways to break it, but its just to have sex for the first time. x0
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I have a friend. We've been bestfriends for 3 years now. Well lately, we haven't been talking to eachother. She found some new friends, as have I. But I mean, once in a while, we'll talk. But, she's become this total slut. Seriously. She'll makeout with any guy (no matter the age). Plus she cheats on her boyfriend. She also tells everyone that she's gotten drunk/high/fingered/given a blowjob/given a handjob/had sex. Which is so not ture! But everyone at school is thinking she's a whore. I know she doesn't do it. But I have a feeling that she might, someday. She's only 12. But, she does all these crazy things with boys. No one likes her anymore. (link)
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okay, shes only 12. shes just looking for the attention from people, shes giving her self a really bad reputation of herself especially at that age. yes, that could happen someday but i'm sure that it hasen't. the best thing you could do is talk to her, have her come over and talk to her about things, if she gets mad at you it would be a good reason because in the end she will figure out that you were right and you were being a good friend to let her know. x0
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Hey guys I need your help. Ok well, at the end of the year I plan to have a rave. For those of you who don't know what a rave is, it's where alot of people come to one place and just have fun, it's basically like a big party. Any way I need your help on getting started with the rave. I want this to be the biggest party of the year. So I just basically need your help on getting started and knowing what are the important things to have at the rave. Thanx to everyone who answers this!!! (link)
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alright, its called a party not a rave hun. okay but anyways,all you really need is all your friends there, food and good music and maybe something that all you guys like maybe a movie or i dont know a silly game lol those are fun. lol but yea music and food basically. have fun! x0
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my name is nicole ok i live in cali and im 15 years old me and my x like broke ^ like on monday i feel like soo tear a part i have been crying i dont know if i should go back with him i was like with him for like 8 months things dont feel the same because his not in my life right now i feel like some other girl could take my place he has been crying 2 so have i i dont know if i should move on or not should i take him back or give me more time can somebody please help me!! (link)
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well i'm sure that theres a good reason why you both broke up. if you guys both still feel the same way (missing eachother) then get back together.. but maybe its for the best of you, but i would understand no matter what/why the reason you two broke up your going to miss him and cry for a while. but you'll eventually get over him. its all up to you and him. x0
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Dear advice people givers (lol),
I got my heart broken recently. Last Sunday to be exact. We'll call him Jason. Jason and I have been going out for a week and 4 days. We known each other for a couple of months and have been aquainted. Jason and I got in a fight the day before we broke up. He was on the phone with me and I told him my personal life and I began to cry too and he threw it in my face saying all this mean stuff. It left me so mad at him. You can't even imagine. Well on the 11th (next day) day he calls and he was all like "Hey what are you doing?" and I said "I am at my house.." I said it with an attitude because I was mad at him. Then he was like "I think we should just be friends..." I just hung up the phone. I have no idea why he broke up with me... I could not talk to him, I didn't want to. Then like 15min later he calls my cell on his friends phone and when I answer he hangs up! I was so mad and so sad. I know boys lie but somehow they make you believe their lie, He said I was the best thing that has ever happened to him and he loved me soo much and he wanted this realationship to last forever. Well...I believed it. I haven't talked to him since we broke up (dec. 5) and for some reason I really want to call him and talk but then again I think I don't want to but then I really do...do i make sense? But then my best friend told me the weirdest thing, she said that when we started hanging out as just friends, that he thought I was a ho or a slut (i wasn't supposed to know). And 1st of all I do not dress or act like one because, yo, I am the farest from being a slut and dude, he wouldn't have gone out with me if that was all that he was looking for. Because he knows me...everything almost. Should I call him? I really miss him...a lot. But he hasn't called me, not even once. I don't want to call him and feel like an idiot...srry 4 it being so long :)
Thanks :) (link)
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a week and 4 days.. i know that people are like omg boyfriend!! but this is what people to get a sense of feeling of what they like in a guy for in future 'hookups'.. but if he really did believe in what he said about forever.. he would have called you by now. i dont think you should waste your time on waiting for him to come around and you to call him. theres better people and if a guy makes fun of you for crying about your life, thats total bs. you def dont want that in a guy. but its up to you hunnie. x0
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well every year i have a choice if i want to go to tennessee for christmas to visit my family. its my one chance to go 2 states away.... to get away from all my problems and to really just think. but i would be gone for 2 weeks, including christmas and new years. the problem is.... i dont want to leave my boyfriend. i love him and i have never spent new years eve with a guy and i want to spend it with him. i want to start out the new year with him. hes having a new years eve party too...and his family is having a christmas eve party and everyone brings their gfs and bfs and he wants me to go, but i cant if im in tennessee. i cant choose to go or stay. he is telling me to go so i can think and have time to myself and get away from all my problems for a while. but i would miss him SOOOO much and i dont know if i should go or stay.... what should i do? (link)
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if you have been doing this for years, i dont think a boyfriend would stop you. i know that you love him and you would miss him dearly, but its nice to spend time with family that you only see once a year ya know? and your boyfriend seems to understand that to say that you should go. so i hope you make the right decision. x0
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Okay last night my best friend dylan called me up and we started talking. He told me that his mom wants to put him in rehab bc she found an empty bottle of tekila in his bedroom and the night she found it, he came home drunk. He and I dont see eachother or talk as much as we used to but I know that he smoked weed and drinks. I just dont kno how much he does it. He really worrys me when he tells me things like this and I think that he needs to get checked into rehab or go to a clinic or something. I really am worried about him and IDK how to confront him about what he is doing. I love him and want to help him out, what do I do? (link)
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kids will be kids.. you would rather having your friend being a screw up than when hes older, right? and hes trying out new things, this is what happens during our time. teenagers try out new things. x0
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For Christmas I may get my belly button peirced, I need to know a few things. Does it hurt? How long until you can change the belly ring. How much do belly button rings cost? Thats it... thanks in advance. (link)
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it doesn't really hurt, its after a lil while it does, but it shouldn't be too bad trust me, i got mine done and i started laughing. haha. i think its 2 months to wait till you can change it, and most bellie rings cost about 20 dollars. pac sun has some really cute ones =). x0
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me and my bf have been together for a long time now. we haven't gone very far at all. he loves me and i love him but he is pressuring me into going further. i know for sure i don't want to because im not ready. im 14. i love him tho and i want to make him happy... what do i do? he respects me and everything so its not like he is like DO IT OR I WILL BREAK UP W/ YOU i can just tell he really wants to and he asks me if i will and stuff. sometimes he tries to do stuff and i tell him to stop but he keeps trying. later i talk to him about it and he says he jsut cant help it. ill rate (link)
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well if your not comfortable with somet things that he wants to do, just take time out and tell him that you dont want to do it and that you mean it. theres other ways to get around with pressure and stuff.. you can always try? but thats all up to you hun. but just talk to him, that would be the best thing to do. x0
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Ok, well, let me start off by saying i'm a 7th grade girl. Today at lunch this kid named derek passed me a note and said it was from my friend brian. I took one of my girl freinds, tara, to the bathrooom and read the note. It was really orny and soft....it read, "Roses are read, Violets are blue, sugar is sweet, and so are you......will you go out with me?". My friend tara started cracking up while i was numb and shocked from the note. I threw it in the trash and ignored brian the whole day. Now, me being quite popular (not rele popular, but popular as in knoing everyone in our grade and tlk to them and hang) and brian being shy and non-social. It's really weird and almost gross that he asked me out.....i rele don't know how to tell him that i don't want to go out with him at all so that he on't get embarrased and i won't get embarrased. Pleask tell me what i can write to him so he on't get hurt.
Thank-you so much for the help (link)
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take a chance with brian, seems like a sweet boy. everyone doesn't have to be loud and outgoing in order to be cool, give the boy a chance, he might be worth something ;D hehe. x0
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Ok me and this guy have been going out for a month and a half and im going shopping on 12/11
and i need to know what to get him. hes a biker like BMX and a skateboarder but mostly bmx does anyone know what to get him!!!!! HELP!! (link)
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pac sun, they got good hoodies to buy for him, but kinda expensive =/.. hmm if u just want to get him something that isn't alot of money.. make him a card its nice to show that you spent your own time to do something for him. x0
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my boyfriend seems like hes my life i cant stop ever thinking about him and i always talkt o him on the phone and on AIM but now my grades are failing and my mom and dad says that if i dont get my grades up my life will be a living hell!!! there really strict on my grades! i dont know what i should do how do i jugle my boyfriend and school? also my friends?!!! also my boyfriend lives right next door thats why i see him so much!! thank you~! (link)
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well try doing your homework with him. have him help you, or study together. but that is a must, you cant keep pushing it off until the last minute and you start dropping your grades in school. school is an important thing, you need it in order to become something in life. so yea try doing your homework/studying with him or just take an hour away from him and get it all done. you know boys aren't your life!! x0
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how do you get over a guy you really like and think that you love? (link)
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easy, do things that you liked to do before, hang out with your friends more, go see movies, go shopping, things to get your mind off of him and go have some fun in your life. i know where your coming from hun, and trust me, hang out with your friends, its nice to be back with them. x0
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I am a 15 year old female, and I have a 17 year old boyfriend. He has been a total jerk lately. The other night, my best friend really needed me so I walked to her house (about 3 miles) and he told me not to go cause I was going to get more sick and he got mad when I did go. I called him when I got there and told him I was comming to his house (another mile) and he told me not to come cause he didn`t feel like getting out of bed to drive me home when he could see me tomorrow. :-( so I started on my walk home and about half way there some old guy grabbed my arm, and I got lose and ran so fast. He said "I`m comming after you". I was never more scared. So when I got home, I called him to tell him the shocking news and he just said "maybe one day you`ll listen to me" he didn`t say sorry or anything. I love him so much and can`t leave him, what else can I do besides talking to him cause I already have? (link)
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try finding someone around your own age, i also am 15 and going out with a 17 year old. and at times, yes its very hard, b/c sometimes he gets in all these awkward moods and like seems like he doesn't want to be with me, but weve been together for over a year and i know were gonna be together much longer. but hes probably got all this stress about college and what he wants to do after school, jobs, family, where he wants to go after it all... hes probably just confused and stressed out. so give him a chance i'm sure things will work out for you both. x0
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alrigty...i have a bad habit with cutting my self..and i need to stop...the only problem is...i dont kno how...my life is kinda shakey now b/c my mom is makin me go live with my aunt 4 good b/c of my "problem" and im doin pretty bad in skool with all the stress thats going on...and that makes more stress and just blah...i mean my friends and my boyfriend HATE the fact that i do it and they give me ideas to stop like squeezing an ice-cube until it melts...but that dont help... and i am in cheerleading an i always have to wear my long sleeve shirt so ppl wont see my arms and be like "shes physco" er suttin...but ne ways..i also have a prob with eating...i mean im not fat and i love food...but it just makes me wanna puke...so idk what to do about that either...so if ne one has ne ideas with how to help me with this stuff...please let me kno! (link)
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i dont see why people cut themselves, like i understand if everythings not going like it sopossed to in your life, but its life, you have to deal with it, and i dont think cutting yourself makes you feel any better and makes everything so much better.. is anything gettin acomplished from you cutting? no. i didn't think so. so try other things to relieve your stress, and do things that let you have fun, cuz i dont think cheerleading is your thing, sry hun, but if you wanna cheer i dont think cutting is gonna make you look any better. x0
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Okay, does anyone know if when you just wear studs when you get your ears peirced, will the holes still sag? or is there any kind of dangly earrings that don't pull on your ears? I'm clueless and not sure if I want my ears peirced or not :/(sorry if I spelt peirced wrong...) I rate high ^_^ (link)
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the only way for your ear to sag, is from earings that are heavy, ex. hoops... they pull down but if you jsut get studs ( which are the only ones you are able to get when you get your ear pierced) will not make your ears sag. x0
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