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my name is nicole ok i live in cali and im 15 years old me and my x like broke ^ like on monday i feel like soo tear a part i have been crying i dont know if i should go back with him i was like with him for like 8 months things dont feel the same because his not in my life right now i feel like some other girl could take my place he has been crying 2 so have i i dont know if i should move on or not should i take him back or give me more time can somebody please help me!!
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Why did your ex break it off? If you and him are both crying then you still obviously have strong feelings about eachother still and should try and work things out. Breaking up with someone is always difficult especially if you've been going out for a long time. You need to try and talk to him about it. Make a list of the pro's and cons of getting back together with him. If you can't talk to him face to face then try over the phone or writing him an email or letter. A lot of couples your age will split up for a bit because they have been going out with eachother for a while and by splitting up for a bit they then realise if its really meant to be or not. By the sound of things I think you should try and talk to him and try your best to sort things out. The sooner the better. Don't worry, I'm sure everything will work out. It will probably take something like this for him to realise just how much he really cares for you.
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Aww I'm sorry bout you and your guy, but it's probably better that you move on. Of course its gonna hurt for a while - if you had been together for 8 months, you were probably really close. But in the long run, you'd still break up, and it'd still hurt.. so move on and remember there are other guys!! I hope you feel better soon
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First ask yourself this question: Why did you break up in the first place? Was it over something silly? or Was it a big thing you care about? Also ask yourself is this relationship really worth it? You know in wedding vows you have to be their "for better and for worse, for richer and for poorer" When you get married you can't just decide to divorce over little things. You have to work through it. Keep that in mind. Although he's just your boyfriend you should practice. Too many people break up over small things, but just remember: Marriage isn't like that.
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if you're still in love, keep dating. if one of you isn't sure, take a break. follow your heart.
however, if deep down you have some small percent of you that doesn't want to be with him, give it time.
maybe you don't really know what you want yet.
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well i'm sure that theres a good reason why you both broke up. if you guys both still feel the same way (missing eachother) then get back together.. but maybe its for the best of you, but i would understand no matter what/why the reason you two broke up your going to miss him and cry for a while. but you'll eventually get over him. its all up to you and him. x0
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That depends on WHY you broke up. I'm assuming you had a reason, right? Keep that reason in mind. If it's something that can be fixed, and is WORTH fixing, then maybe she should get back together. However, even though I know it isn't what you want to hear, sometimes you just need to move on. It's totally normal to be upset over your ex boyfriend, epecially when you went out for the length of time you two did...but time has a way of healing things. I know how you feel, but I promise things will get easier. For the time being, it may be best to distance yourself from him for awhile, until you start to feel better. Once you begin to get over him, it will be a lot easier for the two of you to rebuild your relationship..as friends.
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You should definitely take him back since you and your ex-boyfriend have been crying a lot! But give yourself some more time to think about this! 8 months of a relationship is a long time! If you two broke up because of some problems, definitely fix them and make things better! Try to talk to him! Hope I helped! Good luck :)
-Karen
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Well, if both of you are sad and depressed, then maybe you guys should get back together and give it another try. Call him or IM him (or if you're feeling brave, talk to him in person) and let him know that you're miserable without him and you're sorry things didn't work out, and if the both of you could give it a try again. If you both broke up for specific problems with both of your personalities, then talk about it and try to work things out. For example, he might think that you are attracting too many guys' attention :). Or you might think he complains too much. Try to peacefully work things out, and take and give constructive criticism (not to be mean, but to help strengthen your relationship). Hopefully everything will work out. Good luck with it! =)
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and like loss the word like you stupid prep!!
lol jk im a prep 2
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Well I think that if both of you are crying over each other and you both still love each other you should take him back!But you should give yourself a couple days to think it over because it just happened and you probably aren't used to being alone.Hope I helped!
Lacey*
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