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Hey guys!My name is Lacey and I have blonde hair and green eyes, I love giving advice so feel free to ask me any questions at all!I also love Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie..they are my idols!I love S.W.A.T and all the people who go there!You guys are the best!!Umm..I can't really thing of what else to say..Oh yeah and I'm the one in the gray in the pic!haha..

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Well im going to this party and i havent ever made out with anyone and like i want to i want to do things like that and how do i without getting scared u kno i dun think i kno how wut if i make out like badly and like its not with a bf just like everyone its a krazy party n all and wut if a guy wants to finger me and id let him but isent that werid

im bri n im 14

Well..I think you should do those things when you are ready..and if you are and you are still scared maybe you could have a drink or two..but don't do it if you haven't already..I don't want to be the one to get you into that!lol also if your bad you could say it was because you were drunk!I'm sorry if this is bad advice but I hope I helped!
Lacey* xoxo

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Hey, do you think you could make one of those alphabet things for me cuz i have no idea how to like i dont know what each letter stands for. Well, i know up to like F but i dunno what i should put for the rest.
^i hope that made sense lol^

lol I'm sorry..I really don't know what you are talking about!Maybe you got the wrong person or something..give me an example or something maybe that will help..sorry I didn't understand!lol
Lacey* xoxo

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ok heres my problemo. im really skinny -5'4 91- and i like it but for the most part i DON'T. its just fast matabolism and im pretty active and healthy but i look anorexic and everyone thinks that. i try to eat more to gain weight but ofcourse, i don't! what can i do?
thanks

Well, don't listen to what they say..they are probably jealous that you are skinny!Most people would kill for a fast metabolism!I know I would!lol hope I helped!
Lacey* xoxo

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Ok everyone, I am a 16/f. I just found out Saturday that a friend of mine that I have known since middle school died. Then Sunday I found out my boyfriend is cheating on me and he is now denying it. Let alone Wednesday being the anniversary of my grampas death.
And I don't know what to do. Its so hard to hold on. I need some advice on what to do.
And on top ok everything my cousin who says shes my bestfriend is trashing my life. What do I do??
Please someone help me!

Well, whenever I feel stressed out or depressed I listen to music..also you could write down what you are feeling in a journal or something because it is supposed to help you get over things faster so you won't hold all your emotion inside..also, just try to find out the real truth if your boyfriend is cheating on you or not,just tell him to be honest with you and that it is really hurting you not knowing the truth..Well I hope I helped, and everything should get better!
Lacey* xoxo

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I really like this boy, and he is in 4 of my classes. I have no idea whatsoever how to talk to him. I mean, we talk, but never about anything interesting. My friends all know that I like him, and they think that he likes me. What should I do?

Just ask him for help on a question or something and when you get to know each other better, you should have alot more to talk about!Hope I helped and good luck!
Lacey* xoxo

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Ok, so there's this kid at my school that is obsessed with me, and we talk on the phone and internet and hes asked me out several times already, everytime i said i wasn't sure, what my question is is that do you think it would be smart to get to know him better, or is it "bad" to have an obsessive boyfriend? I don't really "like" him yet, but hes one of the sweetest kids i've ever met. Okay.. sorry it was long thanks

ashley

I knew someone just like that!haha it's weird how I can relate to alot of these questions lol...but anyway, I think that maybe you should tell him that you need a little space to think about it and maybe he won't be so obsessive...also, he might just be acting that way to get you to go out with him because thats what a guy did with me..but if you really think you want to go out with him then you should give him a chance and it might not be so bad and he might calm down a bit..if it is then you can tell him that you just want to be friends or something!Hope I helped and sorry its so long!lol
Lacey* xoxo

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I have this friend and she seems kinda perverted, she's never had a boyfriend or anything. When i go to her house and change into my p.js or swimsuit or something it seems she is always watching. and she ALWAYS talks about how big or small someone's boobs are! I told her to stop talking about stuff like that and that i think she is a pervert, but she thinks i was joking. I just wish she would shut up!

I had a friend like that except she had boyfriends..haha weird I know!But I think that you should just tell her that it bothers you and ask her why she is saying this..or you could also try to hook her up with someone because she might just be lonely or whatever lol well I hope I helped!Good luck with it!
Lacey*

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alright i am a 13 year old male and i am friends with this one girl. She already has a boyfriend but he goes to a different skool and she doesn't really get to talk to him. And i like the girl sooo much... What should i do ask her out??

I think that you should just start talking to her more and then she might realize that you are better for her maybe..if not then if you talk to her alot you will probably become good friends so it won't hurt to try!lol hope I helped!Good luck!!
Lacey* xoxo

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Well...Today was our schools Sweethart Dance and pretty much all my friends had dates,so me and three of my other friends went alone. Well my friends know that I wanted to ask this boy named Brandon to dance. Well one of my friends Kristan decided that she wanted to dance with Brandon. As soon as I got the courage to ask him to dance I saw her leading him onto the dance floor and my heart just broke in half. All my friends were like well you didnt' ask him and she asked him first. But then they saw that I was really upset, and they just told me to ask him to dance on the next slow song. Well the next slow song came and he had to leave.My heart was broken. Soon after my friend Kristan told me that Brandon really didn't want to dance with her cause he was afaraid of hurting y feelings.One minute he's all flirty and the next minute he's talking to some other girl. He's really sending me mixed signals. So my question is do you think that he likes me
Thanx
(i rate high)**

Well, he might be deciding whether he likes you or not, he might just be trying to get to know you better..just try to talk to him more and be his friend as long as you can and maybe you will find out then and he will realize if he likes you or not..hope I helped!Good Luck!
Lacey* xoxo

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I fell last week and my legs are all cut up and I wanted to wear a skirt on V-day but didnt want my cuts so show. So is there any way to make cuts go away faster?

Aloe Vera helps heal things faster..also rubbing alcohol I think helps..if they don't heal by Valentine's Day you could also put cover up on them..hope I helped!
Lacey* xoxo

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Hi anybody got any tips at goin to sleep at nite.

I go to bed early cos im always tired during the day but all i do is lie there thinkin an starin for hours an i just cnt get to sleep.

Sum1 help me please!

Maybe you could listen to some quiet music..not like rock and roll or anything or you could watch tv until you get tired..thats what I do..also I've heard that drinking a glass of milk helps lol...well I hope I helped!
Lacey* xoxo

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14/f hey does anyone know what i should wear on valentines day? nothing pink or anything like that-- i absolutly hate the holiday but i want to look cute .... maybe get a guys attention? lol nothing black either
thanks!

Well, you could wear a mini skirt and maybe a kind of dressy top or if you don't want to wear a skirt you could wear jeans with it and high heels either with the mini skirt or the jeans..it would look cute both ways..hope I helped!
Lacey* xoxo

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there's this guy that i like ALOT and he knows. well he tries to make it not akward by talking sometimes like in a class and stuff. well, all my friends tell me to talk to him online, but im such a chicken! i have talked to him online and had good convos probably 3 times out of the last 3 weeks. yeah, i know, lame! well i don't know what to talk about! also, what are some good ways to strike up convos? and he's not the kind of guy to talk about like what his hobbies are and whatnot... that's just dorky. so thanks in advance! :-)

Well, if there's any events coming up like a dance, any kind of sport, or whatever ask him if he's going or not or you could ask him what he's doing on the weekend and you could get some of his hobbies out of that also lol..well, I think I had more to say but I forget right now lol I will write some more if I think of any!Hope I helped!
Lacey* xoxo

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I just got a electric guitar and I was wondering if there are any good sites out there to teach you how to play it?

Thanks,

Well, I think there is a site called www.guitartabs.com..I've never really been on it but like all the guys in my class go on it so I think there should be stuff on there..I hope I helped!
Lacey*

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My friend is acting really annoying. She always says I like these two boys that I don't as a joke. But, it's really getting old. When people tell me that I ask them if they are high because I seriously don't like them. And my friend says well it's getting old how you ask people if they are high. So I ask her if she's mad at me. And she says yes. I can't believe she's always "joking" around but it's really starting to hurt some of my other friend's and my feelings. What can I do to get her to stop or even talk to me?

Ohh god..I have the exact same problem but different jokes lol..well I usually ignore her and she has cut down on it a little and we are actually getting along a little better..you could also tell her that she is hurting your feelings and ask her why she says it all the time..hope I helped!
Lacey*

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okay I know this is random, but like I have really weird hair thats in between being curly or straight (but it doesnt look good lol) and I was wondering does anyone know anything that will make your hair straight or curly w/o too much use of a straightener or a curling iron? Thanks soo much! (Please dont delete!)

You can get creams that will help you straighten it from a drug store or you can get it chemically straightened and that lasts a couple months..I have the same problem with my hair too so I know how you feel!lol hope I helped!
Lacey*

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What can I do about strech marks on my arms and stomach?

Well cream with Vitamin E or aloe vera helps fade them and there might be a cream especially for stretch marks..just go to the drug store and ask about it or if you don't want to do that you can get laser treatment too..hope I helped!
Lacey*

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my name is nicole ok i live in cali and im 15 years old me and my x like broke ^ like on monday i feel like soo tear a part i have been crying i dont know if i should go back with him i was like with him for like 8 months things dont feel the same because his not in my life right now i feel like some other girl could take my place he has been crying 2 so have i i dont know if i should move on or not should i take him back or give me more time can somebody please help me!!

Well I think that if both of you are crying over each other and you both still love each other you should take him back!But you should give yourself a couple days to think it over because it just happened and you probably aren't used to being alone.Hope I helped!
Lacey*

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hey i just got fake nails and they are starting to eat my fingers, i ripped them off but i woke uo the next morning to see those nasty buggars still on my hands!! what do i do? just rip them off cut um up and burn them or leave them on and lose my fiiijersnnerrssffdssss....oh no...my figners!

Theres some special cream that helps take them off and the glue that is still stuck on your nails.Go to a drug store close to you and they should have some there.Hope I helped!
Lacey*xoxo

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14/f

I'm going on a cruise for Christmas. And I went on one a few years ago. The last one i went on I saw tons of hott guys but i was to afraid to say hi. So I spent the entire cruise with my family (which was ok). Well, this time i want to be able to meet people while I'm there. What are some ways to meet new people without being really weird about it? thanks!

Just go up to them and say hi and maybe ask them where they are from or where they are going or something, then take it from there lol.Hope I helped!
Lacey*xoxo

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