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Boy Drama
Ok, so there's this kid at my school that is obsessed with me, and we talk on the phone and internet and hes asked me out several times already, everytime i said i wasn't sure, what my question is is that do you think it would be smart to get to know him better, or is it "bad" to have an obsessive boyfriend? I don't really "like" him yet, but hes one of the sweetest kids i've ever met. Okay.. sorry it was long thanks
ashley
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Yes! It's bad to have an obsessive boyfriend. Obsessiveness can lead to possessiveness and possibly violence. He's too persistent and that can be a bad thing.
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Dear Ashley,
Ok, so this guy is ObSeSsEd with you. That's creepy. Anyway, back to the point. I think you should get to know him better, but its kind of weird having an obsessive boyfriend. I mean, there has to be more to the guy, right? I think you should get to know him better and tell him to stop asking you out because you already said that you'd think about it. I hope I helped!
xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo
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I knew someone just like that!haha it's weird how I can relate to alot of these questions lol...but anyway, I think that maybe you should tell him that you need a little space to think about it and maybe he won't be so obsessive...also, he might just be acting that way to get you to go out with him because thats what a guy did with me..but if you really think you want to go out with him then you should give him a chance and it might not be so bad and he might calm down a bit..if it is then you can tell him that you just want to be friends or something!Hope I helped and sorry its so long!lol
Lacey* xoxo
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Well, I'd tell him what you just said .. be truthful with him .. obsessive boyfriends do get on your nerves though ( or they do mine ) LoL .. Just tell him what you think .. Being truthful is the best way to go ..
** HoPe I HeLpEd **
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Well, if you DONT like him and you DONT want to go out with him, dont lead him on- dont tell him u arent sure if you are. But, if you want to give him a chance and get to know him then GO 4 IT!!!
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well he may seem sweet but he already sounds like obseeive of you and i mean if you guys went out imagin how things would be... you need to get out of that before it becomes to much and your stuck in a knot!
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don't keep leading him on! it's either yes, or no. you need to choose quick, before you really hurt the guy! it isn't bad to have an obsessive boyfriend even thought it can make you feel uncomfortable if you aren't used to those kinds of things. there's nothing wrong with it, he just likes you alot! you should really give him a chance, and if things don't work out, i'm sure he will understand. atleast you gave him a chance.
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the next time he asks you out say, "i'd like to get to know you better first". i had a guy who was obsessed with me, but after we started he dating he calmed down, and i think it was just his way of trying to get me, so that's probably how it is for this guy. so get to know him better, then when you decide if you like him or not, go from there.
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well hes persistent you can give him that..if your not having feelings for him wait it out.Dont lead him on by saying your not sure because it sounds to me like you are. He's just being obsessive because he likes you alot and he really wants to go out..just be straight up with him and say you have 2 get to kno him better..if he really likes you he'll understand
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