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I have this friend and she seems kinda perverted, she's never had a boyfriend or anything. When i go to her house and change into my p.js or swimsuit or something it seems she is always watching. and she ALWAYS talks about how big or small someone's boobs are! I told her to stop talking about stuff like that and that i think she is a pervert, but she thinks i was joking. I just wish she would shut up!
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Well babe wut I would be thinking is she is a lez. Tell her to stop always talking about boobs and I dont feel compfy talking about it! OK babe1 If u got n e q's aim me or email me!
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~Maddy~
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just be like "ewww you pervert, youre gross" or "omg you weirdo" or "stalker", embarass her so she never says thing like that again!
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Tell her shes an idiot for not taking you seriously, you werent joking and your not into that crap. Call her a tard.
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I had a friend like that except she had boyfriends..haha weird I know!But I think that you should just tell her that it bothers you and ask her why she is saying this..or you could also try to hook her up with someone because she might just be lonely or whatever lol well I hope I helped!Good luck with it!
Lacey*
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I'm seeing a few issues in this "question".
1. Your uncomfortable with discussing other girls breasts.
2. Your uncomfortable being unclothed around her.
3. Your uncomfortable with the idea of girls/women being sexually attracted to other girls/women.
Suggestions:
1. The next time she starts talking about breasts, tell her you don't want to talk about it, and ignore any continuing comments. Fill in the space with other comments to try to "turn the conversation". This works when it's just the two of you, it might be harder if there is a group and your the only one who really doesn't want to talk about breasts.
2. Change in the bathroom, or wait till she goes out of the room to change. If she asks, tell her straight up that your uncomfortable with being watched while changing.
3. Get over it. It's a normal, natural part of some women's lives. Sorry, there really isn't a nice way to say that one. :)
It's important to note that even though I don't think you should be uncomfortable with the idea of lesbians, you shouldn't be made to feel uncomfortable regularly by your friends. That's goes especially for changing clothes and other actions that leave one feeling more "vulnerable" than normal.
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You definitely need to talk to her and tell her that her comments make you feel uncomfortable and that you want her to stop. If she doesn't understand, then you just need to ignore her and when she asks you why you are ignoring, tell her again about how you feel about her comments about girls and how they make you feel uncomfortable around you. If she still doesn't understand, then she isn't a good friend and you need to find a better one. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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maybe she's a lesbian...nah jus playin.. some friends do that... but jus tell her it makes you uncomfortable.. much luv dez
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Why dont you ask her about it and why she is so obssesed if you are beginning to feel uncomfortable just have a break from her
roxie
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