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what the hell do I do
Ok everyone, I am a 16/f. I just found out Saturday that a friend of mine that I have known since middle school died. Then Sunday I found out my boyfriend is cheating on me and he is now denying it. Let alone Wednesday being the anniversary of my grampas death.
And I don't know what to do. Its so hard to hold on. I need some advice on what to do.
And on top ok everything my cousin who says shes my bestfriend is trashing my life. What do I do??
Please someone help me!
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Damn, thats alotta bad stuff happenin in a few days. The best way to try and hold on is to talk about it with people. Try going to a family member or a close friend. Tell your cousin off, she seriously needs to stop. Besta Luck
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Everyone has problems like this at sometime in there life. And yes, it is hard to deal with. You could make a scrap book about your friend. If your boyfriend is cheating on you then you might want to dump him. Think about all the good times you had with your grampa on Wednesday and remember it is always okay to cry, expecially for something like this. You could try talking to your cousin and/or start hanging out with other friends more. Hope I helped you!
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Break up with your boyfriend, he isn't worth it. Talk to your cousin about what she's doing to you, and get that straightened out. Focus on the good things in life, or trying to make the bad things alright again. Things will get easier, just all this happening at once can seem like your entire world is falling apart, but there are still things to hold on to. Find something to do to get your mind off of the tragedies, like a job or a hobby. Consume your time with productive activities. It's just a matter of time. I'll pray for you hun.
-Farren
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Well, whenever I feel stressed out or depressed I listen to music..also you could write down what you are feeling in a journal or something because it is supposed to help you get over things faster so you won't hold all your emotion inside..also, just try to find out the real truth if your boyfriend is cheating on you or not,just tell him to be honest with you and that it is really hurting you not knowing the truth..Well I hope I helped, and everything should get better!
Lacey* xoxo
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Argh that sounds really tough hun. Try to listen to some uplifting Music and remember that what doesn't kill us makes us stronger.
Try to stay tough and know that things really will always get better. I promise!
Sorry, that advice wasn't great!
Best of luck,
Sophie xxx
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OK,
You need to talk to some people and get this out of your system - 'a problem shared is a problem halved' and all that. Even if you're only talking to a diary (try www.opendiary.com if you're scared of people in your house finding a paper diary), it's better than nothing. Check out my profile and IM me on any of those addresses if you ever want to talk :)
Going to this friends funeral may help a little, so you can properly say goodbye. About your Grandpa...well, there's nothing you can really do other than talk to your relatives about him and have a good laugh about the good times you shared. You could talk to him in your head about your other problems - I know it's not real but sometimes it helps me :) You could also visit his grave/where his ashes were scattered if it's not too hard for you.
And your cousin...tell her, quite simply, to f**k off. Don't let her make your life any worse!! Tell her how and why she is annoying you, and maybe she'll stop. If not, tell a parent, or cut this cousin out of your life as much as is possible - i.e. be busy when she rings you up, don't reply to her IMs or block her, avoid her as much as you can. You don't need any extra stress from her!
They say bad things come in threes, so hopefully this is the last of your bad luck!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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For starters get rid of your cheating boyfriend. With all this other stuff going on you don't need him around. You are young and can do much better than a lowlife that doesn't respect you.
I am sorry to hear about your friend. It's really tough when someone close to you - especially someone young or someone really close to you. Go to the funeral (if it hasn't already happened) and pay your respects - I know it's hard but don't be sad your friend has died, celebrate his/her life, they wouldn't want you to be miserable, would they.
For your Grampas death, instead of taking flowers and putting them onto your Grampas grave to wilt and die and not be enjoyed by anyone one, take them to your local old peoples hospice and give them to someone who has no family and doesn't get visitors. Not only will it make you feel better but it will make the person that you are giving the gift of flowers to feel really good too - and it would make you Grampa really proud.
As for your cousin, sit down and talk to her, tell her that you are having a really hard time at the moment and you need her to quit doing what she is doing.
If you need anything else then you know where my inbox is.
Take care and just think - you may have hit rock bottom, but at least that means the only way is up!
Keep smilin!
Mel
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aww im sorry. you can talk to me if you want but i dont know if itl help! fuck the boyfriend (not literally, like, FUCK YOU more sort of fuck) its not worth it. go to the friends funeral to pay the respect, go put some flowers on your g-pas grave or something, and talk to your cousin about this!! sorry im not much of a help giver but....good luck!
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Break up with your boyfriend, get away from your cousin, and find someone to talk to. A school counselor? Talking and letting everything get off your chest does help. I dont really have any advice, but I'm here and if you need to talk to someone my email is vsgangstaboo420@yahoo.com and my aim is ilinerobsession
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