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grades slipping over a boy
my boyfriend seems like hes my life i cant stop ever thinking about him and i always talkt o him on the phone and on AIM but now my grades are failing and my mom and dad says that if i dont get my grades up my life will be a living hell!!! there really strict on my grades! i dont know what i should do how do i jugle my boyfriend and school? also my friends?!!! also my boyfriend lives right next door thats why i see him so much!! thank you~! <3
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set aside a special time all for him every night, for phone calls, aim, dinner, dates, whatever. but after that slot of time has elapsed, do your homework and all that. two hours a night is plenty of time to see your boyfriend, and if you have extra time after your homework, you can see more of him.
if you get your homework done right after you get home, you can get a whole night's worth of time with him.
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Are your grades slipping a lot? What you need to do is become really strict about what you do. Have you only started going out withthis guy quite recently? You need to set yourself goals and reward yourself for getting to them. For instance, when it comes to work, see if your friends want to get together and do work together after school, then when you've finished the work, and only when you have REALLY finished the work (!) you can go round and see your boyfriend. Remember he is your boyfriend and has chosen you to be his girlfriend. You can spend time with him whenever, but you have to realise that your grades come first. A boyfriend can be flexible, you grades can't.
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k, if your boyfriend comes over almost everyday like mine does, then do your homework before he comes over. do your homework before you do anything having to do with your boyfriend. if you're struggling, ask your teacher for help. last year i was like that with my boyfriend and i did horribly. this year, i'm an honor student w/ a boyfriend. u just gotta stay on top of school.. homework right after school.. and study hard for tests.. hope i've helped :o)
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well try doing your homework with him. have him help you, or study together. but that is a must, you cant keep pushing it off until the last minute and you start dropping your grades in school. school is an important thing, you need it in order to become something in life. so yea try doing your homework/studying with him or just take an hour away from him and get it all done. you know boys aren't your life!! x0
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My advice is to spend more time with school work, and spend the free time you have after completing homework/studying with your boyfriend and friends. School right now has to be the most important thing, sadly, because you dont want to fail out of school and end up working at like Burger King for the rest of your life. Remember, you do have the weekends to devote to your boyfriend :) Hope this helped.
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What I would do is come up with a schedule of some sort! When you get home from school, do your homework, then talk to your friends on the phone, and then spend some time with your boyfriend! In my opinion, friends are more important than boyfriends so make sure you divide your time equally! Since your boyfriend lives right next to you, you don't always have to spend time with him! Take some days off and spend them with friends! You could also study with your boyfriend if you have too! Make sure your schedule is good! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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All you have to do is work out a schedule. Like when you get home, first make sure that you finish all of your homework and studying. Don't rush, either. Then you can spend the rest of your day hanging with your bf and friends.
MySTeRy*GiRL
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