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From angel to whore.
I have a friend. We've been bestfriends for 3 years now. Well lately, we haven't been talking to eachother. She found some new friends, as have I. But I mean, once in a while, we'll talk. But, she's become this total slut. Seriously. She'll makeout with any guy (no matter the age). Plus she cheats on her boyfriend. She also tells everyone that she's gotten drunk/high/fingered/given a blowjob/given a handjob/had sex. Which is so not ture! But everyone at school is thinking she's a whore. I know she doesn't do it. But I have a feeling that she might, someday. She's only 12. But, she does all these crazy things with boys. No one likes her anymore.
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she's doing it for attention. she wants to be noticed and since the most effective way to do so is to get negative attention. try talking to her. tell her that everyone thinks she's a slut. if she doesn't get this talk at twelve, she'll be out of control by 16. save her while ya still have the chance
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okay, shes only 12. shes just looking for the attention from people, shes giving her self a really bad reputation of herself especially at that age. yes, that could happen someday but i'm sure that it hasen't. the best thing you could do is talk to her, have her come over and talk to her about things, if she gets mad at you it would be a good reason because in the end she will figure out that you were right and you were being a good friend to let her know. x0
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talk to her first of all maby she cant see whats shes doing so you should tell her that what she is doing can get her hert or worse
so if that dosent work try to talk to her parents to get them to handle it because she needs your help now if shes gonna be like that
i hope i helped thank u bye
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You need to have a talk with her. If she's your best friend I'm sure she'll listen. Tell her that her behavior is unacceptable for a 12 year old. Tell her she shouldnt make out with guys until she's older, and it should be her boyfriend, and only her boyfriend if she has a boyfriend. Tell her getting drunk/high is stupid choices for her future and are risking her life. Tell her getting fingered/given blowjobs/given handjobs/having sex is a great way to get STD's and pregnant. And if she doesnt listen to you and you geniunly care for her safety, go to her parents (or another trusted adult). They need to know she's saying these illegal things and that your afraid at this rate she might actually start this drugs and sex.
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just talk to her about it...shes way to young to be doing anything like that shes not even 13 ...12 is such a young age to be even talking about any of that...tell her your thoughts about it and tell her that its makeing her have a bad R.E.P...and that she might end up dead somewhere if she is doing any of that stuff and with her being only 12 let he know how bad she is or could be screwing up her life!...shes your friend and you should be a friend to her and help her get through what shes going to tell her to talk to you about it and ask her why is she doing the things that shes doing and tell her that your not trying to be mean to her about anything but maybe those new people shes hanging out with are not good enough for her to be hanging out with them because they are getting her into bad stuff and tell her that its VERY VERY VERY BAD!!!!!!!....ask her what happened to the person she use to be...and if it doesnt work talking to her about it then talk to her parents about it and tell them whats going on and maybe they can either get her help or talk to her about it.
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to me she feels left out and is trying to get attention from people, she wants to be lied by everyone even if it means ying you need to talk to her
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this girl is obviously not so smart on the way she acts but you need to tell her that if she does things like that that later on all the guys will be presuring her into sex and sexual content plus i have a friend that thought that was cool but she was raped and she aint thinking its so cool now!
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I really don't know what you're asking, but what i will say that if your friend wants to lie to get attention then let her. She's craving negitive attention. If you want to help, i suggest talking to her about how you feel or even (since she's only 12) going to her parents and let them know what shes doing. I hope that helped ^_^
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It is because she is hanging out with the wrong group of friends. As you know what she is like it is obvious that it is not in her nature to be like this and you have to let her know. Try talking to her and if that doesn't work send her a letter or email telling her everything. Say that you will be at home or other place at a certain time so she can come and talk to you. You have to make her realise that what she is doing isn't making her look cool,it's just giving her a bad reputation and you can help her get over it.
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my old best friend was just like that. she was 11 when she lost her virginity.. and she's slept with several guys over 18 years old. she has a horrible rep and she's 15 now. everyone calls her jailbait. don't let that happen to ur friend. talk to her and tell her that she needs to stop making herself sound like that, because she's going to regret it. she'll be known as the town whore, and i'm sure that she doesn't want that. sooner or later, she'll get in trouble with the cops. just talk to her, and if she doesn't listen to you, she's not a good friend.. hope i helped :o)
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