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I'm Kelly. I'm 15. And I have experienced a lot in life. I love helping people, so i decided to get one of these a while back. I don't come on a lot, but maybe I will start more often. I also answer questions with honesty, and how i would work things out. I have delt with a lot, and i probably have had a problem similar to yours. So, why not give me a try, and hit me up with a question?! If you want to actually talk to me - feel free to IM me, to ask me a question or just to chat- I'm pretty much always on.

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Is it true that if you don't wear a bra, your boobs get saggy? THanks. Ill rate. Sorry if its in the wrong category.

no its not true. but it looks alot better if you do.
* sorry you didnt like my answer & gave me a 3. is this better - no, its not true. if you dont wear a bra, your boobs will not get saggy.

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when you use AIM on your cell phone, is there a way to read people's away msgs??

thanks!!

the only way is to IM the person. ♥

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okay i have a question. i wnat to get my hair done and its short and think, i want to get the underneath blonde then a full blonde foil with partial pink foil. how much would that normally come up to? i know every place is different but i just want an estimate

uh, id guess around $60 or so.. depending on the place - like you said. try going here [ http://beauty.ivillage.com/hair/color/topics/0,,4t99,00.html ] and theres even a virtual hairstylist on there - which is pretty neat. there alot baout getting your hair done and different styles too.

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14/f
I am in love. I know your probably thinking "A fourteen year old can't be in love!", but i am. Last night it all became clear to me. This is what happened:

There was a dance. I was kinda pissed at my friends for something so I hung around my guy friend who I used to like instead. Of course, we danced and stuff. We slow danced to two songs and grinded to one. As I said before, I used to like him, and then I realized something: I still did. I started liking the person I liked before last night just to get over the one I was dancing with. But the truth is I can't. I feel hot and cold at the same time when I'm with him, happy and sad. When he holds me in his arms I feel safe, like nothing in thee world could possibly happen to me. I want him more than I want anything else.

Now the problem: as far as he has told me, he likes my friend. He told me last night before we got really close. I think he still does. Now everyone, even teachers, think we are/should go out. And I want to but I don't know if he does. What do I do? Sorry, this was long.

because of the fact you "love" him - you should be able to talk to him about it. the person you love should also be your best friend and you should be able to tell him everything and anything. so tell him how you feel. but if your scared or insecure about it - then have a frined or something ask him what he thinks about you or other people. flirt with him alot - to let him know your interested too. oh, ang good luck

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so my prom is in 9 days, saturday april 22nd. i just got a cold sore today, i've been putting carmex on it and its not getting bigger but does anyone know any quick fixes?

thx!

Try applying ice or warm compresses to the blisters to ease the pain. also let it heal.. avoid sqeezing or pinching - it will only make it worse. use any over the counter creams or anything.

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Prom is coming up! And I am not starting to break out! How can I get these pimples gone quickly?

things you can do - 1) try proactive, oxy pads or clearasil max. 2) try reducing the fried foods in your diet. 3) the sugary crap too. 4) try minimizing the stress level in your life. 5) avoid getting sunburned - but sun is good. just not too much. 6) wash your face twice a day no matter what - with a gentle soap [ maybe dove or lever 2000 ]. 7) only wear makeup on special occasions or when you have to.. then take it off as soon as you can. 8) if you use a facial scrub watch out - because sometimes it makes it worse by aggrivating the skin. 9) whatever you do - dont pick/ squeeze/ scratch/ rub them. it gets even MORE oil on your face and could cause scabs [gross] or even scars.

for more information on what acne is or what causes it go here [http://www.free-beauty-tips.com/acne.html] or here[http://hcd2.bupa.co.uk/fact_sheets/Mosby_factsheets/acne.html] and how to get rid of it go here [http://www.acne-advice.com/articles/top_ten_tips.shtml] or here[http://www.free-beauty-tips.com/getridofpimples.html].

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When I rate people, I generally give all 5s, maybe a 4 or 2, and a 1 if someone is completely rude or didnt answer the question. Well..Let's say I ask a question and I get 5 answers. One of them is horrible, so it gets a 1 rating. The second is okay but kinda bad, so a 3 or 4. The next 2 answered the question and werent jerks, but the 5th wrote a 5 paragraph answer and included links to websites and personal experiences, etc. Should I rate the the 3rd and 4th people 5's like the 5th person, or should I give them fours because there was a better answer?

NOTE--Im rating all fives on this question no matter what

ususally what i do is if i can tell that someone put alot some thought into my question and their answer then i give them a 5 - whether it helped me or not.

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okay so im going to prom in a month from tomorrow. i was wondering if theres any good websites with one of a kind dresses. doesnt nessessarily need to say PROM DRESS. dresses alone are fine. 5's for who can name a few.
thanks so much!

also.. no macy's godshalks etc..
random websites people wouldnt really come across =]

maybe try these sites :
http://www.prom-dresses.com/prom-dresses1.html ,
http://shopshop.com/Prom_Dresses1.htm ,
http://www.bestpromdresses.com/cache/shop_catalog_jsp.html ,
http://www.loralie.com/Merchant2/merchant.mvc?Screen=CTGY&Category_Code=DR ,
http://www.bargainweddinggowns.com/ ,
http://www.cbslimited.com/ ,
http://fashion.about.com/od/specialoccasions/ss/partyperfect.htm

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I REALLY like this guy. The problem? he dated my sister earlier this year. She broke up with him, so the problem isnt hurting my sister, the problem is that this just seems wrong. I dont know what to do, because he is SO nice, and sort of seems like he might be into me, but is this whole situation just too messed up to get anywhere near it?

personally, i dont have a sister. but i think that it would be best if you talked to her about it. just make sure she really could careless. or put yourself in her shoes. how would you feel if you dated him earlier and she was completely interested in him? .. maybe you wanna ask yourself like that. but if she your sister could forreal careless - then i dont see anything wrong with it. but i'd go to her first and talk to her about it before you make any moves with him.. oh, and try not to think of him as your sisters ex [that will just make it super awkward] - just think of him as "bob" or whatever his name is.

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Okay so I've got these horrible cramps. (hello -time of the month-) Is there any way to make them go away? I don't have any medicine to take. I can't go to the store. I tried putting a pillow on my stomach but the pain got worse. It feels like I'm going to puke. Is there anything I can do?

midol teen formula [amazing]. also try using a heating pad. or if you dont have one then put some uncooked rice into a sock and heat it for a little. it works wonders.. may sound silly - but hey! it works.

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I need to get more inshape. And be able to run longer distances in shorter times. Any suggestions?

heres some tips for you :
One, open your feet more. like the whole leg, from the thighs. two, breath through your nose. three, begin with a sprint and keep it for as long as possible, four, if you get comfortable during your run, push more (go faster). five, plenty of fluids at least half an hour before. six, sing a song in your head to act as a distraction. seven, sprint the final hundred meters. eight, Don't look back. nine, never stop for a break, if you feel really tired, still continue as a slow jog (anything is better than walking). ten, strecthes my friend, strecthes

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I'm 13, 5"1.5 and 90 lbs. I know I'm fairly thin, but the muscles around my stomach are rather soft and flabby. Does anyone know of any exercises that might tighten up my stomach muscles a bit? I'm not talking 6-pack abs or anything....

do crunches. or use an workout ball and do situps. start little and grow a little at a time.

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What are some exercises to build muscle and get rid of fat in your high thighs, and the fat where your bra strap is near your arm pit? lol thanks!!I rate 5's!!

high thighs - squats and lunges.
arm pit flab - pushups and curls.
just go here : [http://toneteen.com/pages/fitness.htm] and click where you want to change. and it brings up alot of options for you to do.

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Are we in the twenty-first century? Is it from 2000 to 3000 or 2001 to 3000 or what? I don’t understand the century things.

21st century began in 2001. go here [ http://aa.usno.navy.mil/faq/docs/millennium.html ] it explains it all.

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Well I used to use photobucket to upload my pics, but everytime after I sign in and try to click on my pics it restarts my computer.What does that mean? How can I fix it? If I can't what is another site I can go to so I can upload my pics? Please & Thanks!

try these - they are similar to photobucket:
tinypic.com ,
imageshack.us ,
imagehostingonline.com ,
picturetrail.com ,
imagehosting.us .

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Does anyone know where I can post on my livejournal:Friends Only? Thanks.

when your updating your journal.. at the bottom where it asks like music and stuff it also says security. click the drop down arrow and click friends. then only your friends can see it. do that for every update then they are all friends only. private means just for your eyes. ♥

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I was wondering if there was anyway to find out someones email address just from their AIM name? I already looked at their directory info and they dont have any and it isnt an aol name...

AIMSCREENNAMEHERE@aim.com ♥

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On MySpace, theres a lot of people that have pictures of random things as there caption (instead of it saying ME or something.)

I was wondering if anyone knew how to do that? And don't say go to photobucket and use the TAG code, because I've tried that and the HTML code is too long.

Any suggestions?

use tinypic.com. its way smaller. ♥

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how do make another user on your computer and put a password on it? i want to make my own and my parents one how can i do that?

To make a new account : start-> control panel-> User Accounts-> Create a new account.. then follow the steps.

And to make a password on an existing account : start-> control panel-> user accounts-> change an account [under "pick a task"]-> click the account-> create password

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how do people make spades on the internet. like on myspace or aim?

&spades*;

But take away the *, so it will look like this : ♠

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