14/f
I am in love. I know your probably thinking "A fourteen year old can't be in love!", but i am. Last night it all became clear to me. This is what happened:
There was a dance. I was kinda pissed at my friends for something so I hung around my guy friend who I used to like instead. Of course, we danced and stuff. We slow danced to two songs and grinded to one. As I said before, I used to like him, and then I realized something: I still did. I started liking the person I liked before last night just to get over the one I was dancing with. But the truth is I can't. I feel hot and cold at the same time when I'm with him, happy and sad. When he holds me in his arms I feel safe, like nothing in thee world could possibly happen to me. I want him more than I want anything else.
Now the problem: as far as he has told me, he likes my friend. He told me last night before we got really close. I think he still does. Now everyone, even teachers, think we are/should go out. And I want to but I don't know if he does. What do I do? Sorry, this was long.
illLuvUbetterx3 answered Sunday April 23 2006, 1:47 pm: i think you should ask him if he has any feelings for you.. tell him how you feel..its not worth waiting..you have to take the chance<333
XxSeXxIiBoSaNkAxX answered Saturday April 22 2006, 2:37 pm: well i think that you should tell him how u feel in a note or talk to him in person when no one is around or call him and talk to him and if he doesnt feel the same way about you then get over him its not worth it you might think that you cant get over him but after a while you will its only puppy love ive been threw it and im still going threw it so i know how it feels so like i said just talk to him and see what happeneds it might come out the way you want it to
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NinjaNeer answered Saturday April 22 2006, 12:09 pm: I hate to burst your bubble, but you're not in love. You're infatuated, but not in love.
Love is something that develops over time, it's a mature feeling. I know it's hard to believe, but you just don't grow it in a day or two!
There is always potential though. Tell him you're interested in him, see if he feels the same way. Don't tell him you love him, because that'll just send him running! If he is interested, date for a while, and see what happens :) [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
KELLY_ELIZABETH answered Saturday April 22 2006, 10:52 am: because of the fact you "love" him - you should be able to talk to him about it. the person you love should also be your best friend and you should be able to tell him everything and anything. so tell him how you feel. but if your scared or insecure about it - then have a frined or something ask him what he thinks about you or other people. flirt with him alot - to let him know your interested too. oh, ang good luck
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