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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

ok...my boyfriend is moving 13 miles away from me and he is going to be going to a different school and i trust him and love him with all my heart and life and all but im afraid that we are going to slowly stop talking then we are never going to see each other again. should i break up with him now and save both of us or just one of us the grief or should i stay with him and try real hard to keep intouch what should i do?

Thats not far away at all. You can still talk to him on the phone and online all the time. Go places with him everyday. If he loves you then you got nothing to worry about. x0

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ok so i like this guy ALOT we hold hands at school and are togteher all the time. he likes me alot too. hes so sweet. but we BOTH jsut got out of long relationships and don't want a relationship right now. but its practically like we are going out. and EVERYONE is asking BOTH of us.. "do you like her??" "do you like him??" "i heard u like him..are you going out!?" like seriously soo much people...people i barely even KNOW..its getting soo annoying. i usualy just say yea i do...but its getting super annoying. how can this stop..i dont want to be rude or make it seem like i dont like him but people need to mind their own freaking business!

Next time someone asks you just ignore them. Be like its none of your buisness and if we are I`ll let ya know. I hate people like that to but you gotta tell them to fuck off and to mind their own buisness. x0

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hi im 15 and i have long hair, like every other guy at school. but it looks really bad, like its always messed up when i wake up. it looks good with a hat on, but without nething..*twitch* ne ideas to what i can do to make it look good in like 5-10 minutes? thx

Yes! Dude straighten your hair. When you do flip it out on the ends. You might think its weird for guys to straighten hair but its not a lot of guys do it. x0

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I have very dry skin and I was wondering if anyone knew of a really good body scrub that is fragrance free?? I have very sensitive skin and I can't use anything that has ANY kind of fragrance!! Thanks!! :)

Use Clean and Clear scrubs or Nutregena. It works. x0

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There's this guy that I like, and everyone thinks that we like each other. Everytime someone asks me if we like each other, I say no, but I really do. We both know that everyone thinks we like each other, but I don't know if he likes me or not. Everyone thinks he does though. How should I fix this? I'm 14/Female

You will never know if he likes you unless you ask him or one of your or his friends does. Stop saying no. Just admit that you like him since people can already tell so dont lie about it. x0

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Keenan was an 8th grader last year and i was a 7ie. We were good friends and were both really good singers. Anyway, this year he is in 9th now. Well i had to do a solo for a choir concert so i asked him if he would do a song with me. We got permission from my director and started to practice. Now that the song has progressed i think im starting to like him. He is the sweetest thing in the world. The problem is i wont be going to his school for another 4 months. I really like him and i think he likes me. My question...... should i risk telling him how i feel?
thnx!

If you think he likes you then go for it and tell hi m how you feel. Nothing bad can happen about that. x0

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This has probably been asked a million times, but me and my friend like the same guy. She doesn't know I like him, but I overheard her telling someone else about how she REALLY liked him... but the problem is, so do I. He doesn't know that either of us like him, and I don't want her to tell him, because I really like him too, but she's known him longer, so they're better friends. I know this sounds selfish, but I want him to myself, lol. I don't want her to get mad at me, though. I know everyone says "pick your friend over the boyfriend" but is there any way to compromise?

Tell her. You cant help if you like someone and your friend to. Hes not hers and if she gets mad then thats bull. She dont own him so he can go out wiht who ever he wants and so can you. Just tell her that you always liked him. You should let her know. x0

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well see i go camping with my grandparents.. and i really wanna bring my boyfriend along one time but its kinda the time i get to spend with my grandmother.. how do u think i could ask her to bring him?

Just be like hey grandma can I please bring my boyfriend this time? It shouldnt be a big deal and you can still spend time with her. x0

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i really like my friend and i poured my heart out to him (after we told him i liked him 3 months earlier!) and he goes oh you still like me???? and so it was awkward for a while but hes been liek more normal anyway like this week is spring break and he hasnt been on so i went on an old sn and he WAS on so i found out HE BLOCKED ME!!!! i am so upset right now and i keep trying to get over him..please help me what to dO?!?! i am 14 female--hes 14 male

Maybe he doesnt know that he blocked you. I exidently block people and dont even know. Go on your old s/n and just say hey. See if he is mad at you and just be like hey did you block me on the other s/n or what? x0

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Okay.. I will admit.. i'm a stoner.. I like drugs.. I'm just starting to wonder what these drugs will actually do to me in the long run. If you can get me any sites or information on the drugs listed .. Please tell me... I rate high

1. Cigarettes
2. Marijuana
3. Crack/ coke
4. Acid
5. Meth

I dont know anysites and go ahead and rate me low or whatever but seriously dont do it. You might like it but dude .. it freakin kills you. You might not think it does right now because you are all fine but keep doing it and when you get a little older it will be too late. It destroys your lungs and so much other sh*t! If you wanna know more then just go to google.com and search for it. I wasnt trying to be mean or anything tho. x0

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OKay well i just got myself into a lot of trouble with my parents... see i got a cell phone last year and i was text messaging and got charged a lot of money. well they tol me not to do it and i did it again... and yet again they told me to stop. well today they approached me and found out i had sent over 100$ worth for last month. i apoligized... but im grounded til school is let out... they guy i like just asked me out yesterday so im kinda in a bad situationi called hima nd told him and he seemed cool with it... but #1 how can i keep from losing him? (bc like all we ever did was text) and #2 what are some ways i can apoligize tio my parents? thanks--i rate!!

o0 wow! You should of stopped but it would be hard for me too. If that guy understnads then just go out with him. You can still talk on the phone with him and see him at school and stuff. Tell your parents that you are really sorry and that you seriously didnt mean to even tho they told you not to. Dont argue with them because that just gets you in bigger trouble. x0

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There's this guy that I like alot, but we never talk or anything at school. I', not sure if he likes me or not, but I think he might cause we always make eye contact in the halls. But anyway, my question is, I found out that he has a screenname, and my friend said I should im him, but I don't know what to say, because I never talk to him, so I don't want him to think I'm weird or something. So,how do I start out when I im him? Sorry so long! Thanks for your help! I RATE 5'S for nice advice!

First of all, dont be shy! Just IM him and be like hey dude!! Hows it goin!? And then at school just go up to him and give him a high five! Its flirting and a sign that you arent shy and that you like to have fun. Trust me he will like that and he defenetly wont think that you are a freak or something. x0

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hey im a 14 year old guy..ok theres this girl who lives in a different city who i met thru some friends who i LOVE! she is so aweosme! and she loves me too, which is great. but theres a girl at my school who really likes me and i kinda like her..and i might want to ask her out in the summer, but i wouldnt be able to flirt with the girl i love and she'd never forgive me or trust me again. but its hard cuz the long distance, even tho i visit her a few times a year. should i ask the girl at my school out or stick with the girl i love? i rate high for good advice

Defenetly the one you love. You just have a crush on that other girl but you love this other girl. Dont let her go because its hard to find someone you can love. If it doesnt work out with her you can always go back to the girl you like. x0

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my father abuses me what should i do

Tell someone. If you dont it will keep going on. Tell a counslor,mom,teacher someone. x0

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i like this guy and he is sweet, attractive, and is so nice. He's funny and tall. One problem, got a girlfriend. He is so sweet tho and he pays more attention to me then his gf even tho i'm only his friend. Too bad his gf is my friend but not a really good one. He always flirts with me and i flirt back but is this ok?

Sure its okay! But its not good that he is treating his girlfriend like that but still. You cant blame him for flirting with you. If she isnt a really good friend of yours then go ahead flirt back. Nothing will happen. To me it seems like he likes you. x0

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i dont no whats going on with me i thinking about cutting nd running away.do i have problems? should i see some1? anyone no ne more?

i rate high

Well, a lot of people go through that stuff. Are you having issues with your family or friends. If you start cutting then you are depressed and you do need to see a counslor or someone. Seriously dont even think about cutting. Its not worth it at all! All it does it leave marks on your skin that never go away. You might think it solves things but it doesnt. Look again it wont make things better and you will still deal with that problem. Dont run away. Where would you go? People love you so dont hurt them by doing any of those things. x0

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what can drugs do to u?

Hm.. Depends on the drug. But it can kill you,cancer,yellow teeth and you stink from them. x0

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well...tomorrow me n some of my friends might make a movie. well what are some ideas we could do for a movie? thanks ill rate 5!!!

Fun Fun!! Do something fun and that all of you can remember! Dress up and do fun stuff. It all depends on what you guys are really interested in... x0

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The boy i like might just be going with this girl i know and was friends with .See, this boy used to be my BFF , and he used to like me in the past. I'm not sure if he still does like me..Now, he wont talk to me.. What should i do ? my heart is broken!

Still, just talk to him again and ask why he wont talk to you. He might be mad at you for something. Did you do anything or ..Ask one of his friends if they know why he is acting like that. x0

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what do i do if the guy i went out with 4 like a long time get pissed cuz i liek some 1 new and he started makin numurs about me that im prude? i never did n e thing to him but go out with him! wtf! i hate EVERY BOY! there jackassed with no hears!

I know! Most guys are jackasses and they dont know how the freak the girl feels. He is just jelous and I know it. You can soo tell! Hes mad because you dont like him. He just wanted you to like him forever and he thought that he could get you when ever he wanted but he is wrong. You arent prude and acually he is! It took him 4 months. Who cares what he says. No one belives him but his little friends and they are gay. He wants to get back at you because you broke up with him. Haha! What a loster! Dont let him know that it bothers you because he will do it more on purpose! Just like someone I know.. *caugh caugh* l0l ! But not everyboy is a jackass... most of them are.. just like this one boy I know.. Hmm! Love ya! x0

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