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who to chose?
hey im a 14 year old guy..ok theres this girl who lives in a different city who i met thru some friends who i LOVE! she is so aweosme! and she loves me too, which is great. but theres a girl at my school who really likes me and i kinda like her..and i might want to ask her out in the summer, but i wouldnt be able to flirt with the girl i love and she'd never forgive me or trust me again. but its hard cuz the long distance, even tho i visit her a few times a year. should i ask the girl at my school out or stick with the girl i love? i rate high for good advice
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Go withlove. follow your heart. I KNOW I SOUND SOOO OLDSCHOOL, but it really does work. U love this girl. When it's love, it doesn't matter the distance. Plus, that way, when you see eachother, there will be more of a connection. PUT ME ON U'RE FRIENDS LIST AND TELL ME IF IT WORKS
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You should definitely go with the girl that you love, even if she lives in a different city.... Asking the girl from your school out in the summer wouldn't be worth that other girl that you love not being able to trust you or forgive you. Maybe you and the girl that lives farther away should try to see each other more. I am just gonna say that who you love more is more important than how far away they are.
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I ask of you one thing as a women . . please dont say that you love her without really feeling it! love is such a strong word and shouldnt be used if you dont mean it! im not saying that you dont but as i see it if you do then why would you ever even think about going out with another girl. If you truely loved her you wouldn't even see yourself going out with another girl. another thing is your young only 14 you have your whole life ahead of you. More girls to pick from and so on. But the real question you should ask yourself is do i really love her? if you do. And i mean really do then stick with her. Love is such a beautiful thing and if there is love theres never an end.
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go with the girl at school..
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Defenetly the one you love. You just have a crush on that other girl but you love this other girl. Dont let her go because its hard to find someone you can love. If it doesnt work out with her you can always go back to the girl you like. x0
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Never leave the one you love for the one you like. One day the one you like will leave you for the one she loves...
♥ Maria
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Ok, 1. NO 14 year old falls inlove...alot of people have no clue what love is, Its just puppy love. Plus, if youve never even seen her in person you cant love her..thats just nieve. Look kid, go with the one you know, youre just going through puberty. Im not being mean im being honest. Plus guys your age should be looking for a girl friend, not a life partner..jesus you cant even drink for another 7 years...just wait kid, youre acting older than you are.
-parker
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you know you n me are not to different. Only im on the side of the girl you love. My boyfriend of 3 yrs goes to a different school and i only see him roughly 5 times a year. We work well. He knows how you feel. Its hard not to have someone to hold everyday, but you gotta do it. tell the girl you love. no one likes to be in the dark. you wont feel bad about it, in fact you might actually feel better!!! Good luck!
~texas~
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You should stick with the girl you love. Scince she loves you to thats great..and you guys should go out.Just talk on the phone alot. hope i helped
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My advice.
Don't leave someone you love for someone you like, because they'll eventually leave you for the person they love.
Hope I helped some -
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You will be able to see the girl at your school more. Maybe you should just stay good friends with the girl in the other city for now. When you get a DL and a car...then you can persue the other girl if you still want to. Nothing wrong with being friends with her. By the time you can drive your friendship with her will be solid, unless you find another before that. :)
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what do you think? come on, seriously think about it.. love over lust? i think you should stick with the love mate.. but if you are even having these thoughts.. i think you should sit down and seriously think.. is it love.. or just infatuation?
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I was in an odd long distance thing myself..and they are really hard to keep going! I even knew a couple frends who were seeing guys from the next town over (20 mins away ) and had a hard time with that! I would go with the girl at your school..keep an open mind..you might become close with her and form a deep relationship..tell the long distance girl that if she was in your school or closer..theres no doubt she would be the one..but its best for both of you to date people in your own school..because long distance is really hard. If its meant to be, you and the long distance girl will get together somehow....
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