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I did not write the book of love,
and I do not claim to be full of wisdom.

I sure do make mistakes,
but I live and learn!

I try to let no one come to me,
without leaving happier. [:



"Exert your talents,
and distinguish yourself.
Don't even think about
retiring from the World,
until the World will be
sorry that you retire!"



advice

♥[?]♥ School is starting soon as you might know. I'm thinking of getting a new look. Maybe guyish. Like the whole Dickies and big shirt thing. I have black hair, green eyes, I'm 5'7..No real "label" But I also dont want to be called a "poser" So yeah.
This is not a question?? And I've alReady answeRed this... =D Thanks foR stoppin' by?

♥[?]♥ Hey.. well i fell in love with my best friend.. and we went out and before we went out I told him that i really wasnt sure about going out with him cuz i didnt want to jeperdize the friendship, and he promised me that he would always talk to me if/when we break up, cuz i used to talk to him ALL the time 24/7 litterally.. i fell asleep on the phone wit him once.. well we both did.. and i tell him EVERYTHING.. and still do.. and so then i believed him and i trusted him, and we went out for about a month it would b 2 next week.. and i went on for a vacation last week for 1 week and i got back this saturday (aug 1st or something) and we were at the highest point in the relationship.. and on monday we broke up.. he dumped me.. because he started liking the Amanda girl... and i really dont get it, if he LIKES her.. but he LOVES me.. shouldnt he b wit me? i dont get it... and now we BARLY talk.. and if we do its just like the normal convo.. or we fight... and i really dont want to.. i just end up telling him how i feel about him, me, or us.. and now he either ignores me, my messages (for aim), my texts, or my phonecalls... i really dont know what to do.. cuz i still reallly* like him.. and im all confuesed on how i like him.. like i know hes a free person and he should like who he wants and that there was 2 ppl in the relationship not just me and i cant get everything i want, soo please help me.. ill rate ne1! Sry that its sooo long.. Thank you..
|[...haha.. two yeaRs lateR I finish Reading the question! =D]| PeRsonally, I always say if you love two... you don't love eitheR one enough. When you'Re in a Relationship with someone, they should come along and sweep you off youR feet! They shouldn't like anyone else because no one else could even come close to compaRing! So peRhaps if he has to Run off with some ho, it's a sign that it wasn't "meant to be". And if you two aRe Really such gReat fRiends, I'd assume he'd gRow up pRettie soon and staRt handling the situation like a man.. and stop ignoRing you. If he feels he needs to be with someone then theRe is no point in chasing afteR him. You don't want someone who is only going to be half dedicated to you -- that's not faiR. My advice to you is to move on. TRy to keep youR fRiendship with him, and woRk on building it to wheRe it used to be, but foRget about dating him. Hopefully he'll gRow up -- most people tend to do that, but no pRomises. I'm soRRie I can't be of moRe help! I do wish you the best of luck! Hopefully things woRk out! Keep youR head up! =D

♥[?]♥ am i fat
Since you didn't leave any details, I can't accuRately answeR youR question. I think as long as you FEEL good.. you LOOK good! =D

♥[?]♥ hey...well i went 2 Manteca Water SLides today with my older sis...my brother-in-law has a nephew..hes 2 years older than me..i like him..well i think hes cute!!..nd he braught a friend with him 2 the waterslides today...his name is David..hes 2 years older than me too..(15)..well aktualie i juss turned 14!!..but anyways we had a great time today! we just kept on laffin..flirting! and i really like him!..nd i hope he lieks me too!..but were going 2 the movies 2marroe..and i just hope he goes!!...my sis...nephew and brother-i-l...got tha point i like him..but i mean...i really want him 2 go 2marroe..i want his number! i wanna make out with him!!..lol..sumone give me advice!!
How 'bout you just ask him to go to the movies with you? And peRhaps you should save the making out foR when you two know each otheR and least a little bit better! Hope I helped! Hopefully things woRk out foR you! =D

♥[?]♥ some guy at school well at his old school i really like him does he like me? or does he just want to be friends
Well without the details it's haRd foR me to thRow my two cents in, so soRRie, but I can't give you answeR. Why don'tchu tell him how you feel and judge by his Response.. Goodluck!

♥[?]♥ what do u put in potatoe salad and how do u make it?
Uhm. I'm not shoRe? TRy the MaRtha StewaRt website foR the Recipe?? SoRRie I can't be of moRe help! I wish you the best of luck though! =D

♥[?]♥ Hey i was wondering (ne one can answer this) what are some good types of make up? like eye shadow? eyeliner? mascara? lipgloss? lipgloss that tastes good? and if you could put a price and where you got it.. i would highly appreciate it.. thank you!
Hey! EYE SHADOW -- just anything Really!! EYELINER -- "MeRyl NoRman" oR "Beatique" "MeRyl NoRman" is a bit pRicey... but "Beatique" is only 99 cents!! It's extRemely cheap, but I pRefeR it oveR ANY OTHER EYELINER!! It stays on alllllllll day!!! I think those two aRe the best pRoducts out theRe!! They woRk incRedibly!! I can NOT pRomote them enough!!! MASCARA -- It just depends on what soRt of look you'Re going foR! Do you want to give the appeaRance of longeR lashes? Do you want to give the appeaRance of thickeR and fulleR lashes? Do you want to give the appeaRance of cuRly lashes? It just depends on what you want, but I use "Maybelline's Sky High CuRves" and I LOVE it!!! And that's about $4.00 And as foR LIP GLOSS... anything pRettie much!! And you can find all of these at Wal-GReens, EckeRd, Wal-MaRt and so on. HoweveR, I've *neveR* seen "Beautique" eyelineR anywheRe but Sally's!! I hope I helped! Come back to me if you eveR need anything else! Take caRe, and Goodluck!! =D

♥[?]♥ how can u tell if ur a good kisser or do sumin bout it if u r kuz i dont want my bf sayin stuff now or after we brake^((i kno this sounds really gay but...))
Ask him? Guys ask us all the time.. so ask him! Hope I helped!

♥[?]♥ Hey I'd just like to say to everyone that when people are asking a serious question do you have too be so sarcastic and tell them to kill themselfs?? This is a help sight not somthing to be rude about. Is there anyway people who say things like that can be stoped?
Yep. ModeRatoRs can ban them, and their answeRs can be deleted |[I believe?]|

♥[?]♥ Can having sex and being sexually active set your period back? This may be a stupid question but i've heard from people that it can..?
Get youR peRiod back?? That makes no sense? PeRhaps they just bleed foR a day afteR sex? That's noRmal..

♥[?]♥ I just asked you about the room color and thanks a lot but, what about a bright green or a lighter pink with the dark pink stars?
Uhm.. I wouldn't say bRight gReen.. but a light pink with daRkeR pink staRs would look hot!! I'd say go with that?? I don't know.. it's all up to you! It's youR Room!

♥[?]♥ alright. I have had a problem with having sex..to much. 10 guys but a lot of times. I'm only 15 and I know its being to easy. I'm TRYING my hardest to not have sex. Give me some hints or clues to stop thinking about it, if you can. thanks!
Haha! Stop thinking about sex??? I think I need help with that too! Uhm, I wouldn't say thinking about sex is such a bad thing, unless it inteRfeRes with youR Responsibilities. And as faR as the sex with guys.. uhm.. I don't know?? TRy not to have sex with someone you aRen't dating. And neveR Rush into it! Even if you think you've found the "Right guy" oR the one you'll be with foReveR.. if that weRe tRue.. theRe shouldn't be any huRRie to have sex Right off the bat because you KNOW he will always be theRe! I know it can be haRd, but just neveR be afRaid to say no, and neveR let anyone pRessuRe you into doing something you don't want to do! If you want some things to keep you busy, tRy joinging some clubs, since school is staRting soon... Hopefully I helped! Take caRe, and feel fRee to come back with moRe questions, thanks!

♥[?]♥ OK*
I just met this guy about 2 days ago and we have been talkin together and hangin out with each other alot. I lyk him and I know alot about him. But, he asked me out today and I told him I would think about it. Should I try and get to know him better... or should I say yes?

Thanks,
.:*MagIclyDeLish88*:.
Say yes!! You can get to know him while ya'll aRe dating! =D

♥[?]♥ I need some suggestions on another color to paint my room. It's Poo green right now, because I thought it would have been lighter till it dried. I want to have dark pink sponge stars along the boarders of my room but I have no idea what color. Any suggestions?
Hmm.. Poo gReen?? Yeah, that's no good. Uhm.. it's kind of haRd foR me to tell you what coloR to paint youR Room. It's gotta match youR fuRnituRe somewhat, ya know?? How about a light puRple.. a bit daRker than lavandeR, but don't go to Royal puRple. That'd look cute with baby pink staRs! I don't know.. I'm soRRie I can't help ya moRe.. you'd pRobably know betteR than I would! I'm shoRe whateveR ya do it'll look gReat! Best of luck! Thanks foR the question! Come back if you eveR need anything else! =D

♥[?]♥ How can i get a job baby sitting? i already am sertified by the red cross im 12 and i love kids and i need money!!
Ask youR paRents to put in a good woRd foR you with theiR co-woRkeRs, and tRy posting up flyeRs at youR local candy stoRes and gRoceRy stoRes! That should rake in the business. Also, tRy asking family fRiends and neaR by neighbors! Goodluck! Hope I helped!

♥[?]♥ ok i just dyed my hair dark brown and it looks almost black and i was wondering of some cute wys to do my makeup so it doesnt look bad it is a rly big change and i dont kno what to do!!
AfteR you dye youR hair it looks Really daRk. Give it two days and it should be the coloR it's supposed to be. And I would suggest lots of black eye lineR? Goodluck! =D

♥[?]♥ Okay my really good friend "Bubbles" and I always use to hang out EVERY weekend. It's been about 3 weeks that we haven't so I'm worried our friendship is going down hill. I call her everyday to see if she can spend the night, either she doesnt answer unless I call blocked, or she has ANOTHER reason not too also "bubbles" says that she'll call me back asap but NEVER does. Is she ignoring me or just busy?..or something else?
Aww! That's so sad!! I'm soRRie! I'd guess youR best fRiend would have no Reason to ignoRe you, but you say when you call fRom a blocked numbeR she'll pick up?? Hmm, it does sound like she's avoiding you. You should pRobably confRont heR on it! I'm soRRie I can't be of moRe help, although, I do wish you the best of luck! Thanks foR the question! Lemme know if you need anything else! =D

♥[?]♥ ive been goin out with this girl for over a month now. i havnt talked to her in like 4 days and everytime i try to she never answers and i send her messages and she dosnt get em
ive evan tried talkin to her but she won't talk back
what should i do?!?!?!?

(i really like her so much)
Uhm.. go oveR theRe? I don't know.. I can't be in a Relationship if I can't get 100% devotion back! SoRRie, but I hope things woRk out!!

♥[?]♥ ok i have a bf and everythang and he sed if he did sumin 4 me i wuld have to kiss him tha next time we see each and i dont wanna kiss him right now enwayz so wut should i do..??
Dude.. flat out tell him. I don't kiss guys.. EVER!!!!! I just skip that "base". I make shoRe that eveRy guy I go out with knows I don't like to kiss. That way, if he tRies to kiss me and gets socked in the jaw |[this has happened many a time]|... he would have deseRved it, because he knew betteR! The way I see it, if a guy can't Respect how I feel... then he can't Respect me, and you don't need him! Hope I helped! =D

♥[?]♥ ok...in my advice column...there were lot of ppl rating me..n da number was 144 n then it went to 133...n now its in 96...how can dat go down like dat?!?!?! hmmmmm =/
Magic? I don't know.. aRe you deleting youR answeRs? That could be why, but if not.. I Really don't know what to tell you. I believe that's a common pRoblem though! I hope you figuRe things out! Take caRe!! =D


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