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Hey.. well i fell in love with my best friend.. and we went out and before we went out I told him that i really wasnt sure about going out with him cuz i didnt want to jeperdize the friendship, and he promised me that he would always talk to me if/when we break up, cuz i used to talk to him ALL the time 24/7 litterally.. i fell asleep on the phone wit him once.. well we both did.. and i tell him EVERYTHING.. and still do.. and so then i believed him and i trusted him, and we went out for about a month it would b 2 next week.. and i went on for a vacation last week for 1 week and i got back this saturday (aug 1st or something) and we were at the highest point in the relationship.. and on monday we broke up.. he dumped me.. because he started liking the Amanda girl... and i really dont get it, if he LIKES her.. but he LOVES me.. shouldnt he b wit me? i dont get it... and now we BARLY talk.. and if we do its just like the normal convo.. or we fight... and i really dont want to.. i just end up telling him how i feel about him, me, or us.. and now he either ignores me, my messages (for aim), my texts, or my phonecalls... i really dont know what to do.. cuz i still reallly* like him.. and im all confuesed on how i like him.. like i know hes a free person and he should like who he wants and that there was 2 ppl in the relationship not just me and i cant get everything i want, soo please help me.. ill rate ne1! Sry that its sooo long.. Thank you..
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Hmm.. Well this situation totally sucks. But I mean, Maybe y'all are meant to be just friends... Guys can be the hardest thing to pullinto a serious realtionship... Exspecially at a young age... So I would give it time... Forget the boyfriend and girlfriend realtionship... And build back up your friendship... As JUST JUST JUST friends... Seriously, Let him go off and see these other gurls... But when he realizes what he missed out on he'll be like... 'dang'... Maybe one day when he seriously commits to you... Then, Yall will work... IF you have any questions, comments, concerns... Feel free to talk to me! Best wishes :)
-Britty-
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Yeah it does sound like he cant make up his mind like his heart is telling him different things i think that you should just go over to his house one day and totally confront him and tell him out you feel cause by just reading this your head over heels for him...GooD luck
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It sounds like this guy you're involved with is confused about who he likes. That's tough on you as the recepient, but all you can really do is give him time and space to work it out himself. I know your reaction is to call him lots and try and talk things through so you can get some kind of closure on the relationship, or at least know what's going on, but if he's confused about his feelings badgering him might just make him push away further. Try being on your own for a bit - if he comes to the conclusion that he does in fact still love you, then you can give the relationship another chance, and if not, hopefully you showing him and his new girlfriend respect and understanding in an akward situation will mean that you can get back to being friends again. Good luck!
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|[...haha.. two yeaRs lateR I finish Reading the question! =D]| PeRsonally, I always say if you love two... you don't love eitheR one enough. When you'Re in a Relationship with someone, they should come along and sweep you off youR feet! They shouldn't like anyone else because no one else could even come close to compaRing! So peRhaps if he has to Run off with some ho, it's a sign that it wasn't "meant to be". And if you two aRe Really such gReat fRiends, I'd assume he'd gRow up pRettie soon and staRt handling the situation like a man.. and stop ignoRing you. If he feels he needs to be with someone then theRe is no point in chasing afteR him. You don't want someone who is only going to be half dedicated to you -- that's not faiR. My advice to you is to move on. TRy to keep youR fRiendship with him, and woRk on building it to wheRe it used to be, but foRget about dating him. Hopefully he'll gRow up -- most people tend to do that, but no pRomises. I'm soRRie I can't be of moRe help! I do wish you the best of luck! Hopefully things woRk out! Keep youR head up! =D
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