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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

okay.. so theres this guy i like
and i want to make him a cd..
but
all my cds are at my moms house..
is there a way to take songs from my ipod
and put them on a computer so that i can create a cd?
i just want the songs that are on my ipod. and not using itunes..
please help me

You can't burn a CD without an actual CD to burn the music onto. It's impossible. Just wait unitl you go to your mom's house & grab some cd's.

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i have this pain at the back of my head on the lower right side. its like right were my hairline stops. im 16. and its giving me the biggest headache. i took 2 aspirins today but it only relieved the pressure for like 2 hours. i dont think its a bruise because its more like a...piercing pain? i tried to massage it but the pain was so imbearable i almost passed out. i cant go see a doctor because im leaving for vacation tomorrow. what should i do? should i take ibuprofin and see if it helps?

If you have Excederine, or can get to a store before you leave for your vacation, go get some Excederine Tension Headache. It's made exactly for what you described.

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i have a problem which i kinda consider a major issue. the thing is that i think i fall in "love" way too easily. and i cant figure out why.
everyboy who is hot and flirts with me. i suddenly like fall in love with them, well kinda. and i need to snap out of it.
what are some thing i can do. to not fall for guys so easily??
this yeah i have been in 3 relationships. all ended miserably... ahhh i need some help =)

I don't think you're in love, I think you're in lust.

It's normal.

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I'm 13 and female my boyfriend is 14 or so he says. My boyfriend says he L O V E S me, but I don't! i might L U V him but i don't know. He has a tongue peircing and is going to get a tatoo! He's only 13! I severely disapprove of this. Should I break up with him? I think he lies to me too....I asked the advice of my best friend and she is very modest, so she doesn't know. But I really think I should, he is incredibly sweet but he makes incredibly stupid choices! Should I wait until he moves and just endure it or break up now? I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!


-~-~the IcedOver heart-~-~

If you think you don't love him, then don't be with him.

And tattoo shops do not pierce tounges of 13 year olds, or tattoo them. You have to be 18 to get a tattoo, and 16 with parental consent.

If your boyfriends from over the net, chances are he's some 56 year old guy living at home with his mom who has child born saved on his computer.

Dump him.

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okay.. well i really like this guy & i'm really looking for his sn.

1.) is there a database of evvveryone's sn?! like i know you can go to my aim - find a buddy - yaadaa but like is there a website of some sort

2.) if i just flat out asked, "does anyone from ____, ____, USA know ___ ___________'s screen name from ______ middle / high school," would i get banned / would my question get deleted?

thanks!

I don't think there is.

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i've got this huge test coming up over romeo and juliet. here are two of the questions i can't seem to find they are:
*what are two examples of a dramatic irony in romeo and juliet? (I found one...its when juliet takes the potion and they all think she is dead but she is really alive. I just need one more.)
*in each act (1-4) how is the death of romeo and juliet foreshadowed? (I found one and its when friar is picking flowers that can cure and kill.i just need one more)

P.S. please don't give me any URl's that have summaries of this play because i already have a URL for that.

I just read the book for the second time, and I'm drawing a blank.

For foreshadowing, Juliet gives that big speech about how she has a bad feeling and that she's gonna eventually die.

I can't think of any for irony. Ugh.

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so tyrie gets arrested for peeing on the street, uh why? thats pretty weird

For one, he was drunk out of his mind, and it was misconduct.

You can't just piss anywhere you want.

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is there any possible way to throw off your period as in make it come earlier or later i CAN NOT have it around when i usually do ill die. without any pills. does a lot of sports or exercising change it.

As far as I know, exercise & sports ease cramps, but nothing besides a pill will make you miss your period. You could always stress out a lot. Or not eat, but I rather you stress out.

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Just to let you know this is NOT a pregnancy question

14/fm

I went to the doctor a little while ago. And I found out that I had some viral thing in my throat. When I was at the doctor's I told my mom what was bothering me. I mentioned to her that I have this problem. Whenever I stand for long periods of time, or sit down for a long time and stand up I black out, or pass out. My mom then asked me if I wanted a blood test. Im not a fan of needles so I said not really. Then she said not to tell my doctor. I did yell at her for asking me to lie to my doctor.

So I didn't tell my doctor. Its been about a week and my virus is gone. However, I'm still having that problem. I looked up my symptoms and theres a possibility that I am diabetic.


There are 3 different questions I have:
1) Should I get tested?
2) Should I report my mom for asking me to lie?
3) Is there anything other than diabetes I could have?

Please your ideas would be appreciated.

Please tell me your ideas! Thanks

[1] Yes.
[2] Probably.
[3] Nothing but a test will tell you that.

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i really want to eat this oh so delicious brownie my mother bought from ralphs but im on a diet.. brownies have alot of claroes and carbs! im scared and im cravin for it.

Eat it, but don't go completely overboard.

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To be blunt: I like my best friend's ex-boyfriend. She broke up with him about 6 months ago because she didn't really like him anymore.
She knows I like him, and she said that it kind of bothers her, but not too much. She might like him a little bit, and they're still friends.
I'm good friends with this guy, and I'm scared to do anything. It's hard for me, because I honestly like him. Besides, SHE broke up with HIM because she didn't like him anymore at the time!
Please help me; I don't know what to do. I'm at a loss here.

If you like him, go out with him.

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hi. i have issues trusting everyone, even myself. so that's why i'm asking this question. my boyfriend is great & i love him but i just...i cant trust him. before i dated him he dated one of my good friends & that didnt work out, but theres been rumors going on right now that he told her he still has feelings for her. and i mean this actually doesnt surprise me, because hes got a history of screwing girls over...for other girls. and that hurts me because i get jealous easily and he has the player impression. i dont know if he would hurt me. but that really hurt me when i found out that my friend was bragging that he still likes her (which is actually how i found out that hes still into her). so i confronted him about it...i dont know if this was the right thing to do, but i did, and i asked him what he told her. now, he could VERY easily twist the truth because i dont know exactly what he said to her. but apparently he told her that he "never stopped liking her" and then he told me that he "doesnt like her". so MAYBE IM JUST PARANOID. i have no idea. but i mean idk...i want to give him my trust. and i want to trust that my friend wouldnt make up something like that...but people were also saying that she probably made up the rumor to get me jealous & so that she could break us up. GEEZ i feel so paranoid. but i LOVE my boyfriend. i want us to be together forever. i just dont want him to take advantage of that. and i dont want to let him go. but i want to be able to trust him. and i dont want him to abuse my trust. idk what to do. any help would be greatly appreicated sorry so long ilu guys

I also trust basically no one, so I know exactly how you feel. There's only a certain few I do trust. I used to trust a lot of people until they fucked me over, so here goes my advice.

If your boyfriend really likes you, he won't break up with you for your friend, and he'll tell you the truth. If he's lying to you, that's an immeadiate sign you should see to break up with him. Also, if he's lying, you know your friend was right all along & wasn't making anything up, so she's sort of trustworthy.

Just don't trust anyone until you find out the truth. If your boyfriend's not lying, don't trust your friend, and if he is, trust your friend.

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I'm a fourteen year old female with a sixteen year old boyfriend. We've been going out for five months. I really want to have sex with him. I'm just worried that fourteen is too young and I'll be a whore. Can someone please tell me what they think? We've been going out long enough I believe. I'm comfortable with him entirely. He really does love me and I love him. So what do you guys think?

Honestly, I think 14 is too young to be having sex. Kissing is fine, but anything more than that might be a little much for you. You should wait until you're older. You're 14, and you don't know if you're gonna be with this guy forever. Chances are, you won't be. I thought I was gonna spend the rest of my life with the guy I lost my virginity to. A month and a half later, we broke up.

But, if you're completely comfortable, and know all of the consequences & know that protection is an absolute MUST, then go for it. Just make sure you're not gonna regret it. I do, because we didn't last like I thought.

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I don't understand why it's "dangerous to only eat 500 calories or less per day. I've been doing it for a long time and I feel fine. Like today for instance, I had a small bowl of cheerios with almond milk for breakfast, romaine lettuce salad with Italian dressing for lunch, Jamba Juice, and then sushi for dinner. All in all, I had about 500 calories today. I feel fine and I ate 3 meals anyway. So what's so "dangerous" about it?

The normal intake is about 1200 or a little more. I'm not sure. I just know that to get all your nutrients & proteins, 500 calories just isn't enough.

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Basically, I fell asleep...yeah...I know in a Jim Carey movie wtf? Lol!!!
So can somebody explain wtf happened?
Thanks a lot in advanced.

He became crazy obsessed with the number 23.

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I`m a music fanatic.
I always post music questions on here.
But i never get what I want.
I love these songs & bands.

tears don't fall-bullet for my valentine
here in your arms-hellogoodbye
baby, it's fact-hellogoodbye
find a new way-young love
seven years-saosin
lost without you-blink-182
& etc.

i dont like heavy metal screamo or rap. or pop like gwen stefani;akon.

please name some good songs and who sings them PLEASE.
dont tell me to look on pandora because some of those dont even come close to relating to the bands i want.

My music teacher says I have a good taste in music, and wants me to make a mix and go over the bands and why i like them.

PLEASE. :]]]]]]

I'm gonna give you the bands because you might not like the same songs I do. Download them, pick your songs & see what you like.

Escape The Fate.
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus.
Cute Is What We Aim For.
Fall Out Boy.
From First To Last.
Taking Back Sunday.
All Time Low.
Boys Like Girls.
The Almost.
Underoath.
Lostprophets.
The Matches.
Over It.
Say Anything.
Chris Daughtry.
Four Letter Lie.
Greeley Estates.

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I do track with some of my friends who are juniors and I'm a freshman. Whenever we hang out we laugh soo much and we have a really good time but we never hang out outside of track and I want to, but I don't want to be like the clingy loser freshman girl or like I don't want to be like hey do you want to go the movies?!! and have them be like uh..actually I can't I have to do something.. I guess I just can't handle rejection haha. What should I do because I really don't want to sit around and wait for them to ask me. Help please :)

Just ask them to hang out with you. Ask to go to Starbucks or something.

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13/f
lately, i've been feeling kind of down sometimes.
It's like, when im hanging with my friends, im fine most of the time.
When I'm home, with nothing to distract me, I tend to get very depressed.
Well depressed is a strong, i just feel kind of sad for no specific reason.
I get in a lot of fights with my parents and that stinks, and I like a guy I can never have, but besides for that I have a pretty good life.
What's going on?
What do i do?
Thanks!

I doubt you can never have him. Just talk to him & you can probably get him. Try not to fight with your parents, and find something to occupy your time with when you're home so you don't get depressed.

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Well hello everyone i hope everyone is doing just dandy and having a good part of there life that is happy. well lets get started you see i am dating a wonderfull girl but sometimes i am unsure if she truly cares. she sometimes tends i dunno when we talk on the phone it seems like she always gets upset with me. and i dunno what to do because i know what we have is true love and that is very rare to have or find in todays societies. so what can i do to i dunno show her how much i care so that i may know how much she cares about me. i mean is there anything i can say or do to show her that i care.

thnx for all the comments

god bless you all

monn

Whenever she gets mad at you, stay on the phone with her & try to calm her down. Talk it out with her. And if she hangs up on you, call her right back.

That usually does it for me.

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ok, so there is this girl at my school, who thinks that I'm her best friend! except, the fact is, i cant stand her
she is always excluding herself to get attention, and sometimes she talks about hanging herself, for attention
and whenever she invites me over to her house, all we do is sit and watch tv or get on the computer
i cant stand it!! she annoys the crap out of me!!
what can i do to try and get her away from me???

Get her mad at you, or just stop hanging out with her slowly. When she calls you & asks to hang out, say that you're busy, or that you're on the other line with someone. Or tell her this: Stop threatning to kill yourself & just do it already. No one cares.

It's mean, but it'll get her pissed at you. I hate it when kids are all "OMFG I'M GONNA KILL MYSELF." and then they don't do it. Stop complaining & just do it already, jesus.

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