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I do track with some of my friends who are juniors and I'm a freshman. Whenever we hang out we laugh soo much and we have a really good time but we never hang out outside of track and I want to, but I don't want to be like the clingy loser freshman girl or like I don't want to be like hey do you want to go the movies?!! and have them be like uh..actually I can't I have to do something.. I guess I just can't handle rejection haha. What should I do because I really don't want to sit around and wait for them to ask me. Help please :)
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i used to have a fear of that too being a freshman who sits at lunch where im the only freshman.. but if they actually talk to you without any prompting and include you in conversations.. or even give you a heads up when you see them in the hall means that you arent just the wierdo. so dont worry about it. and the 'invite other freshman' idea is good too.
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Instead of just asking the juniors invite some of your freshman friends too. Say something kinda casually like, "Hey, I'm getting some people together to...."
If they laugh with you a lot on the team, I really doubt that they would say no unless they really did have something to do.
Good luck
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Just ask them to hang out with you. Ask to go to Starbucks or something.
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depending on whether or not you asked them to hang out outside of track , if you have and they said no to a movie, ask them if they want to get a bite to eat .
if you haven't asked them , just say something small maybe , hey do you guys wanna get a drink at starbucks later after track ?
something like that
i had the same thing [til i quit track,cuz of the coach lol]
but yeah
dont worry if you hang out DURING school then for sure they wll say yes
hahah
hope i helped
have fun
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