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wut exactly is fingering? (link)
hey

fingering is when you or a partner stimulate your clitoral area on your vagina to make you aroused. or, you or your partner insert your fingers into your vagina to make you aroused.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=fingering


Is there any different ways I can masturbate without buying toys. I'm so sick of using my hands. please let me know, thanks. =] (link)
hey

this is the perfect site for you.
http://www.solotouch.com/contri.php?t=t&mo=200705&cat=13

even more --
http://www.solotouch.com/contri.php?t=a
(click "techniques" and "female techniques")


anyone know any bands that sound a lot like escape the fate? (link)
hey

see under "you might also like" ? check out some of those bands.

http://www.artistdirect.com/nad/music/artist/card/0,,3610134,00.html

Motly Crue; Atreyu; From Autumn to Ashes; Vendetta Red; The Used; My Chemical Romance; Senses Fail; Silverstein; Saosin; From First to Last; Aiden; Hawthorne Heights; Vanna; Alesana;


15/f okay a lil while ago(about 2.5 months)my dads friend came to my house with his son.i had never met either of them before and i was happy because the guy was hot.
we got along great and it wasnt awkward at all until his dad started asking m and him what we thought of eachother.i didnt answer and pretended i didnt hear(i was afraid he wouldnt say it bak)
we were even talking alone for a lil bit and he was being so sweet helping me study because i had exams in two days.his dad and him stayed the whole weekend and at the end when he was just about to leave he asked 4 my number when noone was around!!!i was so happy.(hes two grades ahead of me but hes not pushy and i dont see it as a problem)

anyway i told him to txt me his number as he had to go..i went up to get ready for bed and i got a txt message frm him....weve been txtin on and off since and weve sent kisses after he asked if i had a boyf.he hasnt txted me in 3 weeks but when he did he was calling me babe nd stuff so i no hes into me and im quite smart and people say im pretty but why hasnt he txted in a while?cud it be another girl?please help!

ps i dont live near him..its about 30min drive away so i havent seen him since april.wat shud i do??hes not the cheating type but were not exactly going out.has he lost intrest coz i live too far away? (link)
you should text him being like hey havent talkeed to you in a while or be like wanna hang out this summer
30 minutes isnt that long of a drive, so its not really a long distance relationship
he might think that your not interested in him so you should text him once and just ask him what hes up to and like summer plans or anythng


i was having sex with this guy. he left the condom here & when he left i went to throw it out and there was a hole not at the tip but alittle more on the side. i dont know if he came. there wasnt any in the condom. & i would be able to tell if he did inside me right ? well after the first time we waited like an hour and went again but i started bleeding i dont know if it was my period but it wasnt my cherry cause thats been poped. it wasnt just alittle scratch it was coming from my vagina. its most likly my period. but im worried about pregnancy. im only 15. should i buy a test even if this is my period ? (link)
if its your period you wont be pregnant
chances are that you arent pregnant because you said you dont think he even came, which is like already a 1% chance of being pregnant and then the fact that you had a condom, wether its broken or not makes the chance go down to like .00000001% chance.
if its your period, you are automatically not pregnant. but you could buy a test anyways


does anybody know how hard it is to get into westconn (western connecticut state university) i jus want to know what is needed to get into that college like sats score, transcripts, stuff like that (link)
http://apps.collegeboard.com/search/CollegeDetail.jsp?match=true&collegeId=3299&type=qfs&word=western%20connecticut%20state%20university

click through the tabs to find info about cost, SATs, etc.


I'm really inexperienced so I'm scared to do anything with my boyfriend of 4 months. He is a year older than I am... and we are teenagers.
He wants me to touch him, and I guess give him a hand job. I want to make him happy but I'm not sure about anything.

What can I do?
How do you touch a guy..
and how the heck do you give a hand job? (link)
If you are not ready, don't do it. He will understand. If he doesn't understand then he wasn't worth putting up with.


How much weight do you lose when you become anorexic? (link)
How about you just eat healthy and don't try to find out on your own? Rightio? :)

GO WARF DOWN A HAMBURGER RIGHT NOW! :D


Say you are having anal sex, and the penis doesn't go in all the way, and it falls down and then the condom breaks but there was no seman in it and you were on your period, and your still flowing after. can you still get pragnet(sorry can't spell)?
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If precum or cum touches the vagina there is still a chance you could get pregnant. If you're worried then get a test done to see if you're pregnant. I doubt you are, however.

You can still get pregnant while on your period.


I am 16 years old and I just got this new boyfriend. He is super nice and a really talented musician. I dont find him physically attractive at all actually. But his personality, humour, and talent make up for it. I like him, I really do. But I feel really akward being around him when it is just the two of us. I am trying to cope with it but it doesnt seem to be working. I dont want to break up with him because people are telling me that he really likes me. They tell me that me going out with him is the best thing ever for him because he is sobering up. He used to be into drugs and alcohol and smoking but now that he is going out with me...he has stopped doing all of that. I like how much he has changed but I still feel akward being with him. I dont want to break up with him! Is there anything else I can do? If so then please help me. I would really appriciate it. Thx in advance. (link)
Being untruthful to him is the worse thing you can do. Help him by helping yourself. Break up with him.


ive been going out with this guy for about 5 days now i think? he is one of my best guy friends so i mean i know him well and all but hes very shy when you first meet him. and hes very shy in terms of physical relationships. i really want to just give him a hug because that hasnt really happened yet. what is a good way to get him to hug me or to make it less awkward to hug him just out of the blue? (link)
Whatever you do, don't force him or harass him about it. If you want a hug, hug him.


I'm a teenage girl who is going to a boarding high school next year.

I'll have a roommate... I'm deathly addicted to masturbation (MUST do it AT LEAST ONCE every twelve hours or i'd go insane) and i'm talking about full-out masturbation to orgasm. Not just fingering yourself slightly in the shower.

I use a sonicare toothbrush to do it. It makes noise. How can I find a time/place to do it?

thanks (link)
Ah, I'm addicted as well.

Bathroom, perhaps? When she goes out? Maybe even if you're allowed out go to a empty place where you can be alone and pleasure yourself.


I'm a teenage girl- and for my whole life i've always been tired no matter what. I drink coffee every morning and I get all my nutrients b/c i eat right and take vitamins... I also work out whenever I can.


What's up with me? (link)
Are you getting the right amount of sleep? You could have some sort of sleep disorder. Maybe go to the doctors and get it examined. They could probably find out why you're always tired.


i've liked a guy named .. dan, scine i was in 2nd grade, we went out when i was in 4th through 5th grade. but then 6th through 8th [until now, im in 8th] grade, i was over him. we went out in march through april. i broke up with him cause i thought i liked his bestfriend. then i relized i didnt. and he wouldnt take me back. may 10 he started going out with another girl. im still .. missing him. i dont talk to him anymore, but hes my next door nabior. so when we were going out we hung out everyday for a long period of time. i keep thinking of all these memories. he wasnt a mean guy at all. we talked for hours after we broke up cause i was so sad. i really cant stop thinking about him. is their anyway i could get him back? should i wait until him and his new girlfriend break up? should i talk to him, but about whatt? .. im so confused. (link)
You obviously don't like him if you broke up with him for somebody else. You may think you do, but you don't. Personally, let him be. If he wanted you back he'd ask you. My guess is your feminine-crazy instincts (all girls have them) kicked in and you only want him because he's taken and/or because he doesn't want you.


13/f
hey i need help i have these to best friends ihave only known them for about two years and the first year my friends parents decieded to start hateing me so they made theyre kids hate me to they said i was a bad influence yeah right!so they made my friends come up to me on the last day of school to tell me. so i said ok and we stoped being friends for a while but my friends and i started being friends again and i told my friends parents that i would not do what ever the heck i did before i again. but now my friends parents hate me again. its pisses me off and scares me at the same time becasue she is trying to take my friend from me again. and i think that im going to be abanded again. and i dont know if i should even make a big deal of this but my friends seem like friends but im not sure if theyre just to afraid to tell me off themself and theyre just acting like my friends because it wouldnt be the first time (link)
Ask her parents what you have done to cause their dislike. Don't be mouthy and don't snap back at them with attitude. Keep your cool and apologize and just speak your side without getting upset. Whatever you do, don't cry or show anger or any emotion. Get a poker face.


I've been like a jinx, curse, and bad luck to me and everyone else ever since I was born and i feel so bad about it! I

'm the most smartest and best student in my class everyone says and I'm the most careful but at home it jsut doens't seem that way.

Like I try to be careful and I just amke stuff worse! Liek today for fun I was just going to shock my grandma like a surprise but I forgot that she's really old and when i did she looked liek she was about to have a seizure!

And I was just playing with my sister, jsut for fun. And when she played with me she ran into a tree and now she has a terrible scar liek across her head to remind everyone about it! And it came form an inacent game of tag!

I don't know what to do any more. What's your advice i should do? Should i try to move to some where else to prevent even more worse stuff? (link)
Sorry but.. The "most smartest", eh? How old are you and why can't you spell?!

Anyways, I doubt it's a curse/jinx/bad luck. It's coincidence and that's all. Life is a coincidence.


is it a turn off if a girl isn't wearing sexy underwear like not nasty underwear but not all lacy or silky..like vs pink??? (link)
if i have a girl down to her underwear, i don't care what kind of undies they are i'll be happy i got that far.


i just got a 100 dollar gift card for my ipod and i don't know what music to get. I like a variety of music like dance, and anything pop or rock made from the 60's until now..any ideas? (link)
What I would do is listen to the radio for a couple hours and write down all the songs you like and get them. Maybe even go to myspace and such. It'll help you pick before you get them.


what does this translate to be in english??

"britney a perdu sa soutien-gorge et sa culotte sur le plancher de la salle a mange"

i really want to know.

please & thanks (link)
Britney has lost her bra and her underwear on the floor to the hall has eaten..?

I think. I've never really been great at french.


im not sure wat category this goes under but wen ppl on advicenators give advice at the end sum of em put ♥ wat does tht mean
Thanx (link)
It shows up as a heart when the site allows codes and such to show.




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