about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

Is it normal to have a late period?..like a 2 week-late period?Also,anyone have websites that would answer my questions please?

Yes, periods are never on time. x0

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in ur buddy4u.. where did u get that hollister background.. i can never find anything that cute!

I dont remember but if you want it IM me and I will send it to you. I have about 3 different Hollister ones also. x0

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i luv ur frend kortni

I do to!

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do you need to take a drug test before getting a job in new york?

Well it all depends on what job you are getting. Usually you wont need one but if its something serious then probablly yes. x0

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When should girls start to wear tampons?

When you get your period and when ever you think you are ready.

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i dont think my boyfirend really likes me! ccus he is like NEVER serious and tthats not wat bothers me but he always flirts with other grls and he dosentt know his doing it either! his oNlY sEriiouS wHen hE tAlkS 2 mE wHen iiM jUst By mYsElF aNd he SeEmS aS iF hEs sHy aRouND mE aNd iM tHe sAme wAy aroUnD hiM LiKE iM 2 sCarEd 2 tAlk 2 HiiM ii d0nT kNoW iiF ii'll sAY tHe RiGhT tHiNg oR nOt! aNd i rEalY dNot wAnt 2 l0ose hiM! cuz i really liek him a lot and my relationships never lasts very long and all my past relationships have been long distance witch in s0o over that now! but ii just want 2 belive that my boyfriedns actually likes me and my friends all say he does but iim not sure ii hardly ever talk to him and i mean he liek talks to other girls more then he talks to me and tHat kinds borthers me iim not like JEALOUS or anything . .and everytime he goes sumwhere with his friends or sumthing im always worried that he'll se a gurl prettier then me and beeter then me and want 2 go out with her and it might sound stupid but it always borthers me! well i bet u know who this is! i kinda gave it away! but 0o well! PLEASE HELP!! ii l0vE y)U! s0o mUch! mWaH!

Omg.. yes I defenetly know who this is. Why do you still think that. I already told you this and you have nothing to worry about. Your boyfriend likes you soo much I dont think you even know babe! Sometimes when a guy doesnt have a lot of girlfriend they are shy and scared and stuff, and your boyfriend is like that. Dont ever think that he doesnt like you because he tells me and other people all the time. He is shy around you and he feels the same way you do. He is scared he might say the wrong thing to you and you are scared you might say something wrong to him. You wont loose him! When he goes to the movies with his friends and stuff and like when he sees other girls.. well see he isnt the type of person who would just say that shes prettier. You are so pretty and he likes you!!! He doesnt like other girls and he doesnt think other girls are "hot" or anything because he loves you!! He might flirt with other girls at times but that means nothing to him because of how much he likes you. Some girls also might like him so thats why but honestly he doesnt care about them. He is just shy to talk to you so you have to talk to him more!! Do you guys call each other a lot? Just call him like after school everyday and talk! You guys will for sure get closer to each other and feel more comftrable. I know that you arnt jelous or anything but its totally fine to feel that way! I hope that makes you understand a little bit at least and dont worry about it cuz he loves you!! And I love you wayy more!!! x0

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I am so Pro-Life and the "N" word hurts me so much when people say it!! and I am like so oppinionated as it is, but i cannot just sit by and let people say abortion is alright, and/or let them say the "N" word around me! it hurts so much! any tips on what to say? or anyone feel the same??
thanks-
Kelsa

That bothers me too but people will never stop saying it as much as it bothers you. I dont think you should say anything to them at all because they wont care. Just try to ignore them or tell them to shut up! Dont even be by them. If I was you I would probablly end up hitting them. l0l x0

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I like this kid alot, we went out a while ago but things were different then. hes become alot more popular wit the girls and everything now, and hes really cocky too, i told him i still liked him and he said he might like me and i wouldnt be wasteing my time going for him. But he'll flirt on and off and says he doesnt like anyone. should i just give up on him or try and make him like me.

I dont think that this guy really knows if he likes you or not. Let him figure it out. Dont give up on him tho. x0

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alright see me and my boyfriend broke up like Monday ..and this girl well it was his x girlfriend was talking to me and shit acting like she cared like aww i feel soo bad and then like 3 minutes later started goin out with him .. but see i tried to like.. be all calm about it and not get mad but when i read her profile or look at the away messages and just think how their together ..ahh i don't know i just like want to cry .. and i am usually the type that i wait like .. 2 days and then i want a new boyfriend but this time i think about liking other people and i just can't go out with anyone else because i want him .. and the fact that he says he's in love with her but he cheated on her with me last time they went out .. ( we made out ) and he is running back to her and she keeps taking him back and junk but i want him back soo bad and at night i usually cry myself to sleep cause of it.. =/

please help ..
i rate high..

xl brooke lx


( sorry about it being soo long )

Its okay to feel like that. You really liked this guy and its hard for yu to see him with someone else. I think that you should talk to him. Let him know that you still love him and that you care for him! You never know if he feels the same way about you! x0

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Hey guys, I want to see if anyone else is having the same problem.

I've answered a good amount of questions recently, in the past week, and I've only been rated maybe twice. Is there something maybe wrong with my column or are people just not rating? Is this happening to anyone else?

I'll rate high ♥ Thanks!

Nothing is wrong with your colum its just that people arnt rating your advice. x0

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Today i feel like, well i dont know. Like i want to just cry and stuff..and i really dont know why. Im not upset, or anything like that.
Why do i feel like im going to cry?

You are upset about something and you have a lot on your mind. Sometimes people just cry when they are bored and have absolutley nothing to do. It sounds gay but its true. x0

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random question... but im like starving right now!! anybody know any good ideas for some food i could eat?!~ lol

Frozen pizza,cereal,sandwich,mac n cheese! x0

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hey, i just had that i was rated 86 times, and just a minute ago it changed to 83 times. is this due to the fact of like when advicenators gives you a clean slate or w/e every month? i just wanted to check =] thnx!

Your ratings delete after 30 days.

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does anybody know if you can find out who wrote a comment to u in ur advice column?? i got somereally mean ones and i was just wonderin if you could find out who theyre from...

No you cant. The only thing you can find out is what question the rating or commet came from. Level 2-3 moderators can do that. Which kind of sucks l0l! x0

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I'm a bit overweight and so I've always been a little bit embarassed to exercise in front of people. It seems to just make things worse for me, because then I don't feel like I get enough exercise in the day, but I hate running because I'm slower and always afraid somebody will see me, and I don't even like doing stuff at home because my mom and dad might see me. Any good tips for conquering my fear or ways to exercise alone?

Dont me embarassed to exersise. It can be fun! Invite your friend over and just go out for a walk. When you are home by yourself do some situps jump rope and run up and down on your stairs. Do sit ups before you go to bed it helps! x0

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If you don't put your name or url/e-mail in when you leave someone on a message, can they figure out it's you? By the way, I don't have one.
The chatterbox is http://cbox.co.za/

No they cant find out. x0

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ok well last night i went somewhere and after, i went to this guys house.. we were alone and stuff and we did some sexual stuff... but like i mean i have a boyfriend... and i totally hate myself for doing this to him... i dont want to tell him, but what if someone finds out and tells him...help?

That sucks! Dont tell anyone about it and hopefully this guy wont say anything eather. If no one finds out just keep your mouth shut. If you tell some people they might tell your boyfriend. I hope you didnt mean to do that to your boyfriend tho. And if for some reason he does find out explain to him. Tell him you defenetly didnt mean to do that and that you had no clue what you were thinking. x0

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okay well like 2 weeks ago i was in school and my friend asked the kid i liked to sit with me at this assembly because i gave him a dollar.. and he acctually said that to him, so he said he thought i was different but im just a bitch who bribed people with money.. but then the next day my friend pushed me to go talk to him, so i told him what happened and he said he already knew because the kid who asked him had told him everything, and he said they only reason he said that was because he was scared and he wanted to work up some self esteem because he couldnt find the courage to ask me to sit with him.. and then he asked if we could walk to lunch together so we did, and we sat together during class. So then the day after that he accidently told me he was moving, and i didnt talk to him for a while, and then he told me the only reason he didnt tell me was because he didnt know how to, so we talked again. Then he wrote me a letter and it said how he doesnt think he can be with me for the remaining 2 weeks he's here because he cant give me the attention he should give his girlfriend and he thinks he can give me the right amount of attention for what we will be. Then he told me to go out with my best friend. And when i told my 2 best friends, ((ones a boy, ones a girl)) they both agreed. So i went to the dance with him, and i brought him on vacation with me my brother, my grandparents, my brothers friend, and a bunch of family friends. But i don't really feel right. I mean, i love him, but i feel like a player because i didnt even wait 2 days after i broke up with my boyfriend. Is this normal or should i not feel this way?

Aw dont worry!! I dont think you are a player for that at all. You just really like this guy and its a good thing that you are with him now. Its okay to feel that way tho. x0

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when i go to get a physical for cheerleading, nexy year willl they check to see if im a virgin..and if they do are they alowed to tell my parents???
thanx lotz!!!!
xoxox
leila

When you go to get a physical they dont check to see if you are a virgin. What they basiclly do is just make sure you are healthy. But "IF" they do they would tell your parents. But i doub it will happen. x0

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im way confused right now. my 8th grade year is almost up and me and my frineds are driftin apart because of me. i really like this guy that my friend likes but we never had a problem with it. now all i do is talk to him because he likes to flrt with me a lot and so i kinda leave my friends so i can only talk to him. now there kinda driftin apert from me. i no its my falt and i feel really bad. i just really like this guy and i like the kinda attention he gives me. i dont want to not be friends with my other friends i just dont no wat to do because i cant stop flirtin with that one guy i cant do it i like the attention to much. what should i do.

You should never ditch your friends for a guy but I`m glad that you just noticed that. Even tho you like all the attention he gives you maybe you should consider hanging out with your friends more also. Friends are always more important. You can still hang out with him and stuff but start getting closer to your friends again. x0

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