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Question Posted Saturday April 23 2005, 1:41 pm

okay well like 2 weeks ago i was in school and my friend asked the kid i liked to sit with me at this assembly because i gave him a dollar.. and he acctually said that to him, so he said he thought i was different but im just a bitch who bribed people with money.. but then the next day my friend pushed me to go talk to him, so i told him what happened and he said he already knew because the kid who asked him had told him everything, and he said they only reason he said that was because he was scared and he wanted to work up some self esteem because he couldnt find the courage to ask me to sit with him.. and then he asked if we could walk to lunch together so we did, and we sat together during class. So then the day after that he accidently told me he was moving, and i didnt talk to him for a while, and then he told me the only reason he didnt tell me was because he didnt know how to, so we talked again. Then he wrote me a letter and it said how he doesnt think he can be with me for the remaining 2 weeks he's here because he cant give me the attention he should give his girlfriend and he thinks he can give me the right amount of attention for what we will be. Then he told me to go out with my best friend. And when i told my 2 best friends, ((ones a boy, ones a girl)) they both agreed. So i went to the dance with him, and i brought him on vacation with me my brother, my grandparents, my brothers friend, and a bunch of family friends. But i don't really feel right. I mean, i love him, but i feel like a player because i didnt even wait 2 days after i broke up with my boyfriend. Is this normal or should i not feel this way?

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LiViNgxTrAgEdY03 answered Monday August 1 2005, 6:20 pm:
Love is love, it happens in the strangest ways and situations. The only reason the fact that you didn't wait two days after your boyfriend and you broke up is in the picture, is because your afraid of what people might think, and when it comes to love, that shouldn't matter. So don't be afraid to fall in love, or it will be afraid to fall with you, and the worst thing you want to be in a situation like this, is alone.
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_x3_HyPa_On_SuGa_x3_ answered Monday April 25 2005, 4:49 pm:
Well...you aren't the playa grrllllll! What are you supposed ta do? Wait 4 sum1... who TOLD you 2 go out wit your friend...and who is neva gunna like see u again....! You did the right thing....GET ON WIT YOUR LIFE GRRRL! asHleyx3

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karenR answered Monday April 25 2005, 1:47 am:
Don't feel bad, why should you? You weren't dating the other guy. You liked him but you weren't dating him. You aren't a player, you are a normal girl! :)

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o0xbrianna answered Saturday April 23 2005, 5:13 pm:
No you aren't a player, he broke up with you. You didn't dump him. Don't feel bad!




-Brianna

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Teza answered Saturday April 23 2005, 2:58 pm:
Aw dont worry!! I dont think you are a player for that at all. You just really like this guy and its a good thing that you are with him now. Its okay to feel that way tho. x0

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Freakinidiot4569 answered Saturday April 23 2005, 2:07 pm:
well, you have respects for him and i respect that. I dont think that you should feel that way because your x wanted you to go out with him. well, yea

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ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday April 23 2005, 2:04 pm:
I think its okay hun.. much luv dez x0x0

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