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Hey Everyone. My name is Barbie. I am 22. Working full time and in college. I'm here to give advice to serious questions, not to share my whole life story. I've not been active until recently. All of the questions I've answered on here, as you see are very old and out dated. I will no longer answer silly questions, but only more serious ones. If you want my opinon, ask me a question. I'm 100% honest to the best of my knowledge, blunt, and to the point. If that's what you're looking for, then you've come to the right place. If not, then my apologies, but you can go to some one else who will sugar coat things for you and make you hear what you want to hear.



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How Do You Know If You Found The Right Person You Want To Spend The Rest of Your LIfe With ????????

its a feeling that you just know. i guess its knowing that you love that person and have great respect for them and them feeling the same way about you in return. when the person is the only thing you think about.

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okay so i always fall for the "bad boys" but this time i like one of my old best friends, but the problem is he is a jerk, unreliable, and a stoner..... and like i dont know what to do, because we dont talk all that much anymore b/c he has a different group of friends than i do.. he liked me all of last year but i always said no when he asked me out because i didnt agree with him about the whole drug thing, and now i've realised that i liked him the whole time and still do and hes found another girlfriend and im just like.... sad. iono. should i tell him how i feel or not? i dont want to ruin his relationship.. sorry if thats kind of long

if your feelings are really strong for him then yes tell him but dont expect to much out of him, he does have a girlfriend right now. but it is up to you to decide if it is really worth telling him. if you dont tell him with you regret it later on? if you tell him how will he react to you? if you do tell him will you regret it? those are some things you need to ask yourself before hand and to help make your decision.

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There's this guy "Ethan" and i liked him alot over the summer, but then at school it got around to me that he didn't like me anymore and so i thought okay ill just not seem interested bc guys usually come back to what they now know they can't have. Well that's when he started coming back around and wanting to talk and everything and i of course got excited. Then once we started talking again it wasnt much but it was something. i guess i just wanted it to go back to how it was over the summer. so i suppose i got in the habit of ignoring him going back to the belief that he'd show me more attention but now he's not noticing me much anymore either. What can i do to get him back to talk/notice/like me?

two things to say here:

1. start talking to him

2. did it ever cross your mind that he picked up on your ignoring him to get more attention and now he is doing it to you to get more attn from you?

something to think about. but either way start talking to him again.

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This is a question to all advicenators: What makes you want to give advice to other people?

it is sort of a combination for me. i like giving advice to people but then there are some of the questions on here that i read and just laugh at.

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i have a friend who cuts, she hasnt since the summer but today she came into shcool and told me one of my other really good friends and one of her really good friends and made us sweare we wouldnt tell anyone or shed kill us type of thing.....the whole thing is me and my friend dont know exactly how we should help her we know she wants the help but we cant figure out how to...is there anyone with any experience with this that has any sugestions that worked? were all really confsued as to how to solve this and we know that we cant force her to get help but sugest it and jsut be there for her and tlak to her but there has to be somthing more we can do

just tell her that when something is pissing her off or upsetting her and she is thinking about cutting to call you or one of her other friends to talk about whats wrong. if she would go and see a shrink everything she says is confidential and can not be said to anyone about anything in no way, shape, or form. so if she truely wants help just have her tell her parent(s)/guardian(s) that she is having a little difficulty coping with everything going on in her life and that she would like to go talk to some one about everything. that would be the best way to put it to them without her having to go into details and they will most likely understand. if she is not willing to want to talk to some shrink then the other option of her getting help would be for them to put her in a psyche ward. trust me, she wont want to go there. she will not like her stay, but it will help her and she will not be able to wait to get out of there. but it will help for the best. they will be able to teach her how much pressure she can handle and how much she can build up inside of her so she can talk about it with someone she can trust with out cutting and wanting to hurt herself. they will help her to cope with things differently so she will be able to help herself in the best way possibe. so if her parents dont know then you could try telling them by simply say that she cuts and you are worried about her and think it would be best to get her some help. i know she ssaid not to tell anyone but if she wants help she will have to tell someone. good luck with her and i hope this helps.

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there's this guy in my school who seems to dislike me . maybe i'm just being sensitive , but sometimes he repeats what i say in a funny/mocking way .he teases everyone , but i have this feeling he doesn't like me . maybe i'm too sensitive , cuz i don't like it when people tease me or make fun of me . how should i respond to such things ? ( ps : i don't know him that well )

just let him go. dont pay attention to him. if he sees how much it bothers you he will keep it up for the sick enjoyment of seeing you upset. if you dont let it bother you then he will give up and move on to someone else.

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What are some good ways to make your girlfriend feel special, like make her feel like you are the best guy in the world (well I know that's probably around impossible. So I am exaggerating a bit, haha.)? What do you girls think would make you special if your guy said them to you or things like that?

Get her a small gift. Getting her something out of the blue makes her feel special, it lets her know you care about her and you arent just getting it because it is an anniversary or a birthday, where it is like an obligation that you should remember these things and do something for one another. Tell her how much you care about her. How good she is looking in some particular outfit. Plan something to do in advance such as going to see a show or booking some dinner reservations for two at a really nice restaurant and tell her to keep that day open. I hope this helps. Good Luck with your girlfriend.

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i've been absent from school 7 1/2 days this year. ive been sick a lot and there are lots of bugs going around.plus i broke my elbow earlier. well i was absent today and the vice principal called. he said i had to go school or they'd get the county involved. he said that the max number of days you can be absent in a year is 10, but the rules state 20. it also says you cant miss more than 5. well the first grading period i was absent 5 days, so that isnt breaking any rules. should i be in trouble for this because he is clearly lying? i dont see how im breaking any of the written rules. ive heard of no such change in them either so it isnt like i missed it. what do i do?

just tough it up and go to school. and when your absent as long as you make up all of the work you missed in all of your classes then you should be fine. they really cant do anything if you are a good student who puts effort into your work and studies and who completes all of your work. if they do try to hold you back or anything else they want to do to you, you can fight them. go against the school board at the magistrate. and as long as you have doctors excuses for the days you missed it will be fine and they cant do anything to you. if you dont then go back and get the dates of the days you missed for being sick and call up your doctor and get him to write some excuses for your illnesses,.

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okay in like 2 weeks my parents are goin outta town and im thinking about having my realllly realllly realllly close best guy friend over to sleep over. [ we are really close and its just like a friend sleepover thing] but yeah. i actually realy like him tho. ive started to have these feelings for him starting about 2 months ago..well, actually right when we started becoming close i started liking him but ive never let him known.. i duno if he feels the same tho..any tipz on how i should tell him without scaring him off? thanks!

First off you can finish school and maybe learn a few things about how to spell and use correct grammar in a sentence. Yeah, I know, on here, I use abrreviations for somethings and I dont spell everything the correct grammatical way. But you'll have that. But as for your question, you should just say it. Of course, he may feel a little awkward about it at that moment and YES, i tell you he may not feel that way about you. If this is the case he may get a little freaked out about it, but he could probably set that aside and still be friends with you. If he does feel the same for you, then congrats go along on your merry little ways. But just to inform you ahead of time, if things dont work out as you would like them to, there is plenty of other guys out there. You have your whole life ahead of you, you will find someone else. Trust me there are others.

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well im a guy and so far most of my friends have been girls, but recently i made a few guy friends and it jsut occured to me that i realy have no idea how to hang out with guys, what kind of activities etc...

Playing sports such as football or basketball. Skateboarding, bmx, rinding dirtbikes or quads are a few other ideas. I don't know. Just hang out. Basically you can do whatever you guys want to do. The above ideas may vary depending on what every one likes to do.

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Hi, does anyone know where you can buy the yellow livestrong bracelets? Thank you.

you can get them at lancearmstrong.com, wearyellow.com, or at a store. When i went i found a whole shit load of them at champs, which is a shoe store in the mall. so try one of those stores at your local mall.

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ok there is this boy that i really like and he gave me my first kiss.And when-ever he was in trouble i was there to help him. Also his dad hit him alot and one day he and his dad were fighting real bad. Then his mom and his dad left. so he called around looking for me. i know this because all my friends started calling to to tell me that he is looking for me.we finally got to talk he asked me to come over asap. so i dropped everything and went to his house. i thought it was an emergency so i ran. it usually takes me 25min to get to his house but this time it took me only 15.min. but i got there he answered the door(he had a big mark on his face)(from his dad) and looked at me i helded his face and asked him what happened and he told me.i gave him a really big hug and i kissed his bruse.But my question is now he wont talk to me. But he tells all my friends that im the ONE for him but he continues not to talk to me and he ALSO has a girlfriend Please help me...... i beg you.... thank you!!!!
Ohhhh by the way not only does he tell my friends that im the ONE for him he brages that im a great kisser!please help me!i rate high....(16-FEMALE)

he may not be talking to you because he may be scared that you will run and tell some authority person and just get him in more trouble with his dad. he may also have a gf to get his mind off of you for a while because he may think that you are just a really really good friend and that you dont think of him as a boyfriend type. Find out if something is wrong and then go from there.

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should i become anorexic? i am to fat, im 5ft 5in and 115lb my stomach is to big, i feel fat. i play soccer, basketball, and softball. i thought that that info might be helpful..

also am i fat (not compared to you, ingenral)

no. you definately are NOT fat. You shouldnt become anorexic. For one you dont need to and for two it is bad for your health. you will just make yourself really sick and have bigger problems other than you just worrying about how you think your fat.

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Well here's the thing, my best friend(23) has just recently gotten engaged. She has asked me(19) to be her maid of honor and I have said yes. But come to find out she has been lying to this guy(20) the whole time they've been together. I didn't realize what she's been doing until all of us started to hang out with each other. He's really nice and really loves her. But I don't believe she feels the same about him. She is what you would call a user. If you have something that she could benefit from she attaches to you and try's to get you for all you have. She has cancer and is getting a divorce from her present husband now, there goes her medical, this new guy is in the airforce and is form a family with money, (lots of benefits and can take care of her). My question is, should I tell him about all of her lies, cheating and sneaky ways or just leave the whole thing alone and let him find out for himself.

I cant tell you what to do and expect you to obey. This is just my opinion. You have to look at it at all perspectives. If you were her would you want some one telling someone something like that. The answer would most likely be no. and the other side would be if you were a guy would you want this to happen to you? the answer again would most likely be no. so i can see how hard the decision would be for you. I think i would rather know about it in advance rather than finding out after it was too late. so maybe just give him some type of little warning about her in someway or another. But try as much as possible not to get your self in the middle of it. By saying this i realize that you will have made yourself a part of it but this way you wont be in the middle of it for say as much as if you were to tell him exactly how she is word by word infront of her and to break it off between them for him. This way just giving a little warning will let him see how she is and too notice the little things she does before they get married and too maybe set a date a little later than he had actually wanted just to get to know the REAL her. If he does realize for him self and see that she is all of what you say she is then he can choose whether or not he would really want to go through with this wedding.




i hope this all makes sense to you and i wish you the best with whatver you choose to do.

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I'm taking fencing right now and at the begining of each practice we have to run 10 laps around the gym, forwards, backwards, cross overs, knees up, feet up. I have physical induced asthma and I'm having trouble breathing while I'm running. My mom is going to my doctor to get my inhaler but that's on Wednesday. I have practice on Monday- Friday so on Monday and Tuesday and maybe on Wednesday I won't have my inhaler. I'm confused as to whether I should tell my coach about it and sit out when we run or just suck it up and run. We've had two practices so far and I've had to suck it up and run but I felt like I was going to pass out. I was lightheaded, nautious and breathing really heavy. Should I talk to my coach and see if he lets me sit it out just for these couple of days until I get my inhaler? I don't want people to think I'm a lazy bitch and not want to run though. Can anyone help?

Just let the coach know that you have asthma. and suck it up and run. This way if you would pass out he will know what happened and to call the paramedics and let them know what was wrong with you. As for sitting out, that should be discussed with and determined by you and the coach. If you choose to want to run and he allows it then fine and if you want to and he wants to play it on the safe side and tell you to sit it out until you get your inhaler then let him know that that would be ok also.

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Hi. My names Kylie and this is my situation. I live with my older sister because my dad left and my mom died when I was born. I'm 13 and she’s 29. Anyways when I was 4 one of her friends was watching me while she went out and he was touching me sexually. I didn’t tell her and the next time he babysat me he did it again. He did it 4 different times that I can remember. Anyways I never told my sister about it. And they’re still really good friends today. He comes all the time so I see him a lot. And I feel really awkward around him. What I'm wondering is should I tell my sister about it? I don’t know if shed believe me and if she did I don’t know if shed do anything about it. I know its sexual abuse but can he actually get in trouble for it? Like since it happened a long time ago?

Please reply. I really don’t know what to do here.
Please email me if you think you can help.
hollisterhunni0628@yahoo.com

- Kylie

hey hun, yeah he can definately get into some major trouble for what he did to you. so you should def. tell your sister. she should believe you after all you are her sister. if she doesnt want to believe you or if she does and she doesnt do anything go to the cops about this. they will be willing to help and they will believe you.

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wat perfumes smell rlly godd but arent too expensive?

victoria's secret has some really good scents and they arent all that expensive. Bath and body works had some good ones too.

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hi do u have photobucket? if u do will u please IM me on x0x teza

hey hun, no sorry i dont.

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how do u delete your history of ur computer? like the websites uve gone to ? pleasetell me

go to your internet explorer icon and richt click on it and then click properties. when that opens up click delete files, delete cookies, and clear history.

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Ive been looking for cell phones and im trying to find a good deal on em. I want to take the phone i find and have it reprogramed to b a prepay verizon phone. Does anyone know a place where you can buy just the cell phone, not sign up for a plan...but just get the phone. Any phones under $100 would b great.

verizon phones suck... go with a cricket... you cant beat the plan...

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