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bad guy..
okay so i always fall for the "bad boys" but this time i like one of my old best friends, but the problem is he is a jerk, unreliable, and a stoner..... and like i dont know what to do, because we dont talk all that much anymore b/c he has a different group of friends than i do.. he liked me all of last year but i always said no when he asked me out because i didnt agree with him about the whole drug thing, and now i've realised that i liked him the whole time and still do and hes found another girlfriend and im just like.... sad. iono. should i tell him how i feel or not? i dont want to ruin his relationship.. sorry if thats kind of long
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if you don't agree with what he does... you shouldn't be second-guessing your self... sure you may "think" you like him but if he does drugs and things that you are uncomfortable with... it isn't even worth getting yourslef tangled up with
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hun, you still fell for a 'bad boy' let him be. if it's meant to be, it will eventually find a way.
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you should tell him how you feel. i'm sure this doesn't feel good to keep this in, because the same thing has happened to me. tell him that you've liked him the whole time, and your sorry about the drug thing. i dated a guy for 10 months that does weed, and i didn't like it, but i accepted it, and i can't do anything to make him stop. just tell him and maybe he'll come back to you?
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stone with him. you'll feel better
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babe.. you should not even try talking to him again.. you don't need a stoner loser boyfriend.. there are soo many guys out there.. ohhh my gosh.. i always fell for the stoner bad ass guys too lol.. and i got hurt like.. 20 thousand times! ugh it sucked.. find someone that will treat you right and that isn't a loser.. YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS hehe.. I hope I helped yah a lil.. if you need anymore advice.. IM me.. my screen name is on my page! Good Luck!
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if your feelings are really strong for him then yes tell him but dont expect to much out of him, he does have a girlfriend right now. but it is up to you to decide if it is really worth telling him. if you dont tell him with you regret it later on? if you tell him how will he react to you? if you do tell him will you regret it? those are some things you need to ask yourself before hand and to help make your decision.
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Sure, you might like this guy, but you need to figure out first of all if being with him is worth dealing with his drug use, and the possible consequences of associating with him. If you do decide that how you feel about him is worth it, then you should tell him how you feel.
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well, it all depends on how strong your feelings are for him. if they're overwhelming you, then you have to tell him, otherwise it's gonna bother you forever. if you do tell him, don't expect anything back from him, cause he does have another girlfriend-just tell him you need him to know, and leave it at that, and let things go how they will. good luck
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