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ok there is this boy that i really like and he gave me my first kiss.And when-ever he was in trouble i was there to help him. Also his dad hit him alot and one day he and his dad were fighting real bad. Then his mom and his dad left. so he called around looking for me. i know this because all my friends started calling to to tell me that he is looking for me.we finally got to talk he asked me to come over asap. so i dropped everything and went to his house. i thought it was an emergency so i ran. it usually takes me 25min to get to his house but this time it took me only 15.min. but i got there he answered the door(he had a big mark on his face)(from his dad) and looked at me i helded his face and asked him what happened and he told me.i gave him a really big hug and i kissed his bruse.But my question is now he wont talk to me. But he tells all my friends that im the ONE for him but he continues not to talk to me and he ALSO has a girlfriend Please help me...... i beg you.... thank you!!!!
Ohhhh by the way not only does he tell my friends that im the ONE for him he brages that im a great kisser!please help me!i rate high....(16-FEMALE)
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Boy's are weird. From my own experience in this arena, he needs you, but he also wants to protect you. He's in a no win situation, but then so are you. HE needs to get out of his parent's house, and he's probably waiting to go off to college or something to escape them. (Bet he's looking into military.) The girlfriend thing is a neat twist, he probably doesn't want to break up with her and hurt her, but it's you he calls when he needs someone he can trust. I bet that kiss knocked him on his ass. It meant you care about him, much more than a kiss on the lips would have shown him. He's running scared in more ways than three. He won't talk about it, unless I miss my guess, until he has can control his emotions around you. You two are in for a long hard road, but things can get better. If he can get some help with the family situation and serious coucling he may turn out alright. I been in a similar relationship, good luck!!
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lol well it seems that he just wants to get some space and think things over after being in a huge fight with his dad.. you need to talk to him though one on one and try to work out both of your feelings
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umm no sorry but i wasnt called a slut people down here if the giirls are sacred to do more shyt then juss kiss they get called prude!! yu dont get called a slut if yu kiss!!! so i dont no wut yur talking about i juss no that im 14 nd did a lot more then you!!!
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he may not be talking to you because he may be scared that you will run and tell some authority person and just get him in more trouble with his dad. he may also have a gf to get his mind off of you for a while because he may think that you are just a really really good friend and that you dont think of him as a boyfriend type. Find out if something is wrong and then go from there.
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it sounds like he is very shy around you. but also, he seems very anxious to spend time with you! First I think he should turn his dad in to the police, but that's beside the point. Maybe he wants you more than his current girlfriend and doesn't know what to do! I say give him a chance, maybe flirt a little bit, see what comes out of it! LUCK
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Frist of all talk to him about turning hs father into the police. Then make him talk to you aboujt the whole situation with the girlfriend and the ONE. Hope i helped a little but its up to you.
-beccers_boo
plase keep me posted
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alright he might be ashamed for being with u at his house. and maybe his gf had a problem with it. tell him if ur realy the one then he needs to figure out what hes going to do. ur a great friend. but tell him how u feel like u feel ignored talk to him
so he wasnt going out with her? oh well then im not sure what u could do sorry
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You should Tell someone!
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hi. you can try to pull him aside and ask him why he isn't talkin to you and why he's telling his friends that ur the one and he ends up having a girlfriend and not speaking to you. i kno its easier said then done but if you dont ask him straight up then you never kno wut he's thinking and things...but unlike me i believe you have more guts to just go up to him and ask him why. or drop him a little note saying to meet u somewhere and you guys can talk about it. hope this helps. take care. x3 SweetStar.
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