about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

alright so I like this guy but now he has a girlfriend..yea my friend =/ ...and my friend knew i liked him and she said yes anyways and the boy knew i liked him and asked her out right infront of myface..totally a BUMMER..i was mad at my friend but should i stilll be or should i act cool like i dont care..and the guy nows i was pissed off but this all happened a week ago...so should i stil be pissed or just be over it..and now how do i act towards the guy..

ill rate 5 for trying!! =)

forget him i think he tryin to see if you would get jealous about that kind of stuff. he isnt worth your time. and your friend right now isnt being a good friend. just shake it off and forget about it.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok

All thats on my mind is sex sex sex babies, masurbuting, vaginas, and penises, naked things, and cum


Thats all i tihnk aobut, i cant get it off my mind. i think im too youung to know about this stuff. Please help me

well you cant control so to be honest with you there is nothin you can do, it jsut takes some time.
*~Stephanie~*

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14.f
im flat chested im a 32 a in bust size, but im really emberrased because i got this bra from VS and its fully padded and its a 34 a cause i know i dont fill it out and its really embarrasing to change in p.e. cause all the girls know i dont fill out my bra but when i wear the 32 a it hurts like my back and makes red marks which isnt healthy but then like a year ago when i did wear a 32 a sometimes when i wear loose shirts my boobs would look like tiny buds that looked really weird
fyi im short like 5'3" and i heard its less noticable if you have a flat chest if your tall, and ive had my period for about a year now.

I'll rate 5 if someome can help me

dont worry. if a guy goes out wit you for the size of your boobs then you better know that he aint goin out with for who you really are but for your boobs.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey Guys, This Has Really been bothering me and I don't know what to do. I Knew what sex was when I was about 6 years old. I'm 13 Now. But I'm Worried that I wasn't Raised Right. I mean Most Kids don't even know what Making Out is When their like 7!! But I Knew! Was I or Am I Normal??? No SmartAzz's About This....Thanks

when you are a kid you are curious abotu a lot and learn a lot fast. it is truely normal. dotn worry about it.
*~Sephanie~*

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okay so i met this guy like dec. 20th @ a bball game. and we exchanged numbers. :] he called me like wed. night and we talked for like 2 hours. [ i think i like him] he said he would call me the next day after his game. he never did, i tried to call him but he didn't pick up. and i did the next day & his phone was off. idk what to think. if it means anything.. do you think he will ever call me?
thanks x0ox ♥

if he doesnt call you back then forget him dont bother with a guy that doesnt care. i mean it wont be your loss but his.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok theres this guy that asked me out i met him BEFORE MYSPACE. now he asked me out on myspace and way before he said do you want to hang out sometime this week but that was like 2 monthes ago and i asked if he wanted to hang out again.
it said he read it but no reply. and i left a bulletin saying something about this guy and this other guy because i asumed we wernt going out. and he replyed to that saying..that boy you like better be me. and im like. yeah it is lol. WICH WAS A HUGE MISTAKE. so what do you guys think. is he playing me? i mean it seems like he dosnt want to do anything. if he asked me out why dosnt he talk to me? PLEASE HELP ME IM CONFUSED.

INEEDHELPBAD

this guy is wastin your time dont let him do that. go find someone that will like just as much or even more than you like them. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is gatorade healthier/better than water?

in a way. the only problem with gatorade is the sugar that water doesnt have.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey everyone,
Usually i dont come here unless it's a TOTAL emergency--sadly this is one of those times. My brother, Dustin is in love with this girl, Samantha. Now, my brother lives in Lousiville, TX and she lives in Houston (it's 6 hours away). But Dustin dosent do long distance relationships because he cant see her in real life, he cant kiss her, he cant hold her, etc. So he feels that he cant go out with her. Now, Samantha and her best friend told him that Dustin is Samantha's only reason to live, and she'll probably kill herself without Dustin. So Dustin, NEVER cries--and he's crying. Dustin tried to cut himself last night, but couldnt because his blade wasnt sharp. So i ask of you all, wtf should we all do? I mean, it's a life or death situation for both of them, and i dont want ANYONE dying here, so it's really hard for me to figure this out on my own. If anyone can help me,or anything to help me with, Please reply and/or IM me on AOL/AIM at silverwolf1561. Thankyou, SO much!

long distance realtionship are hard but if they both got love for each other( it sounds liek they do) they can make it work. to be honest with you i am in a long distnace realiton were i get to see my boyfriend once a week or once ever 2 weeks and it has been 6 months and everythign is going great. it will be hard not to see each other often but they can make it work. tell me to at least try it. because in the end everythingat happens will be for a reason. and hopefully everything will work out for you and your brother..
*~Stephanie~*

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My ex and I broke up about 2 weeks ago due to what seemed like a loss of interest on his side... but as time has progressed we both have admitted to each other that mutual feelings still exist. Even so, he is, to be blunt, somewhat emotionally inept and has a hard time letting himself go. He would need to mature more in that area before we could really get into anything serious again.

So, my no win situation is, there are a couple of people who want to date me. I don't want to date other people and lead them on if I'm still into my ex and will probably stay that way, but I also don't want to miss out on everything just because I'm waiting on him. Plus, dating people is a nice way to forget about the situation at hand and have some fun. How do I go about this?

you never know until you take a chance. i think you should take a chance with one of these guys that like you and see what happens.yea you will wait for a guy but for how long? you cant wait forevr and let life pass you by. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hi advicenators :D

well, i am an icon maker on iconator (and if you've ever been there you know that there are millions of idiots who have nothing better to do then i/m you), so sosmeone imed me long enough for me to say "who is this", and then warned me. I was justs wondering, do warnings go away? How long does it take to go away? And also, i tried to warn HER, but it wouldnt let me; why is this?

it will go away after signin on and off. it wont do anything bad to you really. soem advice block people that do that to you dont let people do tht kind of stuff to you.
*~Stephanie~*

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well theres this boy i think he likes me but im not sure we always talk on the phone abd stuff
he always joking around and stuff to!

how can u tell when he likes you??

flirt with him and see how he reacts. it sounds like he does.
*~Stephanie~*

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k dont tell me im stupid or anything but me and my boyfriend had sex and te comdom fell off in me but he could still see the top of it and stuff and he said he didnt cum that much.....wat is the chance of me gettin pregnant and not gettin pregnant? plz tell me

there is always a 50/50 chance and it sucks that it fell in you but what you need to do is take a pregnance test.good luck.
*~Stephanie~*

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Mi friend jus gave me a hickey. She was suckin' on mi neck and kinda bittin' it, I wanted to give her one bacc, but I don't kno how to. Can someone please tell me, what do I need to kno about hickeys? Please Help

all you have to do is suck on the skin and make a hickey. it really isnt complicated fi you think about it.
*~Stephanie~*

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Can anyone give me good brands of Hair Straightners? Doesn't matter if expensive, just the best brands in your perspectives. Thanks.
NaImEE ♥

Conair. i think it is great. make sure to get it cermaicthough.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok here is the truth. I'm in basketball and I'm not played a lot. I like playing the sport and I'm good at it, but my coach thinks that the starters should play all the time. I know playing time doesn't matter and it's the whole team as one, but I WANT to play. I'll finish out this year, but what should I do about next year.(it'll be my senoir year so I feel like one more year won't kill me)BUT, I DONT want to be in a sport that makes me feel sad. HELP!

prove to your coach at pratice that you are good enough to play and should be allowed to play.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ohk i notcie this big time do you?

When people say they are tottaly in love with boyfriend/girlfriend. for exmaple on myspace in the about me section people say yes im in love with my wonderful boyfirned/girlfriend or they have tons of pictures and him/her the first one on your top eight. But as soon they break up all words and pictures gone .. like he/she fell off the face of the earth.

Is thatplaying around with the words love in anyway? like i still have my ex boyfriends picture up on my myspace and we broke up 7months ago.

thanks

when people break they try avoidin the picture and try to stop thinkin about the other person. it doesnt always mean they dont love them still but they are tryin to get over the fact that they arent theres anymore and it makes it easier for them.
*~Stephaqnie~*

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Ok, so I have this one guy friend, who I happen to like. But, he really really likes another girl. And I'm fine with that, but the problem is that this girl only likes him as a friend. Like at the dance they were dates and she was dancing with another guy...and i saw her grab him. And he looked really sad, so i got to dance with him. But out of the corner of his eye i could see he was watching her the whole time and I could tell he was sad. To me it kinda seems like a love triangle. I like him. He likes her. She likes someone else. Does anyone have any ideas of what to do?

sorry its kinda confusing and long

honestly there is nothing you can do.. you just got to let him figure it out the hard way. and if he gets just be there to help him out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey I have an account, the name is Angie. Probably some of you have seen my account thing. Well anyways, I was banned about a year ago for being 12. My account was supposed to be unbanned Nov. 27, 2005 and now it is Dec. 11, 2005. I lost my password so I typed in my email and reset it. It said a new password waa being sent to my email but I never got one and I re-typed my email correctly over and over again but I still did not get an email. I looked at FAQ and emailed admin@advicenators.com but now I do not know what to do. Please help me! thanks
~Angie

just make a new account.. that would eb the easiest thing to do.
*~Stephanie~*

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i am 13/f. Well theres this guys that i love. we are good friends we can tell each other pretty much anything cause we are going through pretty much the same stuff. and well he really likes my twin sister and he dosnt know i like him but my sister is always getting in the way of me ever getting a guy cause once they see my sister they like her and not me cause of her looks and body.
my sister also likes him and she knows how i feel about him and there about to go out with each other. what do i do?

you got to be smarter than your sister. back off and leave them alone. i mean i noe it is fucked up what she is doin to you but if she goes out with him and you fidn urself a new she cant take him away from you because she has a bf.let ur sister be like that but watch she will regret it all in the future.
*~Stephanie~*

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So I got in a fight with this guy that I was basicly seeing and it was because I got jelouse when i heard he was hanging out with other girls. I really want him back cause Im head over heals for him.
What can I do to get him back?

talk to him about it and tell him how you feel about it. explain to him that it was just jealous and you dont want it to ruin ur realtionships.
*~Stephanie~*

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