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why do people do this..?
Ohk i notcie this big time do you?
When people say they are tottaly in love with boyfriend/girlfriend. for exmaple on myspace in the about me section people say yes im in love with my wonderful boyfirned/girlfriend or they have tons of pictures and him/her the first one on your top eight. But as soon they break up all words and pictures gone .. like he/she fell off the face of the earth.
Is thatplaying around with the words love in anyway? like i still have my ex boyfriends picture up on my myspace and we broke up 7months ago.
thanks
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wellits normal to have the pictures still there as long as you are still friends if you guys dont talk and arent friends then i would say take them off...
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Alot of people think they are "in love". I'm not gonna lie, I even think I could be. But chances are, half of them are just going through "puppy love", or lust. Lust is like you NEED the person in your life. Most teens experience lust, instead of love. I think people think it's cool to be in love, so they pretend that's what it is. Lol, however..maybe you are experiencing love, and maybe your friends are too. But i have noticed this and I, personally, don't think love occurs until you're actually mature enough to know what it is. And when you are in love..you won't need anyone to tell you that you are. So your friends are probably NOT in love.
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ya i think that most ppl are just so hurt by a breakup. me and my ex broke up a couple months ago adn ive had a bf since. adn i know i loved him. and he knew it. i still have everything he ever gave me and all of the pics of us together and his senior pics. i think its normal. but ya i noticed that adn it affects me the same way. i hate it
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i think most people love their boyfriend/girlfriend but when they break up alot of those people are so hurt, they get kind of angery and take all those pictures down, not wanting to see their face or hear their name again so basicly, they do love, but when a heart is broken, most people get angry.
ANK
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I guess thats not a problem, if you two are still good friends. If he has a problem with his pictures being up on yoru myspace, then maybe you should take them off. Hope I helped!
-Brina
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Dear Love Confused,
Most people think that they are in love, even when they or not or they could even be in love. People post pictures of themselves and of the people they potentially love because they want everyone in the world to see how happy they are. When you break up with that person, that doesn't mean that they never loved them because they dropped their pictures; it's just that they don't want to deal with looking at that person on a day to day basis. Love hurts sometimes, expecially when it ends. You and your ex are friends, right? I thought so. It might not be that exact situation for everyone else. Get my drift. Happy holidays.
♥ Miss Moo
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It could either be that they are avoiding the potential pain of looking at their ex, as has already been said, or it could be that they are just throwing around the word 'love.' Unfortunately, people don't seem to have much respect for the word anymore, just like they don't have respect for anything else.
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when people break they try avoidin the picture and try to stop thinkin about the other person. it doesnt always mean they dont love them still but they are tryin to get over the fact that they arent theres anymore and it makes it easier for them.
*~Stephaqnie~*
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When people break up they find it easier to move on when they take the pictures off and other things they have written about their girlfriend/boyfriend.
I wouldnn't call it playing around with words.
It's just something alot of people do.
I admit it doesn't really help to move on it just hurts you even more.
But when you are really hurt after a breakup you feel like you want to erase all the memories but you really can't.
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