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I'm Almedina. I'm foreign, and I'm pretty much ready to handle whatever life throws at me. Ha, pretty random that I go from being foreign to life,but anyways. I've had this column for about two yearsnow, and I don't update it as I should, or want to but with school and this crazy teenage life of mine, it gets pretty hard to do so. I've been giving advice to all my friends since I can remember and I love trying to help them. I'm out going and extrememly loud once you get to know me. I'm usually shy at first unless I've gotten to know you. I don't understand life sometimes. But I've got my whole life to figure out the meaning of it. I'm selfish at times, and stubborn. I care too much about things I shouldn't and not enough about the MOST important things in my life. I'm very annoyed with people at times, and tend to just block everyone out. I'm afraid to say I'm in love, but I'm not afraid of love itself. I'm myself and that's all I can be. I've gone through a lot, so I'm willing to help in whatever way I can (:

advice

ok im a skater and there is this prep at my school..i really like her but i think i have no chance with her because im not vary popular..what should i do??

well first of all popularity isnt everythiinq.. n i think yu shud ask her.. becasue if she cant except yu for yurself then thats mean! because if i were her! i wud go out with yu because i wanna be a skater hehe!! but i d k im more of a prep n i love being a PREP .. shOpiinq here i come hehe but yea ii think yu shud just ask her!! hOpe this helps! xO

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I like this guy and I think he likes me. he dosent pick on any one but me. does he like me

ii definatley think yu like`sz yu!! hes showiinq signs of flirtiinq!! xO

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ok, everytime i start to like a guy, i tell myself im not good enough, and i wonder why any guy would want to be with me. im 14 and have never had a real boyfriend, but i desperately want one. and when i finally do start to think im good enough for the guy, i woory about what his friends and my friends would think... i just dont know what to do...

uMmM FIRST OF ALL dont tell yurself yu rnt gOod enough because yu have many good qualities some guy`sz just dont see because they r ignorant ii think yu shud just take chanche`sz n ask guys out who yu like if yu get rejected then well it happens but mOve on theres plenty fish in the sea!! n some are just right for yu! hOpe this helped xO

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This is mostly to the females out there: What is the most romantic- meaningful gift you've ever received?

well i got`sz this really cute bouquet of red roses! n like a bear n stuff it was really cute!!


tIpp!! if this is for some ideas for yu g*f for valentin`sz day ii think yu shud get her red roses because every girl [[ ii think ]] lOv3s roses ii know i do! hOpe this helps! xO

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okay, i would REALLY like to shed a few pounds and get a nice flat stomach for spring break. I always tell myself that im gonna eat less & drink more water, but i never do, and i get a guilty conscience because i cant ever follow through with my goals. What are some tips that could really inspire me to want to be skinny & loose weight..everytime i start working out it only goes on for about a week..and then i`ll skip a day and say 'well i`ll do it tomorrow, i`m busy tonight" and then never do it the next day, and it just keeps going on and on til i forget about it. im really desperate, anything will help

well ii wanted to lose weight just like yu! but then i lost like 15 pOunds but only because it was a sympton for gettiinq diabetes [[ :( ]] but sOme tips yu can do is make sure yu count yur carbs cause those r the ones that make yu fatter n stuff n drink more water yea good idea but yu shud make yurself excersise at least 5 minutes a day everyday a week ii mean yu can do that right whats 5 minutes [[ like be4 bed so yu can sleep restless or something like that ]] do some yoga it works my cousin lost weight like that! yu cud also run a lil biT!! works great ii love running! hehe but whatever yu do dont use those PILLS or PATCHES they rnt as safe as the people make yu thik they r!!

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My boyfriend and I have been dating since I was in eighth. He is currently a senior and I'm a junior. I haven't made a decision as to where I'd like to go to college yet because I don't want to be far from my boyfriend. Yes, I know I am young but my boyfriend and I wanted to eventually get married and live together when we both got out of highschool. My question is this: Do you think it's the wrong thing to do choosing to go to the same college or one near the college your boyfriend is going to, just to be near to him? I know people that would think it's a stupid idea, but I want to be with my boyfriend. We've talked about it alot and I'm not sure what I'm going to do! I was even thinking about this back when I first started dating him 4 years ago. These four years have gone by fast and I figured I'd have a plan in place by now. I just need help. I don't know where I should go! Also, I don't even know what I want to do for a living, so I was going to see if there was anything at the colleges that he chose. Does that seem like the wrong thing to do? PLEASE HELP! I'm so lost and confused.

well ii dOn`t thiink it`sz wrOng because if yur planniinq a future with him then maybe stayiinq close together wud be best b/c what if one of yu cheat b/c yur soo misrible without each other.. so i doN`t thiink its soo wrOng! hOpe this helpS! xO

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i have 3 best frends and i tell them every thing and its like if i call one of them before the other its like wow there my best friend then when im making my profile i put one of them thrid (i was doing them in random order )and now shes all y do they comer be fore me? i dono there all my best freinds....

weLL ii think yur frii3nd just doesn`t understand.. ii thiink since yur frii3nd gets mad or in other words "jealous" ii thiink yu shud put them all on one line! like here`sz an example if this is confusiinq yu - - >>
my three best frii3nds r maja teza ajsa!
Ajsa*MajA*Teza!
..
....
get it?? well if that dont work then just put on the top NO ORDER!! ii really dont know what to say except yur frii3nd is actiinq jalous over somethiinq stupid like a profile.. :( hOpe it helps xO

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i like this one guy n he said he sorta likes me 2 but he kinda broke my heart b4 so should i like him or not?

same thing happened to me N now the kid likes me too weird hehe but i d k im still thinkiinq what i shud do.. if i make a good decision ill tell yu otay ! hOpe it helps xO

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ok i really like this kid who gose to my school i think hes really cute and sweet and i think i have i big chance to go out with him but being shy is one of my bigest problems... im vary shy when it comes to stuff like this were frends but a few weeks ago he sat down next to me and i could tell my face was turning red and i was shakeing in other words speachless i was grinning ear to ear i like the feeling i get when im around him one of my freinds with him and she told me his number i suck at rembering stuff like that i dont even rember my # but his nuber i cant get out of my head i dont know what to do i try to go up to him and i like trip over my self theres ALOT of people who like him and i know a few ive been asking around and people been saying i have better chances than some of them i dont what to do my frend (whos rele good frends with him to him i liked him he responded back i know... i think he put a spell on me to like him.. ive fallen head over heals.....

aww that`sz very sw3et! but ii think since yu say that yu have a big chance with him i think yu shud just ask him out! N since yu go to my school n liek yur my frii3nd ii cud ask him for yu if yur soo shy because hes in my class or we cud go up to him n we cud ask for yu since hes right by my locker so YEA!! ask him out dont be afraid at all!! dont let this chance run thru yur fingers!! hOpe this helps! xO

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i uaslly baby sit with my two of my best friends and me and and my one friend were just baby sitting for a while and the other gurl dient know then she got all mad and now there baby sitting together and i cant ever be apart of it i try to ask if i can baby sit with one of them in like a few weeks and there always no i we the the "offical babysitters" and its like there always keeping it from me i really like to baby sit and i have fun and and really funny memories i wish we could take turns and it be even weve tried to babysit all three of us yea we got like 6$s each alma i hope you can help with a soultion to this :)

oh .. my mom always tell`sz me 3's a crowd n its true when im with my BFF n we r with one of other frii3nds its like one of use dont excist n i think yu shud talk to yur frii3nds n tell them how yu fe3L because ovibously yur feeliinq left out n i think yu guys shud take turns! or yu guys just shudnt baby sit at all together just one frii3nd baby sits that nite if its causiinq soo much trouble.. ii hope this helps yu. xO!

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see there is this friend and were really good friends wen were just with each otha but wen this otha girl comes in itz lik i dont exsit! we could go get our nailz done and be really good friends but if this other girl called then it would be lik take me home so i can do sumthin wit her and not yu so it is lik she uses me and so i sat by these otha two girlz today at lunch but wen i got to the table the gilr tht is usein me moved in close so i couldnt sit (but i waznt gonna sit there ne wat but still) so she kept lookin at me the whole lunch time and i just dont no wht to do!

weLL .. it se3ms like this frii3n of yurs isnt really a true frii3nd n i d k if she really is usiinq yu but ii think yu shud talk to her.. find out why she didnt let yu sit there.. but umm since i was there when this happened n i saw everything [[ hehe ]] ii think that maybe she was just mad at yu cause it seemed like she was mad at yu for somethiinq sO.. just try to talk to yur frii3nd(s) about this.. ii hope this helps! if not yu can talk to me on my s*n! xO

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ok i want to be a model... i think i have potential (definately not trying to be egoistical) and i really want to find an agency or whatever... im doing a fashion show for my school and its pretty serious so im hoping this will be good for me. im 15 and i would like to know if anyone knows any modeling agencies that are in ohio... yes... ohio... land of excitement... ok well i rate 5s cept if you piss me off... then i will not rate yo a 5
thanks!

ii think yu wud prObally make a greaT mOdel so just keep up the gOoD wOrk but nO i dont know any agencys in ohia b/c ii live in missouri but ii hope sOmeOne can find yu one.. it may be a good idea to ask yur parents to help yu with the modeliinq career! hOpe it helps xO

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Ok. There is this boy that i liked for over a year. i met him when i moved here from flordia. And we became friends right away! and we were kindof going out or whatever. We were getting really close untill i had to move again and we talk on the phone everynight and talk about how much we miss eachother. and he tells me all the time that i will make a perfect wife. Ok know here is where the bad news comes from Im moving back to florida and he is really upset he thinks that i will find someone hotter than him and never come back to see him and just forget about him or something. Ok my question is do you think that we will still talk and maybe work out a relationship together??? Or will we slowly fade away from each other??? ~~~~~~I RATE HIGH~~~~~~~~

ii think yu quys will go back out because it seems like yu quys really like each other so ii think that if yu quys r ment to be together yu will be!! [[ i really think yu quys will go out! hehe]] gOoD lUcK

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