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my boyfriend doesnt find me very attractive.. he thinks i'm cute but not hot, he doesnt seem to have any desire to have sex.. which bugs me lots.. can someone help me with tips to make him want me more? please

If your bf doesn't want you just because your not "HOT"then FUCK HIM. You don't need him. Don't change or do anything just for him to like you more.That's crazy!!You can find someone that loves you for who you are not just because your on considered his so called "HOT". ♥

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okay, so i like this guy and he flirts with me and stuff and i do back. but the problem is that he has a girlfrienf. they have been going out over a month now and i dont know how serious it is. he never bring her up when we talk so i dont know if he knows i knows that he has a girlfriend. but i really really like this guy i mean a whole lot. and i thought he would be my first guy to go out with and we almost danced at charity ball, but he had a girlfriend which i knew, but he never said "no" we just didnt. and he felt bad and asked one of his friends to dance with me. but i said no. does he really like me or am i just like his little pitty friend?? thanks-- michelle

Well you have to understand that he has a girlfriend. At this point i thinks he has feelings for you but just doesn't want to lose her.Just wait til they break up then you really can find out. ♥

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i like this guy who is one year younger then me.he liked my friend before but my friend didnt.i think he still like her couse she is clearly pretier then me.he told me he like her and all and told me im like his pet sis.dat really hurts me.but he doesnt know i like him im acting normal when he around.but i do really like him.what should i do.

Aw babe, just talk to him and tell him how you really feel.You don't have anything to lose.And you never know, he can have the same feelings for you too.Don't say your friend is prettier than you,because you prob just think your not pretty but you are. : ) ♥

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I love this kid. But he's in rehab. And he's not getting back for awhile.

So, when he gets back, how should i tell him i like him?

Duh, I so think you should tell him. I think when you tell him he will be suprised and feel the same way. ♥

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my friend andrew wants to know if u finger a girl if she hasnt had her period is it bad or will anything happen?
thank you

it's fine and nothing will happen ♥

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Ok,...well, There's this kid Ryan, he's like my best guy friend and my ex. He broke up with me because he was busy with baseball and could never see me. Well, when school started, I found out that he was in 3 of my classes.That half of my classes and I go to lunch with him. Anyway a couple of months later, I hooked him up with my 'best friend'. We're just friends now, but we used to be really close. I hooked him up with her, I don't know why. I'm gonna get off track for a sec, but it kind of leads up in a little while. I've always been jealous of Katie, my friend. She's alot prettier and skinner than I am, and guys always like her instead of me. And the guys that I do get, when they break up with me, their next girlfriend is Katie. So I went out with Ryan before Katie did. And this past month, I've relized how much I'm in love with him. I remember all the things we used to do whenever we were little and they're so cute. I told him how I feel and I just wound up getting hurt. He said he didn't feel anything for me, he had this weird feelings for Katie. I asked him why I had this weird feeling for him...I just cried, and I don't know why I love him, I don't want to but I just do! Anything that will help me I'll rate!!!



Sorry it's so long!!!


Thanks in advance



hey aw i had this happen to me before its like you dont want feelings for him but you still have them no matter how hard you try well that means you like him alot but now since he has a gf you cant do much about but wait and it could take a while so as crazy as this sounds just give up on him.dont be jelous of your friend because im sure your really pretty but you just dont think you are but honestly all girls think that about there friends so just move on i know it sounds crazy but its the best thing to do ♥

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I love this boy, but my parents hate his parents and they don't want me to talk to him. We go to the same school and that makes it even harder not to talk to him. His parents didn't tell him anything and he is always trying to get close to me. What should i do?????
i rate high!!!!
from
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just keep on talking to him and doing w.e you were parents shouldnt make decsions for you just dont even tell your parents he is your friend and keep everything to yourself but if you have to tell you parents be like he is NOTHING like his parents ♥

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im 14 there is this guy (i really like him) i talk to online and he was invited to a party where me n my friend n him were like the oldest and then the rest of the kids were our siblings n he didnt talk to me at all n all he did was talk to his lil bro also he like never talks to me at church and after the party we talked about the party and everything it was weird lol what does this mean?

he is just shy alot of guys are like that but just tell him how you feel and he might chage a little ♥

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I have to go on birth control because I keep getting headaches and the doctor said that it will put my hormones back in balance. My question is - Will they ask me if I am sexually active and if so, do I have to tell them. When I do tell them do they tell my mom?

yes, they will ask you but you can just tell them not to tell your mom and they wont because they arent allowed to but be honest ♥

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okay so im 16 and iv had discharge ever since i got my period as a freshman. and i know its always sopose to be clear, but sometimes mine is more of a cream color, and sometimes brown. is that bad? and if you have a infection wat is the "smell?" thank you!

thats not bad at all just be ready because when its a little darker your period is coming soon dont even worry about it babe ♥

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I have a bf and we've been going out for 3 months, but i've kept this hidden from my parents the entire time, i'm 13 mind u, and my mom wont let me have a bf she says its already enough that i've had my first kiss and she found me downstairs cuddling with a guy, with my head on his lap sleeping, i really dont see why i cant have a bf i think she's over reacting bc i know kids my age do way more than kiss or cuddle is she over reacting???? i'll rate high for any suggestions, or anyway to see my boyfriend w/o getting caught thanks

thats so cute how you put your dead on his lap so sexy well just tell your mom he is a good friend and no more and dont have him over when your mom is home go to his house or diff places so your mom wont know , she isnt over reacting she is just being a mom and all moms are like that go to mall or movies and if she sees him be like hes my best friend! ♥

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alright so I like this guy but now he has a girlfriend..yea my friend =/ ...and my friend knew i liked him and she said yes anyways and the boy knew i liked him and asked her out right infront of myface..totally a BUMMER..i was mad at my friend but should i stilll be or should i act cool like i dont care..and the guy nows i was pissed off but this all happened a week ago...so should i stil be pissed or just be over it..and now how do i act towards the guy..

ill rate 5 for trying!! =)

i HATEE when guys think they think are "THE SHIT" going out with your friend he is just trying to make you jelous and dont let him get to you babe forget about him but for your friend just talk to her and see how things go and just act like you dont give a flying fuck and he prob is a jerk cus when guys do that ..they are jerks ♥

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ok well, i was on my computer yesterday and all of a sudden my back and forward button were gone. does any one know what happend or how i can get it back? thank you

5's

go to your internet and then go to view then toolbars then go to standard toolbars and make sure that is checked if not then check it and youll get everything back { ♥ }

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okay ill seriously try to make this short...me & this boy have liked each other for a few years & we've gone off & on going out...now the last time we were pretty much going out he acted like he liked me soo much & he even said it that he liked me more then ever...& he was supposed to ask me out he told so many people that well a few days after he told ppl that he started liking this girl to & I went phsyco becuz he made me promise I wouldnt like n e 1 else...& I didnt I really liked him!well I decided to say I was over him & every1 was happy for me & I like this other guy who I know for a fact will treat me better...deffinently & I'm trying really hard to keep away from the other 1 so I dont go back to him but now he asked me to b a friend where he can tell me secrets & like I dn I guess like BFFs but its so weird going from inluv w/ each other to being BFFs its so different & I kno ill go back to him sooner or later even tho im giving this new guy a chance I just dont know what to think I really dont wunna hurt the new guy by going back I rele like this new guy but I know deep DEEP down I still have feelings for the old 1 even tho hes madly inluv w/ this 1 girl its sad to watch but im tryin to hook them up...I DN WHAT TO DOOO!!

OMG!!THIS SOUNDS SO FAMiLAR..wow well if this isnt a good answer im sorry because im kinda of going through this to. ok well this might sound odd/crazy but you have to be honest with him and her so just tell him that you really like him alot and still have feelings for hiim but he likes her..but to the girl he is in love with just talk to her and tell you how you feel shes a girl im sure she will understand and i know EXACTLY how you feel its like you want to be over him but you just cant no matter how hard you try that means you really like him alot.so just be open with everyone and tell them how you feel but its not that easy to get over someone you LOVE a whole lot but bff's leads to going out so watch for that i hope i helped if anything else just ask { &hearts }

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im not sure if the other 1 went through so ill rite again. what do girls want in a guy.

most girls want a guy to be really sweet and love the girl for who she is not just by looks also most girls want the guy to be taller girls HATE jerks also maybe shaggy hair well thats what i look for but personality matters most ♥

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okay well me and my boyfriend were making out and i was feeling around down there. i started rubbing his nuts and then gently squezzed on one of them. not hard because i didnt want to hurt him but hes like "oww, be careful down there." so i stopped. and then like a week he was complaining that his balls hurt, even before i touched him. is there something wrong with him? i rate 5's

know your prob just hurt him a little he will be fine in a while or so ♥

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I am a 14 year old girl and for a about a year now everyday I have a thick white cream come out of me.. yea I know thats gross but I was just wondering is this natural or should i be worried?

i think thats discharge..its normal and dont be worried just wear a really thin pad ♥

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hey i dont know hoe to say this but.i have an addiction to drugs.not just 1 like alot.marajuana,cocaine and ecstasy and i seem to have sex alot when im taking them.i cant stop.i dont wana tell my dad becuase he'll go crazy.

DAVID! this so is you haha your on crack i swear love yahh ♥

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Okay, well let me first describe the boy I think I like. Lets call him Z. Alright, well Z is a really nice and all around cool kid! But, he likes me and evrything, it's just he also thinks other girls are also hot. He has gone out with other girls and when he was going out with them, he would call me sexy and stuff, so when he was going out with other girls, he was also flirting with other girls too. He's nice to me and I go a lot of places with him. I'm not even sure if I really like Z a whole lot.

Well my question is, should I go out with him? Or do you think he would flirt with other girls, too?

sorry if its long = )!
thank you.

he sounds like he will flirt with girls when you 2 go out just stay friends with him because he will end up being a HUGE flirt ♥

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well there is a problem as you know or i wouldnt be here. I was talking with my gf and then i came to this website and red what she said about me. she obviously likes her ex too but she doesnt know who to pick. i love her and i would do anything for her but she doesnt see that in me. she said that it seams like i dont care and shes nothin special to me but ahh.... it just makes me sad. i really dont want to break up with her please help. p.s. i am a 14 yr old MALE

you sound so cute but you just have to prove how much you love her and thay youd do anything to be/stay with her also talk to her and tell her you love her and are willing to do anything to stay with her im sure she will relize hwo much you love her if not she is missing out on one heck of a guy ♥

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